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 Nov 18 2007, 03:31 AM
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This guy asked me to be his girlfriend yesterday and i said yes to him but then i told him it has to be a secret relationship because i cant date and i dont want my dad to find out we were okay at first but then we didnt really talk to eachother yesterday and it was really awkward and today he didnt really talk to me and he didnt wait for me after class like he always do and flirt like we used to he also didnt talk to me that much and he was online on yahoo messager he would always talk to me there but this time he stayed for like 5 minutes and he signed off and i dont know whats going on what do you think about this? and does he still counts as my "boyfriend"?
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Nov 18 2007, 03:33 AM
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This guy asked me to be his girlfriend yesterday and i said yes to him but then i told him it has to be a secret relationship because i cant date and i dont want my dad to find out we were okay at first but then we didnt really talk to eachother yesterday and it was really awkward and today he didnt really talk to me and he didnt wait for me after class like he always do and flirt like we used to he also didnt talk to me that much and he was online on yahoo messager he would always talk to me there but this time he stayed for like 5 minutes and he signed off and i dont know whats going on what do you think about this? and does he still counts as my "boyfriend"?
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Nov 18 2007, 05:20 AM
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Did You Tell Him You Want To Keep This As A Secret Relationship It's Because You Don't Want Your Dad To Find Out? If You Didn't He Might Think That You Want It As A Secret Relationship Cause There's Another 'Boyfriend' Ya Knoww..
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Nov 18 2007, 07:36 AM
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Just ask why he's doing what he's doing?
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Nov 18 2007, 02:05 PM
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i would still consider him your boyfriend for now. You need to sit down with him and ask him if he's ok having a relation ship with you.
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Nov 18 2007, 05:08 PM
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Nov 18 2007, 05:12 PM
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 I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
^ u didn't date when u were 17?
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Nov 18 2007, 05:35 PM
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QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Nov 18 2007, 02:08 PM)  Kids these days shouldn't even be in a relationship until their balls drop same for girls except for the balls part.. I see kids these days age 15-17 all dating and all ... "sigh i don't know what to do" "please my girlfriend is confusing me" "wtf is wrong him, hes so odd" Kids need to concentrate in school and have fun with friends and such. At such a young age, dating and shit will haunt your ass later in life. At such a young age? Kids aren't just dating, they're having sex. 15-17 isn't too young to date. As for your "boyfriend", just try talking to him. See what's up. |
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Nov 18 2007, 06:26 PM
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Nov 18 2007, 07:48 PM
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QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Nov 18 2007, 07:26 PM) Girls need to atleast be 18 to date, because at that age they'll have enough experience about.. boys, protected sex etc.. How will they have enough experience if they never even dated until they were 18? Maybe at that age they'd be more wiser, but still..They wouldn't know if a guy was interested in a girl for their body or their personality unless they've interacted with a guy beforehand. Anyways. It kinda sounds like your guy is losing interest in you or maybe he's planning a surprise for you! haha. It could go either way, but don't let it bother you because you should have other things that are more important than a boy. But all I can tell you is that something is up and maybe you should talk to him about his unusual behavior. |
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Nov 18 2007, 08:10 PM
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QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Nov 18 2007, 08:26 PM) Ye, 15-17 is way too young to date. DATING WILL LEAD TO SEX which they know nothing about, which in return will haunt the girl's stupid ass in the end. Then the girl will get pregnant because she didnt know any better. She'll go and whine like a little biatch she is and cried blah blah, DUMBASS got what you deserved. Girls need to atleast be 18 to date, because at that age they'll have enough experience about.. boys, protected sex etc.. You're wrong. |
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Nov 18 2007, 08:12 PM
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I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
^seriously
wtf, i don't see how 15-17 is too young to date at all. what's the difference between someone who's 17 and someone who's 18 dating? |
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Nov 18 2007, 08:34 PM
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 DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
Moved to Relationships.
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Nov 19 2007, 08:32 AM
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Um, this had only been going on for one day?
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Nov 19 2007, 11:27 AM
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when i have a status with a guy we have a weird vibe.. so things get awkward and change.
if your dad says NO, then you're too young. there's a reason to stay single and not going to work. unless he's super horny, he probably isn't going to want to talk, to be honest. |
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Nov 19 2007, 04:36 PM
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QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Nov 18 2007, 05:26 PM) Ye, 15-17 is way too young to date. DATING WILL LEAD TO SEX which they know nothing about, which in return will haunt the girl's stupid ass in the end. Then the girl will get pregnant because she didnt know any better. She'll go and whine like a little biatch she is and cried blah blah, DUMBASS got what you deserved. Girls need to atleast be 18 to date, because at that age they'll have enough experience about.. boys, protected sex etc.. Dating does not always lead to sex... Naive much? |
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Nov 20 2007, 08:26 AM
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Nov 20 2007, 06:06 PM
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I'm guessing your defining sex as actual penis-vagina intercourse...
I know plenty of relationships that went without sex. Yes. some relationships lead to sex and some are even based on sex. I know a lot of people who have dated someone for well over a year and are standing strong at staying a virgin. |
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Nov 20 2007, 08:09 PM
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^ That's me
 18 months and staying a virgin. It's hard but ultimately up to the individual. No-one is going to have exactly the same beliefs or life-experiences as you are. You are in charge of your body and you have to live with the consquences - emotionally and physically - of having sex. I'm well aware that my emotional maturity is a little above that of a frozen parsnip; but I do recognise in myself that I need to wait and that I am not ready. But back to the question! I think this guy is embarrassed at being kept a secret! How would you feel if your crush turned round and said the equivelent of 'I don't want to be seen with you'? Pretty rejected for sure. If your unsure as to whether or not you're even dating someone; you shouldn't really be in that game. Yet. There's so much pressure to have a 'boyfriend' or a 'girlfriend' in school; but remember that having a relationship is more than being able to change that Myspace status. |
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Nov 20 2007, 08:32 PM
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Well my advice would be for you to try and talk to him if you think that he's avoiding you have a friend of yours talk to him.
You may not know enough about the guy to think that he's avoiding you. So he could be doing other things like schoolwork or hanging out with his friends or family. |
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Nov 20 2007, 09:58 PM
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QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Nov 19 2007, 06:12 AM) ^ u didn't date when u were 17? i haven't dated...and i'm 18. 
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Nov 20 2007, 10:14 PM
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QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Nov 18 2007, 09:12 PM) ^seriously wtf, i don't see how 15-17 is too young to date at all. what's the difference between someone who's 17 and someone who's 18 dating? laws. lol  you can't honestly say your outlook on relationships was the same as age 15 then maybe say 18. when you're 15 you go out with someone to have a new album on myspace. i clearly didn't. i scoff at my young relationships. not saying all young relationships are dumb but many i've seen are. i plan on holding out on dating/serious relationships till my mid 20's |
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Nov 20 2007, 11:28 PM
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QUOTE(nguoicasison @ Nov 18 2007, 05:08 PM) Kids these days shouldn't even be in a relationship until their balls drop same for girls except for the balls part.. I see kids these days age 15-17 all dating and all ... "sigh i don't know what to do" "please my girlfriend is confusing me" "wtf is wrong him, hes so odd" Kids need to concentrate in school and have fun with friends and such. At such a young age, dating and shit will haunt your ass later in life. amen to that homie. |
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Nov 21 2007, 06:15 AM
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You sound like you're 11 years old.
If your dad isn't letting you date..you're probably not ready to have a boyfriend. |
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Nov 21 2007, 06:26 AM
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QUOTE(stacygreen @ Nov 21 2007, 10:15 PM) You sound like you're 11 years old. If your dad isn't letting you date..you're probably not ready to have a boyfriend. Agreed, and wow I just realised the topic starter post the girl by hyphgirl is like, one sentence besides the question marks at the end 
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