Repetitive Frames, In our life... why? |
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 Aug 15 2007, 02:36 PM
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Sometimes... i just stop and try to analise what happen in the past and what if that might repeat, will it have the same consequices? will it be better or worse? And then i find myself in the position of comparing past with present or just future, i'm an adept of long-term relationships and basicly you can't have that many relationships if they all been "long-term", so its pretty easy to just analize and compare all of them togheder... BUT now i'm like "everika!", its like i found the solution of all the failures in my life and the only reason of em all its because I'm always comparing what I HAD with something that i MIGHT HAVE or WANT TO HAVE, so basicly is like picking the same type of people, with whom its like "for sure" the life frames might repeat, along with the bad things alltogether, so one day i've said to myself, scew the past, its all gone and for sure cannot change it but how about changing myself, the things i like, the kind-of-people i like and then i'll see if the same-old bad things will happen again, it was like i was blaming others for my own mistakes, like it was all about the people around me. I mean when we all are heart-broken we blame everything around us but less ourselves, so i believe we should accept the facts and move on to whatever else might come the day after tomorrow.
So i for one, from now on won't expect to get the least or same and try to get more then i had without comparing them at all.. Uhm am i Irrelevant?  Are we all Repetitive People?
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Aug 15 2007, 04:17 PM
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rawr? Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 |
Sorry but not everyone is repetitive people. And is this about an relationship?
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Aug 17 2007, 04:23 AM
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WarPath Leader. Group: Member Posts: 668 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 216,721 |
You don't seem to understand, maybe cuz yer a lil young?
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Aug 17 2007, 05:55 AM
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 << >> Group: Member Posts: 579 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 495,827 |
Tl;dr
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Aug 17 2007, 08:54 AM
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QUOTE(Claudel @ Aug 15 2007, 03:36 PM)  Sometimes... i just stop and try to analise what happen in the past and what if that might repeat, will it have the same consequices? will it be better or worse? And then i find myself in the position of comparing past with present or just future that is too true [for me atleast]. i can admit i'm a repetitive person.. and i seem to look for the same thing in most guys; then being so curious if they'd turn out to be as bad as my past, worrying about being in the same situation. Usually i end up in the same situations too [which kinda suck] 
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