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Being replaced, sucks
Melissa
post Feb 3 2008, 01:13 AM
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I know I'm being irrational, but here goes.

I have this really close guy friend. We're not best friends, we're just really close. We've got ... this whole vibe; he understands me, I understand him, we have our own "language" and basically, we connect pretty freaking well and I like it that way.

Today he started getting to know this other girl on my floor that I like and have no problem with... until things started to feel like she was trying to replace me. She saw a few pictures of the two of us (him and I) on his phone and suddenly, she wants a picture with him and takes like, ten million pictures of the two of them together on his phone. I know it's petty and immature, but it irked me a little, but then I was like "oh well, whatever." We're all in the floor lounge together and she starts talking to him about how omg, you and I are so ALIKE! you're like me in a guy's body! blah blah blah blah blah f**king blah!!!. Then it's like they keep talking and getting closer and I'm just sitting there staring at the TV and pretending not to be annoyed.

It's not like he has no other female friends and it's not like I even really care if he does or doesn't, it's just that... the two of them are acting exactly how he and I act and suddenly, it's like after two f**king hours, they've got their own little inside jokes and if I want to talk to him, he's too busy talking to her! Our friendship has been six months in the making and she talks to him for a few hours and suddenly, I feel like I'm replaced!

I WANT the two of them to be friends and all, I'm not saying I have a problem with that... it's just that... I feel so expendable. =[
 

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heartquasm   Being replaced   Feb 3 2008, 01:13 AM
yrrnotelekktric   do you like him, or do you honestly just see him a...   Feb 3 2008, 02:27 AM
synkro   imo, all friends are expendable. but to get back ...   Feb 3 2008, 02:54 AM
S-Majere   QUOTE(synkro @ Feb 3 2008, 02:54 AM) imo,...   Feb 3 2008, 03:53 PM
DoubleJ   Indeed it is, but I must admit, this is very child...   Feb 3 2008, 04:12 PM
heartquasm   ^ Not really, unless you're talking about one ...   Feb 3 2008, 05:12 PM
S-Majere   He knows you're his better friend. No worries   Feb 3 2008, 05:20 PM
stephinika   ^^ Exactly. She's probably doing it for the at...   Feb 5 2008, 03:06 PM
DoubleJ   True indeed Majere, as a guy, we all know who are ...   Feb 5 2008, 03:42 PM
B-NOX   I LEARNED THE PRESENT PERFECT   Feb 5 2008, 03:43 PM
miyashu   QUOTE(B-NOX @ Feb 5 2008, 03:43 PM) ...   Feb 5 2008, 05:39 PM
AskAlice   Girls have a tendency to act that way when they ha...   Feb 5 2008, 10:08 PM
heartquasm   Well, we had an argument over something stupid and...   Feb 8 2008, 11:19 PM
agiri   Maybe he's into her romantically.   Feb 11 2008, 04:31 PM
heartquasm   ^ I thought that, too, but we actually had a talk ...   Feb 11 2008, 11:13 PM
BrandonSaunders   Once you come to grips with the truth, it'll m...   Feb 19 2008, 01:30 PM
heartquasm   QUOTE(BrandonSaunders @ Feb 19 2008, 01:3...   Feb 24 2008, 02:03 AM
Joss-eh-lime   whooa this SAME thing happened with me, but the gu...   Feb 23 2008, 12:51 AM


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