i dont know what to do? Options

[pink.x.r0se]

so i started talking to this guy and got to know him better. eventually i started liking him; i really thought he liked me back. then one of his friends (theyre not that close though) started talking to me, and basically said some of the cutest things ever to me. i was really confused and finally decided to like the second guy. well, i knew he liked me and so i told him i liked him too; we arent going out but we've been talking a lot and stuff. anyways i just saw the first guy and started talking to him again; itd been a couple of weeks. and its like all my old feelings came back. i just dont know what to do or what the second guy expects now that ive told him i liked him; btu now im not so sure who or what i want. any advice?

[love-issosweet]

Pursuing a relationship with either guy seems pretty risky to me. It seems to me that you can develop feelings or lose feelings for someone very quickly. So you'll just end up breaking hearts. And I don't think the relationship will last very long because you might grow bored of them if you can lose certain feelings for someone so quickly, you know what I mean? I think that these types of relationships are overrated. And the only type of relationship that will last is marriage..sometimes. Sorry for the rant. This is what I think and you don't have to agree with me.

A normal person would probably say, follow your heart and figure out which guy suits you more and which guy you're more compatible with.

[blacknailpolish]

^ No no, I agree. It seems like you aren't really sure of what you want, since your feelings keep changing so easily. I think you should just wait it out a little while longer and see how things go with both of them. You need to think this through before you make any decisions.

[PINAYSTER]

both of them are right
1. you gain/lose your feelings easily
2. you should wait

well.. they're only likes right? and a lot of people have them!!
like me.. i liked three guys and i couldn't choose.. i didn't choose anyone though cuz like.. i new i like them all and if i chose one.. i might regret not choosing the other guys ya know?
MAKE THE RIGHT CHOICE
and just to let you know.. you could break the other guys' heart

[sweetest-emotion]

hmm i suppose you should wait, but not too long! you'll drive yourself crazy!! here's my advice:
kinda forget them and make yourself totally available. stop persuing them and make THEM want YOU. kinda play hard to get but still single, you know? wait and see who gets up the nerve to go for you first. that guy (to me, logically) is the one you should go for. its shows that he's into you and is willing to go get you. and then start dating him and see how it goes. if you get a really bad gut feeling that you should go for the other guy, then you know thats the truth. you'll never know what to do unless you take action. or the guys do. just don't kill yourself over this. if neither one takes action then you do it. if they still don't respond then eff that! its not worth it to wait.

[TimeZonesAway]

hmm i suppose you should wait, but not too long! you'll drive yourself crazy!! here's my advice:
kinda forget them and make yourself totally available. stop persuing them and make THEM want YOU. kinda play hard to get but still single, you know? wait and see who gets up the nerve to go for you first. that guy (to me, logically) is the one you should go for. its shows that he's into you and is willing to go get you. and then start dating him and see how it goes. if you get a really bad gut feeling that you should go for the other guy, then you know thats the truth. you'll never know what to do unless you take action. or the guys do. just don't kill yourself over this. if neither one takes action then you do it. if they still don't respond then eff that! its not worth it to wait.

i like that response the best

every so often i do this [[with people..situations..whether or not to get something]]
make a PROS and CONS list for each guy
it may sound cheesy. and it may sound like something a kid would do
but make a list of all the good things in the first guy..then all the bad
and make the same with the other guy.
and you may not take it seriously and be like "well this guy has more PROS so i'll choose him" but take it into consideration

and what im about to say may happen to you, it happens to me, and it can be both good and bad.

once you write out all the PROS and CONS..you start to notice them more..which is why its both good and bad..because say you start to notice the CONS more..you may lose interest in the one guy. and who knows maybe they both have CONS that you notice so you'll lost interest in both. that would probably be the easiest.
or the same thing but with the PROS. that would be bad though because if you notice the PROS in both of them..then that would probably make the situation worse.

but for me, personally, i always notice the CONS [[i'm just like that though..]]
so it makes it easier for me.

idk if that helps you or not.
just giving advice--that's all.

[LittleMissSunshi...]

I agree that you change your feelings for guys fast. But I say if you want a boyfriend go with "SWEETEST-EMOTION". If your not then go with "BITTERSWEETNESS". Either way just make sure your happy, and not stressing over some guys. They can sometimes make your mind all about them. Let your mind loose, and if you want a guy, get a guy. Cause it seems like getting a guy is easy for you. Either way, whatever you want to do, isn't a major life threat or change. Just be happy with a decision that your willing to take.