do you think i was wrong????, im confused. Options

[ashleybby]

i live in vegas
and i have been going out with my bf for 6 months
and i really really love him.

but he is tired of vegas
and about to graduate
and his aunt in san deigo offered him a job
it pays alright

so the bf was thinking about taking it
when he told me though
i freaked out
and cried alot about it.
i couldnt help it
all i thought about was how long it would be before he came back to vegas

and we kinda fought over the situation
and i think he could find a better paying job here.

so then he told me that the reason he was gonna take it was for me,
because he wants to earn money for us, so we could live together once we graduate
so he said it was up to me....
and i told him i didnt want him to go, so he isnt

is that wrong of me to do? because i feel like in a way that i am holding him back from a good opportunity
but i dont want to be without him....
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idk, i am confused.

[panther]

I will guarantee that you guys will break up. Or he will cheat on you.
Your relationship is doomed either way!

[ashleybby]

are you serious??
i dont think so
even though we have problems we always get over it
and i know he will NEVER cheat on me
because he has had the chance to, but didnt and told me that he had the chance
so i know he wont

[shortnsweet88]

Umm, your relationship is not doomed, first of all. Second of all, yes..and no. He was the final decision maker so it all comes down to what he decided was best for him. As long as you didnt treat him horribly or guilt him into staying...I think what you did was perfectly normal and a natural response.

[Mystic Eyes]

Don't feel bad over it. In the end he decided. And there's nothing wrong with you crying and being upset over this. It shows how much you care for him. Besides he can find a good job where you guys are now.

[ashleybby]

thanks
thats what i think
he can definitly find a good job here in vegas
you dont need college to make money here.
so i dont know what he is so worried about.
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[y0urelectrikk]

I would have done the same.

[WesleyWillis]

Jim Simm got on my ass for screaming like a wild animal at Genesis on Western. I freaked out a lot of customers. I also said "suck my dick" in front of a lot of people.

[EmoEyelinerx]

^ wtf?

I think you had the right to cry, scream ect. it shows how much you care and want to be with him. Although you seem to care alot for him you cant take control of his life. You have to let him make his own decisions. **I've been to vegas 3 times**

[Hamnah]

Good choice.
It's a two-sided relationship.
Not just his.
You should get your say.
This way, you'll both be happier.
And he can search for a better job..
Closer to you:)

[deplorable]

first of all the whole situation shows how truely close you guys are; just for him to ask if you were ok with it is so major! God, i know couples that have gone out for quadruple the time you guys have and the guy would not even consider doing that if faced with the same situation.
second of all. you had all the right in the world to cry and have your say. when things get a little more serious maybe then the possiblity of moving would look brighter since you guys could move together...

anyway, remember the sacfifice he made for you. he must really love you. good luck :)

[cori-catastrophe]

it's most likely a good decision.
you said that it was a decent paying job, and he probably would've wished that he wouldn't have taken it later on in his life. he can probably get a good paying job around where ya'll live. it just shows how much you love him, and he obviously feels the same way. otherwise, he would've just went either way. that shows he respects you and it'll probably make your relationship stronger.