Huge problem and I have no idea what to do.., Oi! Options

[miyashu]

Toughen the hell up and approach this like a level-headed individual. Common sense prevails. If he can't give up getting off to the younglings, then you need to give him up.

Do you know what they do to sexual predators in prison? Karma's a bitch. Sooner or later, someone that obsessed with kiddies is going to want to act out on it. If that happens, its on you as well.

Agreeing with Brandon on this issue.

Don't beat around the bush and don't feel ashamed to approach your boyfriend about it. Take control of this situation and be direct with your feelings. Sometimes, there just isn't a 'better' way to say things.

Best of luck.

[oXMuhNirvanaXo]

i really agree with everyone's suggestions and advice. i understand that you love this man but if he loved you like he says, then he wouldn't need pics of younger little girls and what's worse: in their underwear!!!

there is a fine line right here of a future pedophile and therapy is the only option for him unless he wants to go to jail. unfortunately he stopped loving you when he started looking at little girls' pic. he may have love for you, but may not still be in love. if you were 13 right now and a 19 year old was so interested in you that he wanted pics of you in your underwear, then you would probably worry and tell your parents. i may not be an expert but i really think that this is something very serious that it needs to be solved immediately.

I know but just because he looks at little girls does not mean that he dosent love me. I know many other men that look at porn maybe not little kid porn and still love their other half. It's just a male thing. Things don't change just because he looks at little girls insted of 50 year olds.. He is a really trobled person I am not going to say that he is not. He has depression problems.. he is bipolor.. he has mood swings rapidly.. He even said once that he tryed to kill him self once in middle school but he said that he will never do it again... he is very hard to get along with sometimes and he hates to go out and do things. He hates my friends and seems never happy with anything. He also says shit that pisses me off and really hurt. Don't get me wrong. He makes me happy when he is happy. I really don't know what I would do with out his sorry ass. He is amazing when he is in a good mood. He has pills for his depression which helps. I mean I don't always get calls of him crying on the phone. That happend once. It was bad plus I was drunk. It just didn't work. I know I am saying alot of really bad things right now but I am telling you who he is. He is a big part of my life. Maybe I should go on break. Think about things. Would that help?

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To leave on a good note last Thursday I got my wisdom teeth out and I have been really sick. He stayed over and took care of me for a few days. Even when I puking so its not like he does not love me. Tomorrow is our annaverery. 2 years and 4 months

[Melie]

well congrats on your anniversary! i hope that your bf is seeing a therapist. meds work great but you need the therapy with it or else it's just there to calm you down. i know, i take meds too. but what i'm still concerned with is how you're not at all phased by the fact that he still looks at little kids in their underwear?

[malimars]

Yuck thats disgusting!! Its guys like that , that make this world sick!! sorry but its true & some guy in my town who was a bus driver just got caught with pics just like that on his computer & yet he was a bus driver for little kids!! you being his girlfriend of 2 years should help him in some way... right now its just a fetish and he likes pictures but wait until he wants to act on these things with little girls!! I wouldnt stay with that no matter how long I was with him especially something that serious!! but heyy its your choice just voicing my Opinion!!

[JokeInsideJoke]

how did you feel about him before you knew about this?

[oXMuhNirvanaXo]

how did you feel about him before you knew about this?

What a random question. I felt like I knew him. It seems like I don't. I felt happy and joyful that I was his and he was mine. I felt a sence of pride in him because he is amazing even though he has problems. I felt safe and sacure. I still feel all these things and they will never change. No matter what fedishes he has for other things. Even if he liked to rape dogs in the ass. I would still feel this way. I love him and I probley always will. I am proud to say it.

I finaly talked to him and told him how I felt the hole sha-deal.I told him that I was really irritated with the fact that he thought little girls are attractive. He says that it is a problem and he said its not like he is going out looking for little girls to rape.. he said it was sick. I agreed. He said we will work with this problem together and we will deal with it in our own way. Even if that means going to a shrink. We love eachother and it is ok to get annoyed with the people that you love. It cant be all happy joy joy all the time we would go insane. I do also think that I will take pictures of myself and get rid of the other porn. That's a start right?