He's messing with my head..., and I'm annoyed |
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 Jun 10 2007, 02:02 AM
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Ok I've been spending a lot of time with my friend Raymond at school and I'll walk with him part of the way home untill we get to my bus stop and I'll say goodbye and every so often we'll hug each other. Anyways, one day he'll act like he likes me as more than friends and the next he'll completely blow me off like there isn't anything there. I do like him but last year one of my friends liked him a lot and asked him to be her boyfriend and he said no cause he wanted to focus on school and stuff which I understand and all but I just get annoyed that he'll act almost like we're together and stuff and then like we're just friends. Feed back on what kind of message he's trying to convey?
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Jun 10 2007, 02:47 AM
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Hmm seems like a guy who doesnt know what he wants right yet especially if hes cool with you one day and blowing you off the next. Hes sending you mixed signals which isnt cool on your part but he probably dont think of it that way.. what you could do is blow him off and see if he comes around .. or just say it right out but kinda jokingly like ... " hey u know sometimes i feel like we get along great and others its like you dont wanna be bothered with me your annoyed by me or something whats up with that" and laugh and see what he says.
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| *kryogenix* |
Jun 10 2007, 10:23 AM
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Throw some Ds on that bitch.
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Jun 10 2007, 02:32 PM
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QUOTE(kryogenix @ Jun 10 2007, 10:23 AM)  Throw some Ds on that bitch. That's getting annoying.  Maybe he likes you but ... he doesn't really want to show it, it's hard to explain. My boyfriend did that before we went out. Like, on the bus he'd sit with me and talk but during school he'd completely ignore me. Ask him about it. |
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Jun 10 2007, 03:35 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
QUOTE(xburnoutx00 @ Jun 10 2007, 03:32 PM) That's getting annoying. Yeah I know. I dont think hes sure what he wants to do right now if hes fine with you one day and the next he completely ignores you. I think you should just straight up ask him why some days hes cool around you then others he just acts like you dont exist. |
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Jun 12 2007, 06:42 PM
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Ok so I asked him today and being the guy he is... he just shrugged and said, "Ionno..." I was trying to talk to him all day but he kept wandering off and he never has his phone on and when he does he has text messages blocked somehow and he won't answer when I call or any of our friends.
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Jun 12 2007, 06:53 PM
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So he's avoiding you now?
To me...It kind of seems like he likes you but he's, like, insecure about it or something. Does he know that you like him?If not, maybe he likes you but doesn't think you'll like him back. |
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Jun 13 2007, 02:55 AM
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 omfg, rtfql. Group: Member Posts: 649 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 511,564 |
I think you should try and talk to him. It makes sense for him to want to focus on school. But, you could tell him that if you get together, you're not going to force him into failing, or something.
QUOTE(kryogenix @ Jun 10 2007, 11:23 AM) Throw some Ds on that bitch. I don't think it's annyoing, I think it's hilarious. Still. |
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Jun 13 2007, 01:54 PM
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Yeah he sound unsure about one thing. Does he want this or he wants it to be like that. But girl make sure you don't go wasting your time with a boy that is undecided, you can find others who won't mess with your mind.
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| *Mercy* |
Jun 13 2007, 01:58 PM
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QUOTE(kryogenix @ Jun 10 2007, 03:23 PM) Throw some Ds on that bitch. How about...POP LOCK AND DROP IT. ..No? |
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Jun 13 2007, 08:45 PM
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maybe he just wants to be friends? i dont know..
i hug a bunch of my just-friends friends that are girls, and they dont think i like them or vise-versa.. |
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Jun 14 2007, 11:44 PM
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yeah i have no good advice for you, good luck!
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Jun 15 2007, 12:32 AM
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heh wow thanks^... but yeah I told him I liked him and then asked if he liked me and he said yeah but he knew that I was friends with a whole bunch of girls that have been crushing on him for a few years and he didn't want to hurt them or get me in trouble with them... I can't tell if that's sweet or just stupid...
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Jun 15 2007, 02:06 AM
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 that's what she said Group: Member Posts: 848 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 436,512 |
QUOTE(Cujiine @ Jun 15 2007, 01:32 AM) heh wow thanks^... but yeah I told him I liked him and then asked if he liked me and he said yeah but he knew that I was friends with a whole bunch of girls that have been crushing on him for a few years and he didn't want to hurt them or get me in trouble with them... I can't tell if that's sweet or just stupid... I think that's his way of saying I-don't-really-like-you-but-I-am-using-this-lame-ass-excuse-so-I-won't-seem-like-the-ass-hole-that-I-am. |
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