Oh God., Serious questions. Options

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Okay, so... lately I've been having problems with my boyfriend of over a year. We've been fighting every day, and I've caught him flirting and making plans with other girls. He wouldn't answer his phone hardly ever when I called, and so I'm pretty damn sure he's been sleeping around. Yes, we have had sex. Yes, we have used protection. No, it's been about half a year since we've had actual SEX, but we've fooled around and stuff. (Obviously, this was before I caught him, which was about three weeks ago.)

So, here's the big problems... about 3 weeks ago *ahem*, he started complaining that his balls hurt really bad, and it was bad enough that he was sent home from work and didn't go in the next day. Now, he's saying that he has a sore throat, he's really achy all over, he's always tired... blah blah blah. These are the same symptoms for mono, and several different STD's.

I guess what I'm worried about is... if he does have one of these viruses/diseases, he could have very easily passed it on to me.

Whenever I've tried to ask questions about what he has, he REFUSES to answer. He won't tell me a thing.. and that just gives me all the more reason to be suspicious.