virginity? Options

[Sandraaa]

Erm, why won't you boyfriend use condoms? Why won't you take birth control pills? Why don't you use condoms?

[PinkDinosaur]

totaly wish i saved it ... he turned out to be a right perv

[LoveToMySilas]

Virginity is overrated IMO.

Plus first times generally suck. A lot. Especially when it's virgin-on-virgin action. Why would you want your first sexual experience with the person you're going to spend the rest of your life with to be an awful, awkward one?

Think of it as being in training.

lmao.

umm, i lost mine to an ex-boyfriend. i was his first and he was my first. "first loves" too, so i guess it was special. i can't say i'm proud of it, but i won't say i regret it.

I feel you, Tiff. Thats the same as my situation.

[Teesa]

19 and still intact

[aybaybay007]

right when i turned 15. im still 15 tho i think ive only had sex like 4 times tho. and ive never done it with anyone im dating or anyone i love maybe ill REGRET that (hehe) but o well lets just worry about that laaatterr

[foxx]

still a virgin. well, i should be. but yeah..

[Mikael]

if you have a brother, you should not even think about sex until the age of... death, or until your brothers death. if you dont have a brother, its all game!

[i_love_billie_jo...]

i think to stay a virgin is to stay strong to your beliefs/ relgion/ choice/ etc because it is a hard thing to stick to.
and to lose your virginity before marrige is ok to, after all its your body, no body is in control of it exept you, and who you give it to is for you to decide

neither is wrong, its just a matter of choice and what you see is suitable for yourself. Although, myself speaking im not a virgin im happily sleeping with my boyfriend who i love, people who do wait for their wedding night to come around to lose thier virginity may be disapointed beacuse its not all beautiful and wonderfull like u may think, its actually some-what a struggle the first time.. but then again, personal choice!

[Becks539]

I am 16 and still a virgin. I was raised in a religious family being taught to save it until marriage. I always planned on saving it but lately I don't know anymore. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 1 year and 3 months [he too was raised in a religious family learning to wait until marriage.] and if down the road we have been going out for about 2.5-3 years or something like that, it's bound to happen. If I've dated him that long I know I won't regret it. I'd love for him to be my first. ohh temption.

[Vyrrei]

Lost it at 16.

No regrets. :P

[BillyShakespeare]

16.
A week short of being 17.
I was with the guy for over a year and a half.
And two months later, *Oh, I know, such a long time*, I'm still with him.

I trust him.
He didn't rush me.
In fact, he's the one going
"Are you sure? We can wait.."

I was raised in a strict family. The thing was, we were never taught not to have sex. I never heard the words come out of my moms mouth. I twas my youth group pastor that bought it up to me. I still DO believe in wating until marriage. The only regret I have is I have nothing to give my husband that is his only on my wedding night.

[karmakiller]

if you have a brother, you should not even think about sex until the age of... death, or until your brothers death. if you dont have a brother, its all game!

LOL riiiiight.

I have two older brothers who are super over protective of me. If they see a guy looking at me they have a problem. That's why there's such a thing as a 'secret'

[madilove]

I lost mine when I was 13 to my boyfriend at the time.

When I was younger I wanted to save myself for the right guy, but then as I got older I just decided that the only thing I'm saving for the right guy is marriage.

Do I regret losing my virginity so young? Not at all. I thought it was the right thing to do at the time, and why would you regret something that you were all for at one point?

[rockable]

Im 16.. and waiting for the right guy thanks very much. :P

[SnarphBlat]

I'm 19 years old, have been seeing my boyfriend for near 18 months and intend to keep my virtue until after we're married.

Good for you!

We are too. :)

[ilikeyerrpants]

if you've had oral sex are you still considered a virgin?

[Just_Dream]

15. Right after I turned 15 I believe... =X

[Kay-]

13

[Tomates]

damn. I haven't even had my first kiss... or my first boyfriend I'm so lonely.

Unless you count online boyfriends... Tehe.. I was a very interesting 10 year old.

I didnt have my first kiss until This year and i was sixteen!
i think...or maybe 15
oh whatever it was sophmore year of high school XD

it was my best friend, Troy and i was saying "Gyah, im seriously the only girl in my grade who hasnt had their first kiss"
then after school one day after school we had our kiss <3
now were dating and he's literally my first boyfriend XD

so dont feel bad
it will come : D
and it will be magical?

[DeviantShadows]

My boyfriend and I have just recently had a sex talk- about whether or not we were ready for it, etc. I'm still a virgin and he is not. To us, sex is a big deal. A very big deal that should only be shared between two people who really love each other and plan on spending the rest of their lives together. I'm confindent that my boyfriend is the guy that I'm going to marry, and I know he feels the same about me. I'm not necessarily waiting until marriage, just until I feel right about it. Right now, I'm just not ready.

[BrokenDream]

if you've had oral sex are you still considered a virgin?

Yes, you're still a virgin.
You're not a virgin if you had intercourse.

I am a virgin. I plan on staying that way until I know I'm good and ready with my boyfriend. I also want to wait until I'm more mature, and older.

[RylieDinosaur]

I'm glad to see that most of the people on here are prudes like me.

[thatonegirl143]

unwillingly..14.
willingly..16 going on 17.

[Vyrrei]

unwillingly..14.

[thatonegirl143]

its alright. ive learned to cope with it && i know that shit happens && life goes on "]