a crush and my friend, what should i do? Options

[forgottenbeauty]

so me and my best friend met these guys at a convention. we all kept in touch. soon i devopled these feelings for one of the guys and from the start me and him have had an eye on each other in a way. we both said we didnt know each other well enough to go out. but would see how things would go. so now its been a month and i cant stop thinking about him. and everyone knows that i like him. he keeps on telling me how he wants to ask me out on a date but my best friend and his friend would have to double date with us cause his parents will think me and him will have sex(his parents are weird like that) he keeps on saying these things but never does anything..and im not sure what to think..im not even quite sure if he truely likes me.

so now i get more cautious everyday that he is starting to like my best friend. my best friend is more open and wilder then i am. while im the layback one and wanting things to happen on there own. i dont really talk much on the net and over the phone with him but in person , me and him are cool together i want to change but i never know what stuff to talk about with him.. im scared that he will change his mind about me and go for her.


so what do you think i should do?
should i be cautious and keep a look out on him
and how do you know if a guy likes you
and what stuff can i talk to him about
any advice would help!!!!

[I_feel_beautiful]

why dont you ask him out? if its been a month its getting kinda ridiculous. well first ask your friend if she likes him and if he likes her. if they do then it gets more complicated. but talk to the both of them and see what happens. but if you REALLY want to go out with him, then just ask him out.

good luck

[I_feel_beautiful]

oh and i forgot to add,

stuff to talk about: anything that comes to mind or is in your mind. it dosent really matter as long as its not offending and such. just find some crap. as long as its not silence its okay.