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 Nov 9 2007, 09:04 PM
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 chocolate luva  Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,450  |
So basically, I have had my first kiss already (it was soo bad) & have a boyfriend I like but the problem is... I don't know how to kiss.
Uh, I totally missed out during my childhood or something 'cuz I'm a total ditz when it comes to shit like this. =/ Idenno, but is it supposed to be forced? or natural? |
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Nov 9 2007, 09:06 PM
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First kisses are always awkward. First make-out sessions are even worse. Don't worry, as you become more comfortable with each other, things won't seem as forced and strained.
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Nov 9 2007, 09:07 PM
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People aren't born with good kissing skills. Like Olivia (aestheticYOU) said, things will become easier and more natural the longer you're with your boyfriend.
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Nov 9 2007, 09:11 PM
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chocolate luva Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,450 |
But its so weird because everyone thinks I'm such a 'mack' & then , I don't even know how kiss my boyfriend.
haaaaaaaaaaah. damn, thats lame. |
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Nov 9 2007, 09:13 PM
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QUOTE(charanjust4yu @ Nov 9 2007, 08:11 PM)  But its so weird because everyone thinks I'm such a 'mack' What the hell's a 'mack'? Sorry, I'm hopelessly white. 
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Nov 9 2007, 09:16 PM
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chocolate luva Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,450 |
Haha, its okay.
Its like when you get a lot of guys and/or girls. Whatevv floats your boat. |
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Nov 9 2007, 09:20 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 1,801 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 568,102 |
Obviously, that isn't me. Hehe.
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Nov 9 2007, 09:26 PM
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most sluts only know how to suck and not kiss. it
s ok jkk |
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Nov 9 2007, 09:26 PM
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Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
QUOTE(charanjust4yu @ Nov 9 2007, 09:11 PM) But its so weird because everyone thinks I'm such a 'mack' & then , I don't even know how kiss my boyfriend. Let people think what they want, but you will get better at kissing. x] |
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Nov 9 2007, 09:28 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 1,801 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 568,102 |
Chances are he didn't even notice.
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Nov 9 2007, 09:28 PM
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chocolate luva Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,450 |
But i don't even know how to.
Hm, =/ |
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Nov 9 2007, 09:32 PM
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Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
That's why it's a good thing you can practice with your boyfriend instead of on your hand or a pillow.
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Nov 9 2007, 09:32 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 1,801 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 568,102 |
Or your teddy bear.
Guilty.
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Nov 9 2007, 09:55 PM
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chocolate luva Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,450 |
practice on the bf?
i'd rather not 'cuz he's had numerous girlfriends & well, he's pretty much super experienced. hm. but f'real tho, people practice on their hand ? is that even possible ? |
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Nov 9 2007, 09:57 PM
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 for SHIZZ. Group: Member Posts: 878 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 435,846 |
LOLOL^x2
and yeah, just give it a try with your bf. It'll become more comfortable eventually. lol |
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Nov 9 2007, 10:00 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 1,801 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 568,102 |
QUOTE(charanjust4yu @ Nov 9 2007, 08:55 PM) hm. but f'real tho, people practice on their hand ? is that even possible ? You've never seen any pre-pubescent teen movies have you? Where the awkward guy always tries to simulate a kiss with the back of his hand? For the record, it really isn't possible. It's like licking your hand; Not that I've tried or anything... |
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Nov 9 2007, 10:03 PM
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chocolate luva Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,450 |
wow, okayyyyyy.
eh. maybe i'll try the hand thing... =] |
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Nov 9 2007, 10:09 PM
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It's rather unsatisfactory...
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Nov 9 2007, 10:13 PM
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chocolate luva Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,450 |
hm.
probably. then im doomed. because im going to undoubtedly avoid the situation with my boyfriend. laaaaadeeedaaaaaaa. |
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Nov 9 2007, 10:14 PM
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for SHIZZ. Group: Member Posts: 878 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 435,846 |
you gotta kiss him eventually.
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Nov 9 2007, 10:37 PM
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chocolate luva Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,450 |
not if i cant help it.
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Nov 10 2007, 01:45 AM
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 BANG Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 565,234 |
That's odd, the first time i made out was like if i've made out before. I duno.. it's like i just followed exactly what he was doing and it was all good =/
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Nov 10 2007, 01:49 AM
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 Miss DIY Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,251 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,294 |
No one really knows how to kiss unless they do it, and everyone does it slightly differently. Just "kiss" them. It will come to you through experience.
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Nov 10 2007, 01:57 AM
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 <3<3<3<3 Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,177 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,779 |
if your boyfriend likes you enough,
he won't care that you don't know how to? I mean what if you practice on your hand and you become a bad kisser? that's even worse than not knowing how to kiss at all. I'm sure he'll find it cute and let you practice on him. I mean, i'm sure he'll like that more then knowing you're practicing on him and not your hand or teddy. Because that would be a major blowoff. pun. hahahahaha. |
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Nov 10 2007, 06:30 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
A kiss is natural. In time they become more and more better but thats because your expierenced.
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