my boyfriend and my bestfriend, arrgg please gimme advice!!! Options

[only_if_u_knew]

ok this is what happened:
ive been talking to this kid for a while now;like 5 months.
i met him at a party.
my "bestfriend" janel was with me.
she saw me and him talking
we exchanged numbers and we started talking
about a month into talking my mom took away my cell phone.
my phone got ruined and i lost his number.
and my phone wouldnt go back on
so anyways about 4 days ago janel tells me shes been taling to this kid johnathan
so i didnt think it was my jonny.
so i went home and searhed for his number.
i called him and asked him if she was talkiing to him
he said she wouldnt leave him alone.
she had gotten his number from her sister.
i told her me and jonny were talking .to leave him alone....
She took a naked pic of herself and sent it to him....*cough*slut*cough*
he told me to tell her to leave him alone!!!
she has bipolar and uses that excuse to her advantege should i take it against her??
please help!!??

[Mystic Eyes]

This sounds soo weird. If that guy doesn't want that gal around him then he needs to tell her straight up instead of telling you to tell her. Maybe then she will get the picture.

[spongeboblover]

It is not your job to tell her to not talk to him anymore. It is his job. I really don't think he wants to stop talking to her if hes getting pictures like that and telling you to do it cuz he can easily do it on his own. If he cant do it on his own then I would say call her then 3 way him and have him say he doesn't want talk anymore so she get the idea because she might be thinking your jealous if he hasn't came out with it [ not saying you are ]. so talk to him first tell him to tell her if he cant then do the 3 way thing.

[EmoEyelinerx]

Its not your job to tell her. Its his, and if he wants to be a wuss about it and not tell her himself he must not care that much.

[cori-catastrophe]

Its not your job to tell her. Its his, and if he wants to be a wuss about it and not tell her himself he must not care that much.

agreed.
she knew that you were interested, so she doesn't sound like a true friend.
but in her point of view(i'm being open-minded here), she might not reliaze that you guys were that close. she might like him alot and not reliaze how much damage she's doing.
and a sidenote...she can't "have" bipolar. she can only be bipolar.
anyways, i wouldn't see that as an excuse on her side for acting whore-ish.

[Smilessss]

i think he should be able to tell her not YOU, and something tells me that hes not that much caring as he should be right now, if hes caring then he would tell her straight off to leave him alone and that hes YOURS only, and your best friend shouldnt do that to you and your boyfriend, that doesnt sound like a "best friend" to me, if she really is your best friend, then she would just leave you and your boyfriend alone and like not act slutty around him and all over him ya know? hey this is just my opinion, you dont have to listen to me if you dont want to *n.n* just follow what your heart tells you

[*AngelicEyz00*]

You got his number five months ago but only talked to him for one month? Then three months after that, you started talking to him again when your friend was talking to him?

[Trinie]

i think he needs to be a man and tell her himself! if he doesnt like her then he can just ignore her. you need to check if she is really your bestfriend too! bestfriend dont do that.

[lojay]

If he wants her to leave him alone... then why doesn't he just block her phone number?

[tr1pp1n]

Seriously who would talk to your fat ass. Let your friend have him, you're disgusting looking and i bet youre just jealous because you feel as if you need to hold on tight to the one guy who talks to you.