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 Jun 25 2004, 10:10 PM
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hey.
well, I liked this guy who was 2 years older than me and he liked me back (or so he said). I first actually met him in person at the movies and we hit it off right there. somehow he got my number from one of my friends and we ended up talking until 3 in the morning about useless things that I woud never talk about with a guy I'd just met(EX: if I was a virgin or not... although I never answered him). he came to my school a couple times, hugged me and asked when we could hook up so he could see me... I told him to call me. This went on for, like, 2 months and then one day I got pissed at him because he was being a huge jerk... so I hung up on him. it turns out he's a big butt hole and now he likes this girl at my school that is perfect. She has everything that everybody wants... (I'm not a nerd or anything... she's actually one of my friends... but she's just really pretty and I get jealous sometimes). I can't get over him!! I don't know why because he was a total and complete jerk to me and my friends... and I only hung out with him once ... but I don't know!! please help me!! <33 
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Jun 25 2004, 10:41 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
You'll get over him. Don't worry. Let time pass, and you'll see.
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Jun 25 2004, 10:56 PM
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Yeah, that's right. Time always heals. But time doesn't mean a day or two kay deary? Ya gotta hang in there. If he's really the jerk you say he is, he practically doesn't deserve you then. Leave him be, your prince charmin will roll in anyday, just b patient kayz?
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Jun 25 2004, 10:58 PM
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Don't worry. As the previous posts have said, time will heal.
Try to get out there and have some fun. Go out with your girlfriends. You'll find someone new and better, I'm sure. 
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Jun 25 2004, 11:04 PM
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You will obviously get over him and forget about it.
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Jun 25 2004, 11:26 PM
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Time will heal... Sometimes I think that line is bull. It's true but how much time have I wasted crying?
Like you said, he's a jerk. He's not worth it. Find someone else. |
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Jun 26 2004, 12:14 AM
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thanks a lot guys! you made me feel waaayyy better. thanks
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Jun 26 2004, 11:09 AM
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This happened to me like a few times.
 it's just a small crush. you'll get over it. 
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Jun 26 2004, 12:07 PM
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they have this control over us. you know... but he was a jerk so you shouldn't worry about not having him. Let her have him and see what a jerk he is
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Jun 26 2004, 12:10 PM
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im' edible Group: Member Posts: 1,529 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,022 |
first CUT all connections yo have with him. u'll get over it. soon you wont know he is even alive.
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Jun 27 2004, 12:12 AM
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QUOTE(v0lc0mbAbE13 @ Jun 25 2004, 10:10 PM) hey. well, I liked this guy who was 2 years older than me and he liked me back (or so he said). I first actually met him in person at the movies and we hit it off right there. somehow he got my number from one of my friends and we ended up talking until 3 in the morning about useless things that I woud never talk about with a guy I'd just met(EX: if I was a virgin or not... although I never answered him). he came to my school a couple times, hugged me and asked when we could hook up so he could see me... I told him to call me. This went on for, like, 2 months and then one day I got pissed at him because he was being a huge jerk... so I hung up on him. it turns out he's a big butt hole and now he likes this girl at my school that is perfect. She has everything that everybody wants... (I'm not a nerd or anything... she's actually one of my friends... but she's just really pretty and I get jealous sometimes). I can't get over him!! I don't know why because he was a total and complete jerk to me and my friends... and I only hung out with him once ... but I don't know!! please help me!! <33 welllz... cant say much get buh juss 2 get over him.... i was lyk dat 2 buh he flirts wit my frwnedz.... and it got meeh so jealous dat i wont even talk 2 him no more.. and since we have da same class.. wen peoples be sayin thing bout him 2 meeh i act lyk i dunt care...buh 1tym i flick him off and he was sooo mad... he ask meeh was wrong and i talk2 him bout it buh he end up sayin i change im not lyk dat person u use 2 noe now.. i was realli mad buh now meeh and him r cool.... buh we still dunt talk... soo juss 4 get bout him... |
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Jun 27 2004, 10:46 AM
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 Iams KILLS cats & dogs! Group: Member Posts: 31 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,157 |
dont worry hun. just don't talk to him whatsoever, as time passes, your feelings will pass too. these flings never stay imprinted in our minds. you'll be over him in no time. just make sure you keep yourself busy like hanging out with your friendss. goodluckkkk !
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Jun 27 2004, 11:44 AM
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Yeah that's basically what I'm going through now. But whatever it is, you'll still have your friends and I think you deserve much better than him. There are plenty of other guys in this world. lol I should take that advice myself... heh.
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Jun 27 2004, 03:42 PM
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dont wry.. it gets easier..
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Jun 28 2004, 01:19 AM
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alright if hes being a jerk then its not worth it but you'll get over him in time trust me its just one of those things where you still like him untill you find someone new to like that will be nice and sweet or you'll just stop liking him and move on
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Jun 28 2004, 03:49 PM
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save a horse...ride a cowboy! Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,125 |
my situation is about the same. he didn't go to my school he just lives close by me and we used to go to school together. he liked me and then i started liking him. the last time he broke up with me but he was being really mean and i see him ride by on his dirtbike and i just can't help but crying over him when i should be happy i don't have to take it....basically what i'm saying is girls like guys that are a little bad and aren't sweet ALL the time
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Jun 28 2004, 05:08 PM
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 Sweet n' Sexy Group: Member Posts: 146 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,489 |
aww dont worry time heals all, before you know it a wonderful new man will be in your life and youll forget all about him
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