how do you know..., iff.. |
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 Oct 2 2007, 10:09 PM
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 My peanut.  Group: Member Posts: 948 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 187,456  |
How do you know if a guy is leading you on, or if he's serious?
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Oct 2 2007, 10:10 PM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
You will know, if he talks to you alot, for weeks, not days, and notice you around alot, touch you in a flirty way when hes around you. Gets a boner when he is near you. That is all.
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Oct 2 2007, 10:13 PM
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My peanut. Group: Member Posts: 948 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 187,456 |
...this guy has a g/f but he still touches me in flirty ways. Im with him everyday.. he picks me up in the mornings and drives me to school, and then drives me home.. He touches me in flirty ways.. Im soo confused.
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Oct 2 2007, 10:16 PM
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 pyrobeastilnecrophilaic Group: Member Posts: 217 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 562,974 |
flirt. Big flirt
stay away from him!!!!!!!! |
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Oct 2 2007, 10:20 PM
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٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
GIVE HIM WHAT HE WANTS. HARDCORE BUTTSECKS!!
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Oct 2 2007, 10:21 PM
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 isketchaholic Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,977 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,154 |
^ ignore tung; half the time he doesn't even know if he's genuinely flirting with people or just leading them on...
learning these things is based heavily on trial and error; experience is usually your best bet when trying to decipher guys. you have to be extremely observant: does he treat all other girls the same way, does he treat you like the flavor of the week (like you today, ignore you the next); but remember that there is no one answer or one-for-all solution some things to take note of are if the guy goes out of his way to do things for you, or if he tries to get you to hang out with his friends. however, these two things can easily be either genuine or just a false act. just stay cautious and aware; don't fall for anything a guy says when you first meet him. that doesn't mean guys are always lying with what they say, just remember to keep in the back of your mind the possibility that he's just playing around..  i hope that helps
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Oct 2 2007, 10:22 PM
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My peanut. Group: Member Posts: 948 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 187,456 |
he used to talk about breaking up with her to me, then sent me a text message saying "were about to break up" and then the next day everythings back to the way it was. He knows I like him, could he be doing this cause he knows I like him?
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Oct 2 2007, 10:24 PM
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isketchaholic Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,977 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,154 |
^ yes. don't bother with this guy; what does he MEAN by "we're about to break up" is he trying to say that he'll go out with you afterwards? what's his reason for suggesting that he'll end his current relationship
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Oct 2 2007, 10:24 PM
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٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
Don't listen to Betty. She thinks shes so smart. But she isn't
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Oct 2 2007, 10:28 PM
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isketchaholic Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,977 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,154 |
QUOTE(tungmyBANANA @ Oct 2 2007, 08:10 PM)  You will know, if he talks to you alot, for weeks, not days, and notice you around alot, touch you in a flirty way when hes around you. Gets a boner when he is near you. NO. guys absolutely LOVE the chase; they WILL be persistent when they cannot get you. the WEEK theory is inaccurate; there are plenty of reasons why a guy who is not genuinely interested in you, would talk to you for weeks. and FLIRTY touching is NOT a sign of genuine interest. seriously. any guy can do that to any girl, and vice versa. |
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Oct 2 2007, 10:28 PM
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My peanut. Group: Member Posts: 948 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 187,456 |
because "they werent getting along" and "they fight all the time.."
---EDIT: What are some genuine signs of interest? |
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Oct 2 2007, 10:29 PM
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 Death is a promise given to us at birth Group: Official Designer Posts: 4,757 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,459 |
there are a lot of stuff like this in cosmo, if you read them.
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Oct 2 2007, 10:30 PM
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isketchaholic Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,977 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,154 |
QUOTE(iiTsDAYNA @ Oct 2 2007, 08:28 PM) because "they werent getting along" and "they fight all the time.." that's not what i meant, by asking him what he MEANT; i wanted to know if he used "going to breakup with my gf" as an excuse to continue doing whatever he was doing with you. QUOTE What are some genuine signs of interest? i mentioned some in my earlier post; there is no ONE answer to that question. all guys are different; how they express their emotions varies from guy to guy. |
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Oct 3 2007, 12:58 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 99 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 464,312 |
this guy sounds like a tool. ditch him. tell him to eff off. because he only wants your gina.
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Oct 3 2007, 01:42 PM
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 Lurker. Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,161 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,851 |
^hahha. My friend uses the word gina.
IMO, He's probably a big flirt and is a little bored of his boyfriend. If he's being such a jerk and not loyal to his current girlfriend, I would think twice before considering him boyfriend material. Actually, thought twice. Forget about him, he's a scumbag. |
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Oct 3 2007, 04:24 PM
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 hello. Group: Official Designer Posts: 211 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 513,566 |
*sigh* & guys say girls are complicated!
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Oct 3 2007, 05:01 PM
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 Lauren :D Group: Member Posts: 2,105 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 176,997 |
I'd agree with what everyone else is saying and say that he's acting like a tool and you should just...give up on him, but at the same time, maybe he thinks you're just a good friend and is just confiding in you because he doesn't know you like him.
I mean, you'd probably complain about your relationship to your friends, right? I think he's just doing the same thing with no intention of hurting you. |
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Oct 3 2007, 05:08 PM
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I think you should straight up be like "BITCH, do you like me?" and if he says no then there you go. If he says yes.. tell him to break up with his girlfriend then haha.
Seriously though. I wouldn't deal with that. That's another girls property. If I was her I'd be pissed especially that you ride to school with him. Im just guessing he likes to flirt and thats it :/ |
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Oct 3 2007, 05:51 PM
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My peanut. Group: Member Posts: 948 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 187,456 |
I dunno what to do really. I like him soo much its insane..
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Oct 3 2007, 06:56 PM
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Since is a love-related question im gonna move this to relationships.
Moved to relationships. |
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Oct 6 2007, 03:08 PM
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My peanut. Group: Member Posts: 948 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 187,456 |
is there anyway else I can know for sure if he's being serious?
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Oct 6 2007, 07:59 PM
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by what everyone else that knows him more than you says.
 I don't really know, if you have a good friend that watches out for you and knows him better though you should ask them for their honest opinion of it. That's the only way I can think of anyway. |
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Oct 7 2007, 01:34 AM
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My peanut. Group: Member Posts: 948 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 187,456 |
gosh. guys are so complicated.
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Oct 8 2007, 11:30 AM
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Only time can tell.
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Oct 8 2007, 10:46 PM
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My peanut. Group: Member Posts: 948 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 187,456 |
I HATE waiting. Time takes too long.
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