he said "we'r meant to be together" Options

[Silly--x]

me and my boyfriend has been together for 6 months now.. he has always been there for me whenever we're the bestest friends

something happened on sunday.. it was his mates 18th birthday but he was meant to spend the day with me.. his mate mike has try to get him to cheat on me heaps of times but my boyfriend had turn him down.. well mike called in at around noon and told him it's a boys time and so my boyfriend promised me to spend the day until 6 o'clock with me.. i was abit pissed off.. i cried.. hmm which i couldn't stop it because iam a very emotional person then that night the last night he called me was 8 o'clock and then at around 10 at night i tried call him but his phone was off.. and he didn't call me until 4.30 the next afternoon.. ok so we talked for hours and hours he told me "ok this is one thing that we're really different about.. you love the city and you love the shops heaps and heaps of shops but i have been lying to myself that i would leave anywhere you want to live in.. but for me i would really like to live in somewhere where it's peace and quite and like the farm" and then he said "i want a girl who will support where i live and my career" then i was crying on the phone cause i really don't want to lose him but he sounds like he was going to dump me.. and he told me "if we ever break up i want it to be a mutual break up we'll still be best friends and i will always be here for you no matter what ok is it a deal?" and then.. later last night i called him and say that i really love him and dont ever wanna lose him and he told me "i wasn't thinking before about what i say i want a girl who supports where i live etc.. i just dont want to lose you because i know we're meant to be together" so i was happier last night and i got a good sleep

but then today i txted him if he is coming to see me tonight he txted back saying "i mis u huni mwah xoxo, 2 nyt yup at 6" but its 8.42pm atm and i called his house his mum said he is at work.. he doesn't reply my txts i have sent a milion and he also dont reply my call

i don't know what's going on

[MissFits]

Calm down. If he is working he might be busy.

You need to learn to trust him. If he can't be trusted, he is not someone you want to be with for the rest of your life.

[MissHygienic]

Wait, what? How does him saying that he wants a girl who supports his decisions relates to being unable to lose you? I don't understand this part.

To me, this just sounds like a slight misunderstanding and it's causing an unnecessary amount of tension. It will pass. You just have to trust your relationship and him.

Edit: MissFits got the word in before me. I think we have more things in common than I had thought with the "emo" thing. ;)

[Silly--x]

but it was really weird.. at 6 tonight he's phone was off and then at 7.30 his phone is on again and it is still on he just wouldn't answer it and he's not the kind of person who would put their phone on silence..

[transcendentalis...]

first of all, chill out about him not responding. maybe there was an accident, or something happened and he's not getting your messages, who knows - all you can do is wait it out and hear what he has to say for it later. it might not be his fault.

his friend mike kind of sounds like a douche, but try not to assume that he's out with another girl. it sucks that he stood you up, but don't do anything wild until you guys talk about it.

i don't mean to be a party pooper, but how old are you? what are the chances that you're going to meet the person that you're meant to be with forever in your early years? he was just talking about the future, and let's be blunt. a lot of the people we know from high school, even college for some, we'll never talk to again. don't make too big a fuss over it, and just enjoy the company while it lasts... not that i'm saying to give it all up when school ends. of course it's great to try and keep in touch, but usually it doesn't work that way.

for now, just wait for his answer and try to reason things out when he's giving his explanations.

[MissFits]

Edit: MissFits got the word in before me. I think we have more things in common than I had thought with the "emo" thing. ;)

I know, after that I didn't like you but you are really growing on me! ?

[Silly--x]

he is turning sixteen on saturday and i know for a fact that he is not a playa he doesn't look at other girls or maybe if he does sometimes it's always just a joke cause we joke around we looks hot or not

iam seventeen and we both don't go to school

[MissFits]

This doesn't really matter, but why don't you go to school?

I am just curious..

[Silly--x]

i dropped out because there were wayy too many girls that 'tried' to be my friends then take everything that i have and like just try to be me.. hmm dont know how to explain it and also heapsa stalkers.. [guys] they stalk me home it's creepy and teachers doesn't like me cause iam usually half day late to school i dont wake up early lol

[MissHygienic]

I know, after that I didn't like you but you are really growing on me! ?

I have the same sentiments. Plus, I'm not one for e-grudges. for you.

I'm done hijacking this thread, though.

Silly--x, don't stress yourself too much over something like this. Take it easy. It feels bad at the moment, but it could be worse. Like, he could have cheated on you. And, if you were wondering, like, if he's avoiding you, or something, let him have some room, I guess? I don't let my boyfriend breathe until I know things will be okay between him and me, but some guys are like that. I'm not really being helpful at all, but yeah, it will pass. Whether it's for the better or worse, well, that rests entirely in your hands.

[Silly--x]

i guess i will have to wait then..

[Sandraaa]

Aww sweetie. I HATE when guys don't respond / respond late to text messages! ARRGHH! Just be patient and hopefully things work out for you.

Goodluck.

[Uronacid]

He's at work. You have probably talked to him already, but my advice would be the same as all the others. You need to calm down and just chill out.

[S-Majere]

I would do my nut if my boyfriend made promises and didn't keep them. Throw a sulk and get him to grovel. If your relationship means anything to him at all he wouldn't have made you feel this way in the first place and he'll be doing his utmost to make you feel better.

[AngelinaTaylor]

You don't go to school because of what other people do/think? That's pathetic. Don't ruin your life because of some bitches. Go to a different school. What do you do during the whole day?

About your boyfriend, you're stressing too much. I hate the way we girls think so much in detail.. it ruins everything. Things happen, maybe he was too busy to respond. Don't be so sensitive. I know easier said than done, but think about it.

[Uronacid]

You don't go to school because of what other people do/think? That's pathetic. Don't ruin your life because of some bitches. Go to a different school. What do you do during the whole day?

About your boyfriend, you're stressing too much. I hate the way we girls think so much in detail.. it ruins everything. Things happen, maybe he was too busy to respond. Don't be so sensitive. I know easier said than done, but think about it.

Agreed....

Man up, bitch

[Silly--x]

i work..

so umn last night we finally talk.. we're now still in a relationship but having a break.. he said he loves me we will always be best friends.. he said he is in love with me he doesn't want other girls but he needs this break because he have to see what he wants for his future and what he wants in his life.. but there's a big chance he will come back to me and spend the rest of his life with me..

but what if he don't?

[AngelinaTaylor]

You're a teenager. You will get over it.

[Silly--x]

ye it may sound easy to all of you but its not.. i cant sleep i cant eat i cant do anything all i think about is him i just want him no one else

[S-Majere]

i work..

so umn last night we finally talk.. we're now still in a relationship but having a break.. he said he loves me we will always be best friends.. he said he is in love with me he doesn't want other girls but he needs this break because he have to see what he wants for his future and what he wants in his life.. but there's a big chance he will come back to me and spend the rest of his life with me..

but what if he don't?

Sounds like a real caring guy. Seriously girl, there's some gorgeous gentlemen out there. You shouldn't be wasting your time with someone who sounds as though he doesn't know whether he's coming or going.

[Silly--x]

my whole world feels like it turns upside down

[transcendentalis...]

teenage years... everything's changing. you should at least know that..

[MissFits]

You'll be okay. Everyone has been through a breakup they thought would kill them, but it never does.

Pick up more hours at work, learn to play guitar, just do things to occupy your time/mind.