How long did it take to get over your love/bf/gf. |
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 May 21 2007, 05:53 PM
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So i was wondering how long it took for you to get over someone you really cared about and loved?
They say it takes time and time will heal you but its been a year now since the breakup...and my feelings havent lessened...and i was starting to worry that i might be stuck here...it feels like i cant fully let it go and we still talk and it still feels the same just that we aren't really together. i do want to move on but at the same time i dont want to and i dont know how to. Confused. but oh well. 
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May 21 2007, 06:49 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
lol well, the last time i really liked someone before Thuan it was a big mistake and i really didn't like him. lol. does that make sense? but yeah i wasted about 2 years of my life, but it doesn't really matter now. :] it's okay. it does take time, and when that time comes it'll come and perhaps you'll realize like i did...like, why did you even like that person at all? lol. ehh that's just me:)
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May 21 2007, 06:59 PM
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[we were together for 1 yr on and off]i wouldnt say love but how much he meant to me.. it to me a while, but it was a while to realize how much of an ass he made me look b/c he wasnt really the boyfriend material...
other than him, my other ex took me a great while [only four months] but we grew on each other when we broke up.... we are best friends now.. i dnt think we are over each other though... like we are.. but deep down hard to admit that we arent.... |
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May 21 2007, 08:23 PM
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 Pocketful of Sunshine Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,690 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,004 |
Last time was ummm.. 6 months? Currently, for me, it's one year and counting..
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May 22 2007, 08:15 AM
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 What a sick, masochistic lion. Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
My last serious relationship lasted just five months, but it took me like a year to fully get over it, mostly because of the way it had ended- unresolved and in the most confusing circumstances. |
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May 22 2007, 08:20 AM
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The most recent ex? A couple of weeks.
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May 22 2007, 04:01 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
Half the school year (this year)..I still havent gotten over him.
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May 22 2007, 04:01 PM
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 RyanIsCoolerThanYou<3 Group: Member Posts: 514 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 525,502 |
If you really loved him/her, you won't ever get over them.
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May 22 2007, 07:57 PM
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QUOTE(&/degradanca. @ May 22 2007, 09:15 AM)  My last serious relationship lasted just five months, but it took me like a year to fully get over it, mostly because of the way it had ended- unresolved and in the most confusing circumstances. yeah it just feels like one reason i cant fully let it go cuase the way it ended felt unresolved.. |
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May 22 2007, 08:44 PM
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i recently just got out of a 11 month realationship.. im still not over her, and shes not over me. we probably should be dating again, but we both love the single feel.
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May 24 2007, 08:20 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 527,241 |
I agree with Smak7. Sorry. 22 years and counting for me.
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May 24 2007, 09:28 AM
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Pocketful of Sunshine Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,690 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,004 |
QUOTE(Smak7 @ May 22 2007, 02:01 PM) If you really loved him/her, you won't ever get over them. Thanks for ruining my whole high school career. 
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May 24 2007, 06:51 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 11 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 457,957 |
QUOTE(kyrov @ May 24 2007, 09:20 AM) I agree with Smak7. Sorry. 22 years and counting for me. oh no...thats scary... its possible... LOl *sigh* |
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May 25 2007, 02:02 PM
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 </3 Group: Member Posts: 1,113 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 106,746 |
Well with my serious boyfriend it didnt take too long actually, a month or two maybe. I was very suprised with myself concidering I liked him a lot. It used to take me months upon months to get over someone.
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May 25 2007, 02:04 PM
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RyanIsCoolerThanYou<3 Group: Member Posts: 514 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 525,502 |
Yes, I know I made a lot of people feel worse with that one, but when it gets right down to it, I'm not sure If I have ever truly been in love with a girlfriend...not even my current, so when you think about it I'm sure most of you have never been truly in love either, I wouldn't worry.
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