Dating a younger guy, good idea or not? |
 Aug 10 2007, 12:09 PM
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 Amor caecus est  Group: Member Posts: 110 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,949  |
I like this guy and he likes me back... the only thing is he's two year younger than me... he's gonna be a freshman and I'm a junior...
I know you shouldn't really care what people think, but I'm just worried about things... and if we do go out, I don't want to end up breaking up and making our friendship akward.. should I go out iwth him or not? 
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Aug 10 2007, 12:13 PM
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 I know you're gonna save me Group: Member Posts: 295 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 447,431 |
^She definetly has a point, with the maturity thing. It's all in your taste in guys I suppose. Just go with your gut feelings, and if you like him enough, then why not I say.
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Aug 10 2007, 12:13 PM
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 Ohhh yes. Group: Official Member Posts: 1,148 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 552,569 |
It shouldn't matter. If he likes you and you like him, just go for it.
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Aug 10 2007, 12:34 PM
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 WarPath Leader. Group: Member Posts: 668 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 216,721 |
Numbers don't count, only feelings.
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Aug 10 2007, 02:36 PM
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 here, here, and here Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,301 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 206,103 |
Who cares?! If you like him go ahead! =D
Anyways look out for immaturity from experience. 
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Aug 10 2007, 02:47 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
Age shouldent matter, as long as you like him and he likes you, go for it.
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Aug 10 2007, 04:51 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 310 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,834 |
Uh - age definately does not matter.
my ex is 20 yrs old and his girlfriend is 27. They're really good together. go for it. :] |
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Aug 10 2007, 05:25 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
"age aint nothing but a number"
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Aug 10 2007, 09:40 PM
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i'm so bored. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 1,261 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 473,614 |
sure, age doesn't matter, but level of maturity does. both (mostly) balance each other out. so, it's your call whether or not he can handle a relationship with you.
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Aug 10 2007, 09:51 PM
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 sleep now, moon Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,540 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 526,212 |
why not? what are you worried about?
just don't forget that you are going to be going to college soon. two years can be extremely short; it depends on how long your relationships usually are. if you don't want things to be awkward, then don't let it be awkward. if he's pressed on things being awkward and avoiding you after a break up... that's foofy. |
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Aug 10 2007, 10:10 PM
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Age does not always equal maturity.
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Aug 10 2007, 10:16 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 184 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 394,782 |
^ I agree. Now and days I've noticed that younger guys are beginning to act more mature. It must be the times. But as long as he treats you good, no need not to date him.
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Aug 11 2007, 05:25 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 218 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 473,112 |
The only issue i could see is your friends getting along with a fish. In high school this is usually a bigger deal with all the hazing and whatnot, and on the flipside his friends may be extremely immature.
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