How would you react, if one your really close friends (who's a guy) told you he was gay |
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| *yrrnotelekktric* |
 Jan 15 2008, 12:28 AM
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How would you react if one of your friends (who happens to be also be a guy) came out of the closet?
This is in the Boys' Locker for a reason, I kind of want to know what other guys think. And would it be a bigger deal if he told you before anyone else? |
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Jan 15 2008, 01:00 AM
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Its happened.
What can you do, really? As long as his lifestyle choice didn't affect anything relating to our friendship directly, then its all good. |
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| *yrrnotelekktric* |
Jan 15 2008, 01:02 AM
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^you wouldnt treat him differently?
hanging around him wouldnt make you uncomfortable? |
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Jan 15 2008, 01:10 AM
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well at first i would be very freaked out.
but i think we could still be cool friends unless he was like in love with me then it would be way different id tell him never to talk to me again 
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Jan 15 2008, 01:24 AM
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I would be extremely uncomfortable and probably discard our friendship. I wouldn't be able to look at them the same way, but that's just me. I'm just not fond of gays && lesbians.
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Jan 15 2008, 01:27 AM
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QUOTE(yrrnotelekktric @ Jan 15 2008, 12:02 AM)  ^you wouldnt treat him differently? hanging around him wouldnt make you uncomfortable? Why would I? 10 years of friendship thrown down the drain because he's doing some homo shit on the low? That would put the integrity of my character in question. I'm not down with that. As long as he doesn't start acting all fem and flamboyant, then its all good. |
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Jan 15 2008, 03:07 AM
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i cant deal with the fem gays but if he was still cool ill be cool.
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Jan 15 2008, 05:09 AM
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I'd stay more or less distant. I'm not judgmental of gayness, it's more like a phobia of mine. Watching 2 gay guys is like watching 2 girls 1 cup. Seriously.
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Jan 15 2008, 07:44 AM
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so wat.. me gay.. bigg woooppiee doo..
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Jan 15 2008, 05:50 PM
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It wouldn't bother me one bit. I have some friends that are bi and/or gay, and it doesn't bother me one bit. I am a believer, that every person gets to live their life the way they choose to. I am a firm believer in character, and I would support my friends through whatever they choose to do with their life. Karma comes back to haunt people, and whenever you turn your back on somebody, it will come back to haunt you when you need somebody.
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Jan 15 2008, 06:04 PM
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As long as he's not groping or fondling or making out in plain view. There's nothing wrong with it, however it's not something I want to see.
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| *yrrnotelekktric* |
Jan 15 2008, 07:48 PM
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QUOTE(BrandonSaunders @ Jan 14 2008, 10:27 PM) Why would I? 10 years of friendship thrown down the drain because he's doing some homo shit on the low? That would put the integrity of my character in question. I'm not down with that. As long as he doesn't start acting all fem and flamboyant, then its all good.  and if he told you he liked you? would you still feel comfortable?
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Jan 15 2008, 07:56 PM
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Its fine, Ill just make it clear that i am off limits
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Jan 15 2008, 11:46 PM
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QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Jan 15 2008, 04:44 AM) so wat.. me gay.. bigg woooppiee doo.. LMAO. That seems like it would be weird for a guy. |
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Jan 15 2008, 11:54 PM
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QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Jan 15 2008, 07:44 AM) so wat.. me gay.. bigg woooppiee doo.. Dude, you're gay? |
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Jan 16 2008, 12:05 AM
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QUOTE(DoubleJ @ Jan 15 2008, 10:54 PM) Dude, you're gay? Apparently so. *shruggles* |
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Jan 16 2008, 12:08 AM
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Is that supposed to be a surprise. . .?
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Jan 16 2008, 12:11 AM
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nquack is a mild attention whore.
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Jan 16 2008, 12:14 AM
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QUOTE(MissHygienic @ Jan 16 2008, 12:08 AM) Is that supposed to be a surprise. . .? LMAO! Priceless |
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Jan 16 2008, 12:21 AM
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i would support him, and try to treat him like before i found out.
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Jan 16 2008, 02:09 AM
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blah... u ppll justt HATURRZZ...
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Jan 16 2008, 02:11 AM
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Yo niggah you really are gay?
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Jan 16 2008, 02:12 AM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
Totally homo.
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Jan 16 2008, 02:14 AM
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maibii..
 y..u JEALLOUS../ 
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Jan 16 2008, 02:16 AM
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QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Jan 16 2008, 02:14 AM) maibii.. y..u JEALLOUS../ Definitely not. I just find it funny especially after all your posts before about girls an all that jazz. 
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