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ashxx69xbaby
post Jul 30 2007, 09:43 PM
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i met this great guy while i was w/my ex boyfriend. at the time we both were in a relationship. i got out of mine before he broke up w/his gf. well around march he gave me his necklace. i had it for almost 4 months. ppl were sayen that him and i were dating, but neither one of us asked the other out. after the new year we got into a huge fight and we didnt talk for 4 months maybe. i did somethings to make him really mad. then he got the courage to come and talk to me. and since then we been non-stop talking and flirting. i do like him a lot and i liked him wen i was w/my x. and lately things got a lil over the top w/the flirting. idk what to do at all. heck i dont even know if he likes me gosh i feel really dumb right now.

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animalinside
post Jul 30 2007, 09:50 PM
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dude, he didnt break up with his girl so he could be friends with you...usually if im really interested and i see her giving me the eye, i make my move
 
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post Jul 30 2007, 09:52 PM
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he did break up w/her.

okay w/e its closed.
 
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post Jul 31 2007, 09:09 AM
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Okay well you have to make the decision here.

You can either tell him that you like him and see if he feels the same or you don't tell him and see how things go.

If you tell him that you like him and he does feel the same then it could be the start of a beautiful relationship.. but if he doesn't feel the same it could ruin things real quick depending on the person (I know, I had that happen to me in the past and I lost all my friends for it, long story).

If you don't tell him then you'll just have to wait some more until he gives you more signs or makes a move on you.. in which case I should meantion that if it's meant to be, it's meant to be and you'll find yourself with him without even trying.

Good luck.. ps.. I'm new here so I don't know if you comment me or not.. you may have to message me.. no idea, sorry.
 
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post Jul 31 2007, 09:20 AM
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Ask him what he thinks of your relationship right now. Converse. Communicate. You can't keep all this to yourself. You should know where you stand with a person.
 
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post Jul 31 2007, 09:45 AM
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since you like him, how about taking a huge leap and ask him out yourself? be assertive -=]
 
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post Jul 31 2007, 02:46 PM
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QUOTE(GirlInAus @ Jul 31 2007, 10:09 AM) *
Okay well you have to make the decision here.

You can either tell him that you like him and see if he feels the same or you don't tell him and see how things go.

If you tell him that you like him and he does feel the same then it could be the start of a beautiful relationship.. but if he doesn't feel the same it could ruin things real quick depending on the person.

If you don't tell him then you'll just have to wait some more until he gives you more signs or makes a move on you.. in which case I should meantion that if it's meant to be, it's meant to be and you'll find yourself with him without even trying.


I agree.
 
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post Jul 31 2007, 02:48 PM
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Ask him if he likes you
 
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post Jul 31 2007, 03:57 PM
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QUOTE(GirlInAus @ Jul 31 2007, 10:09 AM) *
Okay well you have to make the decision here.

You can either tell him that you like him and see if he feels the same or you don't tell him and see how things go.

If you tell him that you like him and he does feel the same then it could be the start of a beautiful relationship.. but if he doesn't feel the same it could ruin things real quick depending on the person (I know, I had that happen to me in the past and I lost all my friends for it, long story).

If you don't tell him then you'll just have to wait some more until he gives you more signs or makes a move on you.. in which case I should meantion that if it's meant to be, it's meant to be and you'll find yourself with him without even trying.

Good luck.. ps.. I'm new here so I don't know if you comment me or not.. you may have to message me.. no idea, sorry.



i'll take it slow and see were it goes. if he duz then yeah but if not then id rather be friends w/him. it mite hurt a lot but its better then nothing at all. also if he duz have an interest in me then i'll think about asking him out. you all are great at supporting things like this!
 
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post Jul 31 2007, 05:07 PM
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best thing to do is to talk to him about it.
 
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post Jul 31 2007, 05:08 PM
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best thing to do is to talk to him about it.
 
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post Jul 31 2007, 08:14 PM
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^^ I agree.
You have to know if you're wasting your time on him or not.
Is the relationship going to go further than just over-the-top flirting?

It used to be that if your guy gives you a piece of his jewelry (like a class ring, etc.), it meant that you two were going steady. But this doesn't apply to your situation.

Go talk to him and see what he thinks he's doing with you.
I have a question for you: What do you think you're doing with him? Do you see the flirting as a precursor to a possible boyfriend-girlfriend relationship?
 
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post Aug 1 2007, 11:03 AM
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i didnt know that and i will
 
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post Aug 1 2007, 05:38 PM
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QUOTE(Brilliance @ Jul 30 2007, 09:50 PM) *
dude, he didnt break up with his girl so he could be friends with you...usually if im really interested and i see her giving me the eye, i make my move


Maybe you didnt get what i was trying to say, he didnt break up with his girl just so he could friends with you....im saying he wanted more than that.

I wouldnt really just say how you felt out of nowhere...make a situation where yall are hanging out and see how things progress
 
ashxx69xbaby
post Aug 1 2007, 06:44 PM
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i never thought of it that way at all before. but i do see him this weekend tho and im gona see if it happens again and if it duz then i'll have to think of somehow to tell him or ask him?
 

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