breaking up, what did you/they say to end it? |
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 Jan 30 2008, 09:52 AM
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 I just like to smile, smiling's my favorite :-)  Group: Official Member Posts: 3,008 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 601,399  |
i was just wondering.... im not trying to break up with anyone.
i just wanted a good laugh. 
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Jan 30 2008, 01:26 PM
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 Serious As A Heart Attack. Group: Member Posts: 2,292 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,344 |
im usually up front && straight forward && i'll flat out say "i just dont want to be with you anymore.." && give them the reasons why. it sux tho cos one time it really was a "its not you, its me" type of thing. i was at a point in my life where i just..didnt want to be in a relationship. i cared about the guy a lot && he didnt do anything wrong. it was just the point in my life that i was at. so i told him "its not you, its me" but i elaborated on it..
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Jan 30 2008, 05:17 PM
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 The Fire Element. Group: Member Posts: 57 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 586,191 |
When I used to date I would just tell the guy striaght up with I wanted to break up keeping him around with no sign of love is just leading him on in which case I find is so wrong.
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Jan 30 2008, 05:51 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
I told him, "I think we should break up," we talked about it, and it was mutual.
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Jan 30 2008, 06:01 PM
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 Resource Center Tyrant Group: Official Member Posts: 2,263 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,306 |
I asked him with conviction, "Why do you keep breathing?" And then it was over.
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Jan 30 2008, 06:29 PM
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 Call me Britt :] Group: Member Posts: 144 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,944 |
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 I told him that I didn't "want to do this anymore"...and then he laughed at me like I wasn't being serious.Hah. We barely talk now. |
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Feb 1 2008, 02:23 PM
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 i did your boyfriend Group: Official Designer Posts: 3,335 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,071 |
When i moved to California from Boston, I was trying a long distance relationship with my bf at the time. When I lived in Boston, and we were able to see each other all the time, it was great. We enjoyed just being together. But when I moved away, we had to rely on conversation, and the truth was that we never had anything to talk about. We weren't anything alike. So one day I called him and was just like "Is there really a point anymore?"
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Feb 1 2008, 02:25 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 48 Joined: Jan 2008 Member No: 611,875 |
i told her that i thought it would be better if we were friends and that i was a bad boyfriend...
in reality though the chemistry just faded, we are still great friends |
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Feb 1 2008, 09:18 PM
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 The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
Thankfully, I have never been put into this situation. I must say though, I have seen some breakups, and boy were those not pretty. My friend told her ex:
Girl: Listen you are not filling it right Ex: Huh what do you mean not filling it? Girl: You aren't hitting the right spots! Ex: What, I don't get it?! Girl: n*gga yo dick is to lil. I need somebody who is going to f**k me and obviously you can't. Ex: Um..... Girl: Um yeah.... Me to friend trying to break weird moment: So are we going to head to the mall now or not? |
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Feb 1 2008, 11:13 PM
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 That's what she said. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,559 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,200 |
"I don't think a relationship is what I need right now."
That's the famous one.  Its not too harsh or too polite. But just right!
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Feb 2 2008, 10:42 AM
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Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
To Javonn's post: Wow. Public breakups = no-no.
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Feb 2 2008, 11:45 AM
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I just like to smile, smiling's my favorite :-) Group: Official Member Posts: 3,008 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 601,399 |
QUOTE(DoubleJ @ Feb 1 2008, 09:18 PM)  Thankfully, I have never been put into this situation. I must say though, I have seen some breakups, and boy were those not pretty. My friend told her ex: Girl: Listen you are not filling it right Ex: Huh what do you mean not filling it? Girl: You aren't hitting the right spots! Ex: What, I don't get it?! Girl: n*gga yo dick is to lil. I need somebody who is going to f**k me and obviously you can't. Ex: Um..... Girl: Um yeah.... Me to friend trying to break weird moment: So are we going to head to the mall now or not? i think i just had OJ come out of my nose! lmao |
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Feb 2 2008, 07:41 PM
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The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
QUOTE(Synesthesia @ Feb 2 2008, 10:42 AM) To Javonn's post: Wow. Public breakups = no-no. I know, it was like very awkward. I actually stood there for a moment and felt bad for the poor guy, but then I had to make the situation cease so I came up with the ender lol! |
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Feb 3 2008, 09:21 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 682 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 580,818 |
my first gf (we were together a week) broke up with me when i told her i was going to church on Sunday
Her: Lets go shopping tomorow morning Me: I cant...im goin to church Her: You go to church?? Me: Yea...Every Sunday Her: Like you actually want to go or you just have to?? Me: No...i Like goin Her: Argh!! Watever and i never heard from her again  ARGGH!!!! i hate ppl like that |
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Feb 3 2008, 09:36 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,750 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,581 |
"Hello, goodbye!"
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