I wish she'd stop complaining. Options

[YumiTsubaki]

My friend and I got into a fight. She kept complaining about how she was getting called fat and all this crap. And it annoyed me.
One day she decides to take a break from going to the site we met on. I'm kinda happy about this but I'm sad. I told her I didn't expect anything to be the same.

Btw, it's a Harry Potter themed site so ... a lot of our talking has to do with such. But anyway, Hufflepuff reelections are here. And she's back. It seems to me that she came back because well, the elections. wtf?

I ask her why she came back.
She says she was feeling better.
I say "That's good. I guess."
"Yeah. I guess."

And we(there were three of us) start talking about movies.

I'll just start from where it really ... began.

Her: Go see Cloverfield with some friends.

Me: I'm cool.
I don't see movies every one else is seeing.

Therefore i'm cool. >.>

Her: Oh well.
I havent been to the movies since my parents went to see the new Halloween movie.

Its not like I go everyday.

Me: And I wasn't saying you did, was I?
I don't think so.

I was simply saying that I don't go to the movie theaters like everybody else to see all these hip movies such as Cloverfield or Juno.Me:And I wasn't saying you did, was I?
I don't think so.

I was simply saying that I don't go to the movie theaters like everybody else to see all these hip movies such as Cloverfield or Juno.

Her: What is your deal?
I know you said things wouldnt be the same.
But you dont have to be such a blahhhhh about it.
I mean, seriously. Do you even care? No, you dont.
If you did, you would owl me like everyone else did.
If you did, you would actually talk to me.
If you did, you would be happy I was back.

I thought I would have you forever.
But you cant let me go for two weeks to sort out the hardest things in my entire life. Deal with the hardest things I personally think are the worst things that could happen to a person.


I just dont get you anymore.



Me: You know what? What I really think about you?
I think the reason you're back is because there's a spot open for you in the Huffie staff.

No. I really don't care. I wish you would just stop complaining about your life and how horrible it is.

And you know what? You were the person to say something rude to me. Don't go off on me because I was defending myself. What you said to me was rude. And I don't just take it anymore.

And really. That's all I have to say to you anymore.

Her: I was back because the Huffie Staff opened?

I took a break for two weeks.
If I tried to log on, I got a message that said:
"You cannot log in until January 27th at 7:12pm."
How the hell would I even know?

And you think I have it good? Try dealing with being called a retard at school, fat & ugly, having your parents get a divorce after a 14 year marriage, having your friends turn their backs on you and spreading stupid rumors that arent even true, having to go to a counselor twice a week, sitting alone on the bus because no one likes you, and having basically your own friends on the internet.

What did I say that was rude? I was talking to you. I said I was feeling better. Your reply? "Oh. Thats cool. I guess."

Thats real support.
And it must have been something I said recently, because you sent me an owl back after I left and you were talking to me.


So really, you should back your crap up before you judge me.

Me: That's exactly what I'm talking about, Alyssa. This crap about being called fat, and always complaining about it. This stuff about people calling you names and you being hurt everyday at school.

I don't support you if it's not obvious.

And what about that time you owled me asking if I was drunk, if I'd ever smoked. wth was that about? You treated me like I was some sort of person that needed rehab. I already went through that divorce crap when I needed my father the most.
I know what it's like to have friends only on the internet. Because that's what's happening exactly right now.
I'm sick of you and your complaining. Take it elsewhere, like the GB because I don't really care. I never really did actually.

If you have anything else or if you'd like to continue this fight, do so in owls because I'm sure no one wants to see us fighting anymore.

Her: You really do know how to make people feel like crap.

Im so glad this friendship is over.
To be honest, I really thought you were my friend all this time.
I guess I was wrong because friends are supposed to support you and help you with your problems - not to tell you to shut up.

This is exactly why I left.
And its not helping you or me in any of this, and I just cant take it.

Im sorry I entered your life with a true friendship.

And the last letter you sent me I was talking about you being 13, not 14.
And the whole drunk thing - dont brag about drinking wine if you dont expect those kind of questions.

Im done.




(Sorry it's long.)

From there I just stopped talking to her.

What do I do?
I don't want our friendship back. I want to know how to ignore her without being annoyed by everything she says to people.
Do you think I was wrong to be annoyed?