UGH!!! GIRLFRIEND VS ME, i'm not a sidedish!! ugh what do I do!? |
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 Sep 24 2007, 08:11 PM
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umm... ok.. well, what should I do about my problem. There's this guy, Justin, that I really like alot and I want to be his boyfriend..he confessed that he like me too and he wanted to be my boyfriend and everything.. but problem is he has a girlfriend and so I told him exactly how I felt and that I felt that I was second best.. and he said well, maybe someday you'll be first.. and we got to talking about our hobbies and everything and I told him I like to clean and cook and stuff like that... and he said you'd make the perfect wife.. and a few seconds later he asked me to marry him and he said he would get me a ring from the bubble gum machine as a engagement ring... lol.. and the difference between me and his girlfriend is...
His Girlfriend: They only talk for about an hour a day, and he never get to see her. (he told me this himself) He also said, they have absolutely nothing in common.. he's not allowed over at her house... Me: We talk all day, everyday.. at school, outta school, on AIM... He sees me all the time... He said we have everything in common.. and he's allowed over at my house... because my parents know him.. and he's even talked about sneaking over to my house during the night.. lol. But umm... when I told him how I felt...and he said everything that he said previously (what I told you earlier) He also said before all that like when he very first found out I liked him that him and his girlfriend might break up.. because of the distance.. and when I told him how I felt about all this (him still having the girlfriend while liking me) he said that I could wait for him or move on.. but to know that it's hard for him to break up with girls and I said I would wait for him but if it took to long I would just move on and he said he understands.. But why I'm writing is... because I did move on.. I'm in a relationship now but I do still like him alot.. and when I signed on myspace earlier.. he signed off.. I don't get that.. why would he do that? Do you think he's upset because I got a boyfriend and he thinks I don't like him anymore.. |
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Sep 24 2007, 08:16 PM
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 I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
maybe the world doesn't revolve around u, and he signed off because he wanted to sign off?
wtf ur a dude? edit: lmao k nvm i read it wrong EDIT! WAIT JUST KIDDING AGAIN UR A DUDE? |
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Sep 24 2007, 08:21 PM
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 ٩(●̮̮̃•̃)۶ Group: Official Member Posts: 1,403 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,173 |
QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Sep 24 2007, 06:16 PM)  maybe the world doesn't revolve around u, and he signed off because he wanted to sign off? wtf ur a dude? edit: lmao k nvm i read it wrong EDIT! WAIT JUST KIDDING AGAIN UR A DUDE? WTf??? Just look at her account name. And lol man, he cheated on his gf. Must be an a-hole. |
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Sep 24 2007, 08:22 PM
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I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
QUOTE(salcha4u @ Sep 24 2007, 08:21 PM) WTf??? Just look at her account name. And lol man, he cheated on his gf. Must be an a-hole. i know but its cause it says "Justin, that I really like alot and I want to be his boyfriend..he confessed that he like me too and he wanted to be my boyfriend" |
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| *karmakiller* |
Sep 24 2007, 08:24 PM
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Umm, he probably signed off because he had something else to do. I'm pretty sure he didn't check to see if you were signed on and was like "ew, she's signed on, I don't want to be". Honestly, you're both in relationships, if you had true feelings for him and told him how you felt and knew that there was some potentional there I doubt you'd get in a relationship like that. It'd be unfair to the guy you're with if you had feelings for someone else at the beginning of it. If it's so hard for you to see him with his g/f and you end up thinking about him when you're with your b/f than maybe it's time to not see so much of each other until you're over him and content with your relationship; it could put a big strain on your current relationship.
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Sep 24 2007, 08:25 PM
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٩(●̮̮̃•̃)۶ Group: Official Member Posts: 1,403 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,173 |
QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Sep 24 2007, 06:22 PM) i know but its cause it says "Justin, that I really like alot and I want to be his boyfriend..he confessed that he like me too and he wanted to be my boyfriend" 1. A typo 2. This person must be really really really gay... Pick. |
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Sep 24 2007, 08:27 PM
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I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
^ thank u
yea i hope its 1 instead of 2 |
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Sep 24 2007, 08:28 PM
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 sleep now, moon Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,540 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,212 |
LOLMYSPACE
sigh.... this guy sounds like such an a-hole. if he dumps his girlfriend because of you, you better be sure his girlfriend (who i'm guessing might care about him) isn't the vengeful type, because i know, firsthand, that she will have you killed no matter how far she lives from you. by the way, you don't move on and still say you like him a lot. and if you like another dude a lot... don't get a boyfriend. where is your mind! |
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Sep 24 2007, 11:36 PM
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 pyrobeastilnecrophilaic Group: Member Posts: 217 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 562,974 |
why teh heck would you go out with another dude if you still diged someone else
-_-" you didnt even dig him enough to wait for him geez myspace drama |
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Sep 24 2007, 11:47 PM
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I say he's unfaithful and you should get away from him. He's likely to cheat. Oh wait, he's doing it now.
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Sep 25 2007, 06:17 AM
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sorry guys.. I'm a girl.. and about what confused everyone.. sorry... I meant... I want to be his girlfriend... I got confused too trying to type it.. lol. Sorry once again.. lol.
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Sep 25 2007, 07:41 AM
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 I am not afraid, I was born for this. Group: Official Member Posts: 805 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 565,063 |
QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Sep 24 2007, 09:16 PM) maybe the world doesn't revolve around u, and he signed off because he wanted to sign off? wtf ur a dude? edit: lmao k nvm i read it wrong EDIT! WAIT JUST KIDDING AGAIN UR A DUDE? lmaoo, yo i love you. lmaoo, you mad crazy/funny kidd. lmaooooo ur a dude? edit: lmao k nvm i read it wrong EDIT! WAIT JUST KIDDING AGAIN UR A DUDE? lmaoooooo ---- well, if you really did wanna be with him you'd wait. but if he was taking to long then, it wasn't worth it. and don't be messin' with people with girlfriends that's mad triflin' & dirty yo. |
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| *Uronacid* |
Sep 25 2007, 08:30 AM
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I don't care what kind of girlfriend he has. You should have respect for his current relationship by not trying to pursue him while he's in it, and he should have respect for his current girlfriend while he's in a relationship with her.
You know, the way he respects his current girlfriend is a good indicator of how he's going to respect you when you're in a relationship with him. I think this boy has no balls at all. He's telling you all these things behind his current girls back. He's just a big fucking liar. Hmmm... I think I have come to a conclusion. MY Conclusion: You're an idiot, and you like fakes. MY Solution: Stop pursuing this douche. Also, do you think about anyone's feelings but your own? What about his girlfriend? Don't you think that encouraging him to break up with her (although it may be for the better seeing as he's an a-hole anyways) will just make her hurt. Do you want to be apart of that, because right now YOU ARE MAKING YOURSELF APART OF THAT. |
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Sep 25 2007, 09:14 AM
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QUOTE(Uronacid @ Sep 25 2007, 09:30 AM) Also, do you think about anyone's feelings but your own? What about his girlfriend? Don't you think that encouraging him to break up with her (although it may be for the better seeing as he's an a-hole anyways) will just make her hurt. Do you want to be apart of that, because right now YOU ARE MAKING YOURSELF APART OF THAT. ^sissyI say go for it. Then hopefully his girlfriend will find out and just beat the fuc king shit out of you. And while you're on the ground getting kicked in the face with stilletto heels, you'll remember that it's really all his fault to begin with. Sure, you could have stopped being a retarded whore, but he should have told you no, even though I'm sure he did about a thousand times. So while you're in the hospital recovering from your injuries, you'll probably notice a cute intern who has a girlfriend. I say go for it, cause what are the chances his girlfriend will also beat the shit out of you. Bottom line, you need to get your fuc king ass beat so that maybe you'll stop being so fuc king stupid you goddamn whore |
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Sep 25 2007, 12:41 PM
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There's no point in you even considoring dating this guy. If he really liked you, his girlfriend would have been ditched eons ago and you'd be an item.
You only have to look at the way he treats his current girlfriend to know he's no good. |
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Sep 25 2007, 03:51 PM
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i don't encourage him to break it off. I tell him that they're going to get everything straight and he's always like I don't think so.. or I don't know.. and I'm always like yes.. you will and I tell him that they make a great couple... I'm very supportive of their relationship.. I've never told him to break up with her or anything like that... I don't believe in cheating and that's why I told him that either I would wait for him or I would move on if he didn't hurry up and tell her or whatever... but I just don't know anymore.. I really like him alot and I still wanna be his girlfriend... but it's just too confusing.. what should I do? and the guy that I'm with now is just ugh omg. he told me he loved me the first day we got together. and I was just like it's way to soon for me... and he said that he falls fast.. but IDK.. what's the deal? what should I do?
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Sep 25 2007, 03:55 PM
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QUOTE(pinkxbabie @ Sep 24 2007, 08:11 PM) I want to be his boyfriend.. Do you mean Girlfriend? anyways i dunno if he liked you he would just finish with her? |
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Sep 25 2007, 04:56 PM
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haha yea that's what i meant.... sorry about that...
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Sep 25 2007, 06:56 PM
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 for SHIZZ. Group: Member Posts: 878 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 435,846 |
I think its a guy.
 EDIT// woops nvm. |
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Sep 26 2007, 05:17 AM
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 damn, right! Group: Member Posts: 368 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 174,547 |
QUOTE(revoltaire @ Sep 25 2007, 09:28 AM) LOLMYSPACE sigh.... this guy sounds like such an a-hole. if he dumps his girlfriend because of you, you better be sure his girlfriend (who i'm guessing might care about him) isn't the vengeful type, because i know, firsthand, that she will have you killed no matter how far she lives from you. by the way, you don't move on and still say you like him a lot. and if you like another dude a lot... don't get a boyfriend. where is your mind! True true... and if he cheated on his girlfriend, how can you be sure he won't do the same thing to you? |
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Sep 26 2007, 09:36 AM
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QUOTE(pinkxbabie @ Sep 25 2007, 03:51 PM) i don't encourage him to break it off. I tell him that they're going to get everything straight and he's always like I don't think so.. or I don't know.. and I'm always like yes.. you will and I tell him that they make a great couple... I'm very supportive of their relationship.. I've never told him to break up with her or anything like that... I don't believe in cheating and that's why I told him that either I would wait for him or I would move on if he didn't hurry up and tell her or whatever... but I just don't know anymore.. I really like him alot and I still wanna be his girlfriend... but it's just too confusing.. what should I do? and the guy that I'm with now is just ugh omg. he told me he loved me the first day we got together. and I was just like it's way to soon for me... and he said that he falls fast.. but IDK.. what's the deal? what should I do? You're a side-dish that is trying to win his affections by being seen to 'support his current relationship' when in fact nothing would make you happier than him breaking up and coming to you for comfort. If this happens, you'll be a two-week rebound and it's honestly not worth pining after a loser that has no faith in his current relationship. He would have no faith in yours either. Time to move on, girl! |
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Sep 26 2007, 11:43 PM
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you should break up with your boyfriend and stop pursuing the other guy. remain single for a while 'cause you're being a bit too selfish to be in a relationship right now.
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Sep 27 2007, 06:05 AM
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QUOTE(synkro @ Sep 27 2007, 12:43 AM) you should break up with your boyfriend and stop pursuing the other guy. remain single for a while 'cause you're being a bit too selfish to be in a relationship right now. I've been single for the past 6 months and you think I should stay single for a little while longer???? um... sorry don't think so... but I do agree I am being a little bit selfish.. 
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| *Sandraaa* |
Sep 27 2007, 07:01 AM
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^ But you said you've got a boyfriend which means you aren't single.
 Girl, sign off, think about your story, come back, make it clear. Because, you're confusing the shit out of our minds! |
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Sep 27 2007, 07:20 AM
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I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
QUOTE(Sandraaa @ Sep 27 2007, 07:01 AM) ^ But you said you've got a boyfriend which means you aren't single. Girl, sign off, think about your story, come back, make it clear. Because, you're confusing the shit out of our minds! ^lmao seriously, the whole thing makes no sense |
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