Separation Anxiety ;; My Baby's On Vacation ♥, How do you feel when your "significant other" goes away? Options

[SimplicityGirl]

no offence but you sound extremely clingy. He's only gone for a couple of days, and you make it sound like he's gone for MONTHS. Look, me and my boyfriend rarely see each other even though we're both here and not on vacation. We see each other maybe once or twice every week; sometimes I don't get to see him for two weeks straight!

Stop obsessing over him sheesh.

[pikimoo]

I think everyone here should read the original post.. unless that's not what it originally said

But yeah.. I know how you feel. I went to Chicago for a week and even though I had only been dating my boyfriend for a month (a month the day I left -.-) I still missed him like crazy and ran all over the city with my laptop trying to get a connection to the internet so I could email/talk to him.

All the other girls on the trip spent the whole time either with their boyfriends who came on the trip and slept in each others rooms.. or they talked with their boyfriends on the phone all night and texted when they weren't talking. I didn't even have a phone with me so I felt really jealous =(

I dunno if I could go through that again, honestly. I missed him a ton. But it was nice shopping around with a couple of the gals, buying stuff for our boyfriends and talking about how much we care about them ^^; It was also nice coming back to him and seeing that he missed me, too..

I wasn't too worried about him cheating on me, but I wanted so much to be back in his arms.


It's not that I'm clingy.. it's just that he's not JUST my boyfriend.. he's also my best friend. I like talking to/seeing him as much as possible.. and I've sorta gotten used to it. If I don't see him on a Thursday (Thurs is our date day) I get really upset. Because it's not what I'm used to.

[Flaunted]

Atleast he could call you right?
Have fun while he's away, do things that you normally wouldn't do with him. Sure you miss him like crazy but that still doesn't mean you can't hang out with your other friends, I'm sure that they want to see you without him sometimes and go on a girls night out or something.

My boyfriend went to Japan for a whole month, on the other side of the world! He called me twice throughout that month for probably 8 minutes. sure there would be emails but yeah. Also the fact that... there are Japanese women and and how that could have really ended us. Seriously it was the hardest shit ever.

But, just keep yourself busy with things you like to do, that don't always involve your boyfriend. he'll be back in your arms in no time :)

[EmoEyelinerx]

Stop being so selfish and get over it. 3 times a day 10 minutes each is PLENTY. You and your boyfriend should both have your own lives.

I agree.

[xxjess-91xx]

My guy went to Canada for two weeks a few months ago, I saw him the day before he left, and was away for one week myself...but its still hard

I found making myself busy actually made me miss him more when I stopped cos I was tired and wants a cuddle

I wrote him a letter that he'd get when he got home and that really helped

[xxjess-91xx]

^^
Adding to my comment

You speak to him 3 times a day for 10 mins...I got 3 15min calls in two weeks!

And he's moving out there soon so I might not see him for ages, until I can afford to go out

Your lucky he'll be home soon
And wny not read a book just cos you'll be doing that in Dec...?

[LittleMissSunshi...]

i don't think i'll be able to survive, if he went away for a long time.. but if i trust him, and he trusts me, and we have a communication plan. it could work out, ;]

[Rachel]

^It was a week, not the end of the f**king world. I went a month without my boyfriend, to seeing him for two weeks, then another month without him, to one single week, and now we're apart again. Honestly, they've been dating for two years, she should deal with the week and get the f**k over it.

[*Uronacid*]

You should start doing heroine. You should become an alcoholic. You should go have sex with your dog. Hell, you should date your dog. Put your boyfriend on a leash, ride him like a pony, take him to school naked, and jerk him off in front of the whole class to show them how it works. Make sure you catch all his milk in a cup so you can rub it all over your face and tell the class how good it is for your skin.

Feed him some hay. :D

[*Insurmountable*]

^hold on is the whole boyfriend thing for if she dated her dog? Or if like she should do that when her bf returns? o_O


or is there a further meaning to it.

*goes into deep thought*

[*Uronacid*]

^hold on is the whole boyfriend thing for if she dated her dog? Or if like she should do that when her bf returns? o_O
or is there a further meaning to it.

*goes into deep thought*

Duh, it's a parable. You don't own your man. Give him some space.

[*Insurmountable*]

ohhhhhhhh

okay

Do what he said