Sex- a relationship builder, can it really bring harm to your relationship |
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 Jun 24 2007, 01:24 PM
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I apologize if this there were another topic like this. I didn't see one
Sex is suppose to be relationship builder. I view sex as a commitment to the other sex. Though for those of you who had involved sex in your relationships and do not mind sharing your input here, do you think it had a - effect on the relationship? Personally it hasnt been involved with intamcy in my relationships. ....curious about your all thoughts. |
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Jun 24 2007, 01:58 PM
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Well, It is different for everyone. Some people have sex once and then stop talk to eachother and then others they have sex once and then are together for the rest of their lives. You can only hope the best for what will come with your relationship. Things change people move on sometimes.. shit happends. For me, I never had vaginal sex before but when I do I hope that he will be the one who sticks around for years to come. We do do other stuff with eachother.. oral and such. We have been together for a Year and eight months. We are still in love with eachother and hope to be when we move on to bigger steps in our lives.
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| *MyMichelle* |
Jun 24 2007, 02:17 PM
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I'm not into booty calls.
Sex to me is not something that has to be saved for marriage, but it is an intimate act that I would rather share with someone I love. |
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Jun 24 2007, 02:20 PM
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QUOTE(MyMichelle @ Jun 24 2007, 03:17 PM)  I'm not into booty calls. Sex to me is not something that has to be saved for marriage, but it is an intimate act that I would rather share with someone I love. I agree with this. I would not care who I have sex with as long as I am in love with them and they love me back. Is that wrong? 
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| *steve330* |
Jun 24 2007, 03:11 PM
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^Not at all :)
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Jun 24 2007, 03:31 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
Sex is foul and wrong. The penis will fall off and be forever stuck in the vagina.
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Jun 24 2007, 03:51 PM
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Hahaha. i know, huh.
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| *steve330* |
Jun 24 2007, 03:57 PM
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QUOTE(th5418 @ Jun 24 2007, 03:31 PM) Sex is foul and wrong. The penis will fall off and be forever stuck in the vagina. PRAISE THE LORD |
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Jun 24 2007, 04:04 PM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
QUOTE(steve330 @ Jun 24 2007, 03:57 PM) PRAISE THE LORD Oh hallelujah! |
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| *karmakiller* |
Jun 24 2007, 04:08 PM
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What the...
 Anyways, I think that sex should be something between two people who love each other, but I also don't see anything wrong with having sex with someone who you're not committed to (as long as you aren't a womanizer or manizer, hah.) |
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Jun 24 2007, 07:24 PM
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 just another girl Group: Member Posts: 490 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 393,136 |
I think its something that should be done only when you are really far along in your relationship and you really think that he/she is the one your gonna be with for a long time.
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Jun 24 2007, 07:25 PM
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Unlike a lot of people now a days, I am going to save myself for marriage. It's one of the few things I'm gonna be able to give the guy that would be the first time for me. Oral is just kinda disgusting for me cause it's like... why would you wanna shove your face down by something that smells that strongly and I'd gag on a guys penis... Anal is also disgusting to me cause it's like... what happens if I have poo up there and... *shudders* so yeah. Vaginal only for me and not till marriage. Sex should be something between two people who love each other and don't want to hurt the other. I hate when I hear about guys going out and buying like seventeen prostitutes in one night cause it's like, either find a girl, use your hand or go buy a butter nut squash and some bananas and make a fake vagina.
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Jun 24 2007, 07:39 PM
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CONTENT REMOVED - Toya (freeflow)
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Jun 24 2007, 11:58 PM
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 you're my path to happiness Group: Member Posts: 40 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 523,503 |
this is what my mother told me:
if i have sex with a guy, he will leave me. she thinks that once i give my virginity to a guy, i will have nothing else to give. she thinks that once a guy get what he wants, he will leave. this is what I think (or hope): i will have sex with the person who i truly love and who loves me back for who i am. i hope that it will not affect our relationship negatively, but will help it be stronger. |
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Jun 25 2007, 02:34 AM
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^ Hahaha, my mom said the same thing. Bitter. It makes you feel like shit and just instills fear in you instead of help you in any way. But I don't agree with you on that. There isn't any absolute answer. He might leave you, he might not.
It would hurt me more to know that I had had sex with an ex and he still left, as I view it as the ultimate show of trust and I don't expect that trust to be broken. But I also feel that without anything sexual your relationship won't last very long. Probably because romantic love only goes so far. |
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Jun 26 2007, 12:55 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
i will have sex with the person who i truly love and who loves me back for who i am. i hope that it will not affect our relationship negatively, but will help it be stronger.
[/quote] Agreed. |
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Jun 26 2007, 01:18 PM
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i guess its all based on the decisions you make, for instance the person you wanna lose ur virginity to. i agree with the previous posts =) ^
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Jun 26 2007, 01:26 PM
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QUOTE(Cujiine @ Jun 24 2007, 08:25 PM) Unlike a lot of people now a days, I am going to save myself for marriage. It's one of the few things I'm gonna be able to give the guy that would be the first time for me. Oral is just kinda disgusting for me cause it's like... why would you wanna shove your face down by something that smells that strongly and I'd gag on a guys penis... Anal is also disgusting to me cause it's like... what happens if I have poo up there and... *shudders* so yeah. Vaginal only for me and not till marriage. Sex should be something between two people who love each other and don't want to hurt the other. I hate when I hear about guys going out and buying like seventeen prostitutes in one night cause it's like, either find a girl, use your hand or go buy a butter nut squash and some bananas and make a fake vagina. OMG, that was so visual  XD And yeah I would much rather save it till marriage, or atleast until I have found someone I want to be with for the rest of my life. Idk, i might change my opinion someday. |
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Jun 26 2007, 02:40 PM
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you're my path to happiness Group: Member Posts: 40 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 523,503 |
QUOTE Unlike a lot of people now a days, I am going to save myself for marriage. It's one of the few things I'm gonna be able to give the guy that would be the first time for me. Oral is just kinda disgusting for me cause it's like... why would you wanna shove your face down by something that smells that strongly and I'd gag on a guys penis... Anal is also disgusting to me cause it's like... what happens if I have poo up there and... *shudders* so yeah. Vaginal only for me and not till marriage. Sex should be something between two people who love each other and don't want to hurt the other. I hate when I hear about guys going out and buying like seventeen prostitutes in one night cause it's like, either find a girl, use your hand or go buy a butter nut squash and some bananas and make a fake vagina. ^ whoa. that's scary...poo? i would never have anal sex either. i think everybody has different opinions on things. and i'm glad u feel strongly about saving it for marriage. that would make it more special for your husband. |
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Jun 26 2007, 03:10 PM
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A guy's penis isn't smelly. Who's dick have you been smelling?
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Jun 26 2007, 03:28 PM
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QUOTE(yobaka3 @ Jun 26 2007, 01:10 PM) A guy's penis isn't smelly. Who's dick have you been smelling? Not the penis being smelly. The vagina... it's just ick... |
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Jun 26 2007, 03:32 PM
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Hahaha xD
Juicy. But honestly, the vagina shouldn't smell too strongly, if it does, something it probably wrong. But yeah, it has a smell. Although most guys find that smell to be awesomesauce. |
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Jun 26 2007, 07:25 PM
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QUOTE(th5418 @ Jun 24 2007, 04:31 PM) Sex is foul and wrong. The penis will fall off and be forever stuck in the vagina. omg, I cant find my penis I think its in my girlfriend!! trav 
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| *karmakiller* |
Jun 26 2007, 07:32 PM
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QUOTE(yobaka3 @ Jun 26 2007, 03:32 PM) Hahaha xD LOL... ewwwwwwwww. awesomesauce.
Juicy. But honestly, the vagina shouldn't smell too strongly, if it does, something it probably wrong. But yeah, it has a smell. Although most guys find that smell to be awesomesauce. |
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Jun 26 2007, 07:33 PM
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for SHIZZ. Group: Member Posts: 878 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 435,846 |
This topic is just too entertaining.
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