so what do u think?, throw out situations your in and give and recieve advice. |
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 Jun 14 2007, 12:34 AM
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so me and my bf have been in well let me break it down
we gawt ina fite a couple of days ago and we havn't been on speaking terms since then. so i decide enoughs enough this is totally lame! so i call him a little while ago to try and mend some broken ends cuz well i miss him. so here is the convo. the whole 1m 39s him:Hello me:Hello him:yea? me:Do u want to talk? him:Idk? me:How can u not know? him:Well i mean we have a lot to talk about. me:yea i know thats why i called. him:ok, well im on the other line can i'll call you back in like 20 mins. me:[Pause] him:is that o.k me:[clears throat] uhm... yea. him:well do u want me to? me:yea him:akright be shure to pick up. me:alright him:bye [click] me:bye.. so yea there you go what am i too make of this?
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Jun 14 2007, 12:58 AM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
I say give him another shot and answer his call. Try to find out who he was on the other line with, too. Because he shouldn't of blown you off if it wasn't important.
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Jun 14 2007, 01:14 AM
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yea but its been longer than 20 effing mins
and he still hasnt kalled! wtf? im starting to get mad, i mean i wanna see whats going on but i kant help but be p.od so he better nawt have a damn attitude if he does kall. oh and thanks for replying :] |
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Jun 14 2007, 03:07 AM
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High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
Np.
 Well, I've never been in this situation, but would it be too much if you called him? 
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Jun 14 2007, 03:08 AM
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Maybe he's....talking about how to talk with you and getting advice?
Honestly? I don't think it matters who he's on the phone with as long as he calls you back. I mean, I think he took a huge step in even admiting that you teo had things to talk about! Give him some slack, but if he doens't call back, THATS when you should start to get angry. |
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Jun 14 2007, 03:12 AM
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well lemme tell you what happened
ok so he finally called lk at 1:15 and so we talked and our previous problem gawt worked out or w.e and so i finally gawt around to asking him who he was talking to and it was HIS EX f**king GF! omg im sooo f**king pissed rite now ugghh he a damn idiot and when he tells me its her he says it lk it fxcking nothing! im telling u if i was in person with him wen he said tht i wouldve slap tht dumbass! so what do u have to say to tht? |
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Jun 14 2007, 03:23 AM
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haha wow seriously you need to ditch this guy he is effing head games for real . you two break up and he is already running back to his ex talking to her? well unless they always talked and if not he must of called her telling her he was single right?.. so basically his ex was more important than talking things out with you!! I dont know I'd for sure leave him especially if hes playing games like that waste of time !!
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Jun 14 2007, 03:31 AM
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 omfg, rtfql. Group: Member Posts: 649 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 511,564 |
Man, if I found out my boyfriend was talking to his ex-girlfriend, I'd dump in in half a second. But, that's because her &I have a past. She tried to break us up, and I kicked her ass, and a lot of stupid immature shit. But, whatever.
Personally, you should tell him just how f**ked up it is, that he was talking to her. Don't act like you're not upset, because he might think it's ok, and do it again. It may be completely innocent, but that doesn't mean you should just ignore it. As far as the fight goes, don't get too worked up about it. It's probably something that can just blow over. Just, don't be afraid to let go of your pride, and apologize first. |
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Jun 14 2007, 03:40 AM
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yea wen i found that out i hung up on his ass
&& the a-hole hasnt kalld me back [prick] && lk the thing with me && her is that she tried to break us up when we first gawt together too. she told her dumbass friend tht i "wouldn't leave her alone" truth is i never even talkd to the bitch prior to tht. && so here comes her dumbass friend on MYSPACE talking shyt lk shes gunna kick my ass. so one i already know his ex is all talk && just a lil pussy because shes going to pull this? so i send her a msg to scare the shyt outta her which i did && she kalls my bf bitching moaning && complaining about lk he's gunna take her side! yea the f**k rite! so our relationship has been drama from the start. we just passed our 1 yr ann. last week idk how much longer this shyt is gunna last im tired of it. oh && wen i asked why he kalled her he says "because i havn't talkd to her ina while && i wanted to see how she was because shes my friend" omfg im about ready to take my fone and shove it down his throat! but anyway i was lk no shyt u havnt talkd to her because your nawt suposed to be shes your ex dumbass that means no longer in your life!!! |
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Jun 14 2007, 04:08 AM
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omfg, rtfql. Group: Member Posts: 649 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 511,564 |
Yeah. I think you should give him an ultimatum. [Either you, or her.]
He doesn't need to be talking to someone that's going to cause drama, or put your relationship in harm's way. Especially if she's his f**king ex. |
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Jun 14 2007, 11:23 AM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
i mean does he really wanna fix things? He proably does but he like he said was on the other line.
is WHO EVER he is talking to on the other line more important than our relationship?No, you know he does have other people he hangs around with;not just you. He doesent have to just drop everything because you want to talk to him. do i answer his call?You called him the least you could do is answer his call. do i give him shyt for making me wait?No, like I said before you he does have other people he hangs around with;not just you. Your not the center of his universe. He doesent have to just drop everything because you want to talk to him. |
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Jun 14 2007, 11:46 AM
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Jun 14 2007, 03:10 PM
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QUOTE i mean does he really wanna fix things? He proably does but he like he said was on the other line. is WHO EVER he is talking to on the other line more important than our relationship?No, you know he does have other people he hangs around with;not just you. He doesent have to just drop everything because you want to talk to him. do i answer his call?You called him the least you could do is answer his call. do i give him shyt for making me wait?No, like I said before you he does have other people he hangs around with;not just you. Your not the center of his universe. He doesent have to just drop everything because you want to talk to him. ok well thing is he was talking to his ex gf so i do have reason to be pissed off for him making me wait. && he ended up kalling me lk 1h & a half later. well i wanna thank every one who helped me with my problem he eventually kalled me back && after a huge as arugument that involved yelling && cussing. he apologized && said how stupid it was of him to do what he did [because it was] so now everythings ok. i did give him the ultimatum [me or her] && he chose me. so hopefully everything will stay on good terms because i can't handle them getting much worse. but thank you to everyone! i really appreciated it! :] |
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Jun 14 2007, 05:03 PM
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he was probably talking to another girl..
i guess he likes her now? that sucks. |
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