I like her but don't know how to tell her |
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 Jun 28 2004, 06:42 PM
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 Ne0 Is The One  Group: Member Posts: 1,348 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,349  |
ok, I like this girl from school. She is nice and finds me funny and we talk alot on AIM and at school. We became friends but I want it to be more then that. I however am shy and don't know if I should tell her and how to tell her.
What should I do? and if I want to tell her, how should I? its hard for me to approach a girl and ask her out. I can talk to a girl but when this topic comes up, I have a hard time telling her and the last time this happen, I didn't do anything about it. 
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Jun 28 2004, 06:46 PM
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 Miss Alice Group: Member Posts: 1,257 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,454 |
Weel if you're shy how do expect to go to the nest step? Build up your courage and ask her out on a date, the worst she can say is no right? Good Luck
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Jun 28 2004, 06:54 PM
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save a horse...ride a cowboy! Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,125 |
or do what i do and tell one of your friends that you know can't keep their mouth shut and if they don't tell, tell them to tell her but not tell her you wanted them to...if she likes you, then things are great, if she doesn't, she can just think the person who told her was joking...right?
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Jun 28 2004, 07:34 PM
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 Sweet n' Sexy Group: Member Posts: 146 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,489 |
just start talking about movies and then say that u really wanna see this awesome movie, and ask if she wants to come and then take it from there.
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Jun 28 2004, 08:09 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 279 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,406 |
tell her.. or you will regret
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Jun 29 2004, 01:29 AM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
EXACTLY! tell her, or you`ll regret NOT telling her when you see her with someone else!! *gasp*
 hmmm....or ask her if she`s interested in boyfriends...or if she likes someone....hmmm... or if you want to know if she likes you, then look DEEP/STRAIGHT into her eyes. the eyes will give it away. 
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Jun 29 2004, 01:32 AM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
If you THINK she likes you, then just keep on asking her who she likes! Or. . ask her for "hints" about who that guy is .. if you think it's you, I think you just tell her you like her and yeah .. xP
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Jun 29 2004, 01:34 AM
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Be really mean to her.
Act like an assh*le. She'll fall for you so fast, a cheetah woulda been like, " wtf? " - Chinkieeyedpnoi |
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Jun 29 2004, 04:16 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 94 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,708 |
QUOTE Be really mean to her. Act like an assh*le. She'll fall for you so fast, a cheetah woulda been like, " wtf? " HAHAHAHA just tell her that you like her! you guys talk a lot on AIM, tell her and sign off! |
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Jun 29 2004, 10:06 AM
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 off the wall dork Group: Member Posts: 470 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,070 |
QUOTE(WONHEEEEE_:D @ Jun 29 2004, 4:16 AM) HAHAHAHA just tell her that you like her! you guys talk a lot on AIM, tell her and sign off! omg thats hilarious. but then if u do that then the chick will be all confused then u would be afraid to log back on cus she mite be online too. the best bet is to jus tell her like hang out with her with a bunch of yalls friends then take time to be alone with her and then BAM!!! tell her.  wow... i didnt think guys would be afraid to ask girls out. r all guys like this?
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Jun 29 2004, 10:10 AM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
just tell her straight up!! u'll never get anywhere being shy....and wat if ur too late and someone else asks her out?!??! just do it... the worst she can do is say no..and then u'll have no regrets
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Jun 29 2004, 10:17 AM
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 Peace Luv bubbles Group: Member Posts: 580 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,467 |
I feel the same way twards a guy.
U just have to swollow ur shyness and tell her, and how you tell her depends on who u r, U might wana start of with a funny comment if ur witty, or u might wana coplement on something of hers. That will give her the idea u might wana say something to her. Take her somewhere privet, and flat out tell her. If she is truly a friend she won't give u a hard time. Trust me, the guy I like I finally was gana tell him, but then I find out he was going out seacretly. |
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Jun 29 2004, 10:30 AM
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 Pimp Status Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,200 |
Hey bro I was once in your shoes... Being all shy and all... But i remember this quote and it might help you.
"If you want big rewards, you gotta take big risks" IF your really want this girl, your gonna have to risk alot...Good luck bud |
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Jun 29 2004, 10:49 AM
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 baby, be good to me Group: Member Posts: 592 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,358 |
The best advice I can give is to just tell her how you feel, there is no magical words that you can say that will make her feel the same way back. From what you're saying it sounds like she really likes you too, just tell her and hope for the best. And if it doesn't work out...being friends is still just as good.
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Jun 29 2004, 11:32 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,102 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,162 |
^^^ She said it all and she said it well.
I have nothing to add. Listen to her advice. |
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Jun 29 2004, 05:13 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 64 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,421 |
alright just talk to her tell her it seeems she likes you too just take the risk you dont wanna regret anything or just ask her on a date and if she accepts she probalby likes you and see how that goes and then if it goes good ask her out. hopefully things work out for you
 but no regrets
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Jun 29 2004, 05:24 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
like everyone said, just go for it. and you never know, she might say yes! this was the same with me, i liked this guy, and on the last day of the term, i was gonna ask him out or something, but lucky for me, he asked me out! so, just take the risk- maybe she wants to go out with you, but is also shy.
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Jun 29 2004, 10:49 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,040 |
hmm.. like everyone pretty much say.. just go for it.. you will never know.. i have the same problem too.. i wish i can tell her.. i can have chose the decision to tell her.. but i cant.. suckz for me.. cause i cant see her for 2-3 weeks.. so yeah.. just go for it.. maybe shes just shy.. so you will never now..
QUOTE hopefully things work out for you but no regrets yeah.. if you dont do this.. you still even regret it.. if you do it.. you will get it off your chest and feel much better.. hope everything will work for you.. |
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Jun 29 2004, 11:52 PM
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Ne0 Is The One Group: Member Posts: 1,348 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,349 |
I will ask her the next time i see her or online.
thx for the advices you all gave me. wish me good luck 
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Jun 30 2004, 12:25 AM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 11 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,196 |
i think you should tell her how you feel. stuck it up! just think, what if you didnt tell her, and all this time you are wondering what would she have thought of you. or where it would have lead? dont worry the worst thing she can do is say that she doesnt like you. believe me, its better in the long run
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Jun 30 2004, 12:41 PM
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 Alisha Group: Member Posts: 2,341 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,880 |
QUOTE(chinkieeyedpnoi @ Jun 29 2004, 12:34 AM) Be really mean to her. Act like an assh*le. She'll fall for you so fast, a cheetah woulda been like, " wtf? " - Chinkieeyedpnoi exactly
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Jun 30 2004, 02:11 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 233 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,422 |
tell her. just be like i need to tell you how i feell..you're a really great girl blahblah and i like you a lot. just say what u jus t told us..
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Jun 30 2004, 09:11 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 6 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,309 |
Just tell her how you feel
alot of guys dont have the courage to do that and by you tellin her she will respect you more for that
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Jul 1 2004, 03:55 AM
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 LunchboxXx Group: Member Posts: 1,789 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,810 |
take it from me and my personal expierience. just tell her. the rest will pretty much come naturally.
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Jul 5 2004, 01:37 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
just tell her
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