Is it wrong for a 14 year old to have sex?, -poll- |
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 Dec 2 2007, 01:41 AM
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 metalmouth hoee  Group: Member Posts: 786 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 566,794  |
Imo, i am a cornball, and i want my first time to be special, call me gay and crap, but w/e.
And i want to LOVE the guy who i lose my virginity to, and nowadays, all the guys want is a bootycall, and at 14, most people are immature and dont realize it until after the fact, and then you're gonna be depressed and crap, and what kind of 14 year old really knows the meaning of LOVE anyways? I havent seen one so far. Sure, you say you love each other, but do you really mean it? Do you want to stick with them thick and thin, good and bad, whatever you may go through?, i dont think so :|... And, if you actually LOVE each other, go to some country with fake id's and marry each other, then you can truly be together forever. Me, im waiting until i find a good guy who LOVES me, and when i can understand LOVE itself. |
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Dec 3 2007, 02:15 PM
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I dont think a 14 year old is ready for sex.
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Dec 3 2007, 02:24 PM
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 You're awful, I love you! Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 514,546 |
I dont see it as being wrong cause its very easy to just give in to our desires instead of being paitient. I rly see it as a bad choice. Like you don't know what could happen! Nothing could happen sure, and you could have a good time with ur bf or whatever. But then again you get a std, you get pregnant, your parnets could find our and kick your ass. You know, typical cons. But I feel like in the long run, its kind of not worth it. For a number of reasons Im to lazy to list. I know for one thing that I won't have sex b4 im old enough that I feel secure about everything that can happen or marriage. I just feel that a teen pregnancy could ruin my life and I have alot of plans! Im sure you do too so you should probably wait and go for your dreams.
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Dec 3 2007, 06:17 PM
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QUOTE(foreverNalways @ Dec 3 2007, 01:15 PM)  I dont think a 14 year old is ready for sex. Everyone is different. Some are ready, some aren't; it depends on the person. |
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Dec 3 2007, 06:43 PM
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 sugar and spice Group: Member Posts: 769 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 596,477 |
Yes. It would be also wrong for a 14 year old to have an STD. Not saying they're gonna get it, but there's always a chance.
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Dec 3 2007, 06:47 PM
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mm.. no. I don't think it's wrong. no. no
 It doesn't necessarily ruin your life. I mean you get paranoid until you get your period about being pregnant even though you use a condom but other than that Nah. I'm 14 and I had sex in a bathroom at Homegoods o.o Me and my boyfriend are still together.  I guess it just depends on if you're able to handle the consequenses or if you think the guy's just using you for "yum yums"
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Dec 6 2007, 12:59 AM
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[font="Comic Sans MS"][/font]i put no. I think that if they think their ready then ok. I have friends that had sex at 13, and my friends that have had sex at young ages have known what could happen and they have used protection all the time. They know it doesn't always help but at least they know to use it. 14 year olds can be very smart, and they know what can happen. So if they want to have sex let them.
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Dec 6 2007, 09:04 AM
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 So um yeah Group: Official Designer Posts: 745 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 459,873 |
QUOTE(krn_kiddo254 @ May 18 2007, 01:28 AM) Well it depends. If she is married than no. Sex out of wedlock is yes. 14 year olds get married voluntarily? 
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Dec 6 2007, 07:07 PM
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I really don't know. I'm fourteen years old, and I lost my virginity a year and a half ago .. I don't know what stupid decisions I was making. I thought it was right, i THOUGHT i loved him, but who was I kidding, I do still love the guy I lost it to, I know he wasn't in it for just sex, because we were together for 14 months, and when I didn't wanna have sex, he didn't care. & I know he loved me or whatever cause he cried whenever we argued.. But it was a decision that I had made, I can't turn back the time. It didn't change me, or my personality. I'm the same person. To me, sex is your feeling and your choice, but I don't think someone should judge me because I've had sex.
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Dec 6 2007, 07:16 PM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
QUOTE(LDY x ALYSSA @ Dec 6 2007, 04:07 PM) I really don't know. I'm fourteen years old, and I lost my virginity a year and a half ago .. I don't know what stupid decisions I was making. I thought it was right, i THOUGHT i loved him, but who was I kidding, I do still love the guy I lost it to, I know he wasn't in it for just sex, because we were together for 14 months, and when I didn't wanna have sex, he didn't care. & I know he loved me or whatever cause he cried whenever we argued.. But it was a decision that I had made, I can't turn back the time. It didn't change me, or my personality. I'm the same person. To me, sex is your feeling and your choice, but I don't think someone should judge me because I've had sex. LOL. So you you lost your virginity at 12.5 years old? What a slut! LOL. So is this picture of you?  Wow, there are so many Filipinos here in the Bay Area, and most of them all sluts. So you are no different. |
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Dec 6 2007, 07:18 PM
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QUOTE(LDY x ALYSSA @ Dec 6 2007, 04:07 PM) I really don't know. I'm fourteen years old, and I lost my virginity a year and a half ago .. I don't know what stupid decisions I was making. I thought it was right, i THOUGHT i loved him, but who was I kidding, I do still love the guy I lost it to, I know he wasn't in it for just sex, because we were together for 14 months, and when I didn't wanna have sex, he didn't care. & I know he loved me or whatever cause he cried whenever we argued.. But it was a decision that I had made, I can't turn back the time. It didn't change me, or my personality. I'm the same person. To me, sex is your feeling and your choice, but I don't think someone should judge me because I've had sex. WHATYOUDOTOMAKEHIMCRY? |
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Jan 2 2008, 09:34 PM
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 <joke> inside </joke> Group: Official Member Posts: 2,283 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 470,590 |
i dont think its wrong or right. i just think they would be way too young. married or not married (i dont see how being legally committed to someone makes a difference).
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Jan 2 2008, 09:37 PM
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 s e c r e c y * Group: Member Posts: 471 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 417,181 |
QUOTE(tungmyBANANA @ Dec 6 2007, 07:16 PM) LOL. So you you lost your virginity at 12.5 years old? What a slut! LOL. So is this picture of you? http://cbimg6.com/profile/07/12/06/397999a.jpg Wow, there are so many Filipinos here in the Bay Area, and most of them all sluts. So you are no different. LMFAO TUNG. |
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Jan 2 2008, 10:15 PM
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 ^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
12? Love? Sex?
Getdaf**kouttahere!!! 
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Jan 3 2008, 04:00 PM
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 we're all MAD here Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Jan 2008 Member No: 606,961 |
I voted yes.
Because I think most fourteen year olds aren't mature enough to handle the physical and mental after effects of sex. I think when you're fourteen you have too much to lose, and there is so much life ahead of you. Why take that giant leap into adult hood? You're only young once, be a kid while you can. |
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Jan 3 2008, 04:03 PM
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 Resource Center Tyrant Group: Official Member Posts: 2,263 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,306 |
Why is this up for discussion? People can do whatever they damned well please, even if it's wrong or right.
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Jan 3 2008, 04:14 PM
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we're all MAD here Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Jan 2008 Member No: 606,961 |
QUOTE(MissHygienic @ Jan 3 2008, 03:03 PM) Why is this up for discussion? People can do whatever they damned well please, even if it's wrong or right. This is true, but why not discuss it? It's just peoples opinions on the subject. |
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Jan 3 2008, 04:29 PM
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Resource Center Tyrant Group: Official Member Posts: 2,263 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,306 |
It's just a bit. . . impractical to discuss it. Yeah, it's a forum, but this thread also has nine pages whereas a thread in the Debate forum will only have two or three pages.
It's all a matter of personal choice. It's a simple, "Yes or no" discussion. Perhaps I'm being too logical, here. And there's no difference between a 14-year-old and a 20-year-old having sex, besides a tad bit more life experience. |
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Jan 3 2008, 05:38 PM
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 cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
I still stand with my answer, yes.
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Jan 3 2008, 05:38 PM
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we're all MAD here Group: Member Posts: 20 Joined: Jan 2008 Member No: 606,961 |
Mm, well that's your opinion.
I think there is a much larger difference between a 20 year old and a 14 year old having sex, but that's me. So, I guess I'm trying to say we obviously have different opinions on it so why not discuss it? I mean, I honestly don't care if this board is up or not, because to me it really doesn't matter either way. I'll live. But, I don't know.. I don't see why it has 9 pages though, I didn't go through and read everything. |
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Jan 3 2008, 05:49 PM
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 we go a-drowning Group: Member Posts: 964 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 519,725 |
yes. i think its wrong.
QUOTE(laelaekeke @ Dec 3 2007, 06:47 PM) mm.. no. I don't think it's wrong. no. no It doesn't necessarily ruin your life. I mean you get paranoid until you get your period about being pregnant even though you use a condom but other than that Nah. I'm 14 and I had sex in a bathroom at Homegoods o.o Me and my boyfriend are still together. I guess it just depends on if you're able to handle the consequenses or if you think the guy's just using you for "yum yums"at least people like this make me feel like its wrong. wooooo, yay for the mature girls who can handle the physical and emotional aspect of relationships. so did he bang ya hard at homegoods, girly? |
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Jan 3 2008, 06:03 PM
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cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
QUOTE(LDY x ALYSSA @ Dec 6 2007, 07:07 PM) I really don't know. I'm fourteen years old, and I lost my virginity a year and a half ago .. I don't know what stupid decisions I was making. I thought it was right, i THOUGHT i loved him, but who was I kidding, I do still love the guy I lost it to, I know he wasn't in it for just sex, because we were together for 14 months, and when I didn't wanna have sex, he didn't care. & I know he loved me or whatever cause he cried whenever we argued.. But it was a decision that I had made, I can't turn back the time. It didn't change me, or my personality. I'm the same person. To me, sex is your feeling and your choice, but I don't think someone should judge me because I've had sex. Love at that age? |
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Jan 3 2008, 06:06 PM
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we go a-drowning Group: Member Posts: 964 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 519,725 |
QUOTE(Sulfur-in-K @ Jan 3 2008, 06:03 PM) Love at that age? i know. things like this is what makes teens look so crude and stupid. |
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Jan 3 2008, 06:14 PM
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cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
mmhmmm.
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Jan 5 2008, 06:35 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 56 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 603,117 |
we have this discussion at school quite often;;
i first thought it as completley rong and i wouldnt but most of my fiends say that if it feels right then yes it should be ok but i dont no :/ |
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