Shy guys, is there a way to see if they're interested x] |
 Jan 12 2008, 05:06 AM
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i know this is so typical :P
but i've been trying to befriend this shy guy for a very long time... well, i haven't gotten the chance to talk to him yet. but i kinda wanted to... test it out first... before talking to him. is there anything i can tell from his looking/staring? cus sometimes... just sometimes... he would look at me in this really creepy way, like u look at him... and he turns his head slightly and he just shifts his eyes at ur direction like: 7_7 (but a slightly less pissed off face)well he does that to a lot of ppl so yeah XD does this mean he has staring problems? cus the way he looks at ppl seems like hes reli defensive of himself or somethin. one time, this was during the beginning of when i first noticed him, he stared right at me... like straight past me or somethin... it did kind of disturb me cus back then i barely knew him and i was just like why the f... is this guy staring at me like this. i had this 'what r u staring at' look on my face and i stared back at him. this lasted for quite a long time like 5 sec. or so and eventually he looked down. so shy == it seemed like he was looking at me but he was thinking of something and just happened to look at me XD this happened another time too but less long and less awkward XD he also joined this group on facebook called 'just b.c i look in ur direction doesnt mean im checking u out.' haha. wow. talk about paranoid == at first i was just  wtf lol xd i hope he wasn't talking about me or somethin! XDso, do u guys have any opinions on this? |
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Jan 12 2008, 05:17 AM
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He might be staring at you cuz of something you're wearing. He might think it's cool or funny looking, it goes either way. You could have a real cool quote or picture on your shirt, but at the same time you could have ketchup on your shirt.
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Jan 12 2008, 10:08 AM
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 ^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
Find a stoic, polite and courteous way of saying, "Stop being a lil' bitch and open the f**k up."
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Jan 12 2008, 10:52 AM
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The only way is to stop being shy yourself and ask him!
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Jan 12 2008, 12:08 PM
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 That's what she said. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,559 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,200 |
Hes probably afraid of being open or having his shell broken.
 Wowie. He seems kinda intimidating and I'm not even the one who knows the guy.
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Jan 12 2008, 01:19 PM
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 The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
I know that I can be shy when it is a really bad girl, but eventually, you have to suck it up, get your balls out of your throat, and get that shit man.
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Jan 12 2008, 02:46 PM
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 An original Harry Potter fan Group: Official Member Posts: 1,469 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 552,023 |
QUOTE(LoveToMySilas @ Jan 12 2008, 12:08 PM)  Hes probably afraid of being open or having his shell broken. Wowie. He seems kinda intimidating and I'm not even the one who knows the guy.yeah I am not as strange as this but when I just sit and stare into space with other people in the room I am just thinking about something or I am being really shy and wishing I could get myself to join in the communication. so sometimes I am "afraid of being open". and yeah this guy would totally intimidate me too. |
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Jan 12 2008, 04:30 PM
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QUOTE(S-Majere @ Jan 12 2008, 07:52 AM) The only way is to stop being shy yourself and ask him! i agree. take the first step and stop being shy too. |
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Jan 12 2008, 04:42 PM
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 Resource Center Tyrant Group: Official Member Posts: 2,263 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,306 |
You're inferring all of this because he looks at you. What the hell? How do you know if he even wants anything to do with you? I look at people all of the time, but that doesn't mean anything.
Talk to him, already, and stop stalking him. Christ. |
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Jan 12 2008, 04:43 PM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
QUOTE(MissHygienic @ Jan 12 2008, 01:42 PM) You're inferring all of this because he looks at you. What the hell? How do you know if he even wants anything to do with you? I look at people all of the time, but that doesn't mean anything. Talk to him, already, and stop stalking him. Christ. Word.  Whitney ftw. 
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Jan 14 2008, 02:04 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 5,166 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 585,858 |
the mo they staree at u.. da betta..
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Jan 14 2008, 04:23 PM
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The Resident Drunk Group: Head Staff Posts: 8,623 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,266 |
^ WOW! Where have you been kiddo?
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Jan 16 2008, 06:17 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 273 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 547,099 |
On a more serious note, just walk up and say hi. If he's shy, you make up for it by being outgoing. Plus, him being shy automatically puts you as the superior figure, so as long as you act it, anything you say is the "right think to say".
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Jan 16 2008, 04:03 PM
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 Jake - The Unholy Trinity / Premiscuous Poeteer. Group: Member Posts: 1,272 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 411,316 |
As a fellow shy guy, I know it's hard for people to tell what they are thinking. Or so, I've been told.
A little tip that will help you get in their head is that alot of shy guys tend to be self conscious. Hence the shyness. And there is a tendancy that women are more self conscious than men. So, if you do befriend him, he will probably be really nice and ask you what you want to do or whatever. Just my two cents. |
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Jan 16 2008, 07:04 PM
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 The Bone Collector Group: Member Posts: 2,860 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,162 |
He joined that group on facebook to let you know that he has no interest, whatsoever, with you.
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Jan 16 2008, 10:15 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 682 Joined: Oct 2007 Member No: 580,818 |
i agree with "IGetSex"
im a shy guy usually you gotta complement him on something like if hes got sunnys on, say there nice or something like that he'll open up eventually just keep pushing not to hard though |
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