Emotions, strange and mixed up at times..... Options

[Kris87]

I have the most worst boy problems...it is really annoying at that. It's like I don't even know what I want anymore...but I met this one guy and he's like absolutely great and like almost perfect for me and i want to get with him really bad but then i have another guy in Washington that I like and wants to get with me and says he loves me and i love him too and i want to be with him and we talk all the time but then i have this guy here that i like too....and it's so0o0o0o confusing and frustrating. I'm thinking about telling the one in Washington that it's giong to be hard to work anything out cuz of distance and that it's giong to be awhile till we see eachother. And I don't know bout the other two guys. They both like me especially the guy that I met. But i just don't know what to do. My emotions are always mixed up and always have me going in the wrong direction without me knowing it...so basically I don't know which direction is the right one. I don't know which direction to go into without making the biggest mistake of my life. I just want to be happy. I haven't been happy in a long time and I'm finally happy. I don't want that to get wasted away again......that feeling is so horrible...cuz I've been dealing with that feeling for over 6 months now and it's been a shitty life. I just want to stay happy and hope that whatever choice I make is the right one...
What do you all think??

[islandkiss]

well who treats you better? and which guy gives you what you need?.. as in happiness and respect. you have to decide this one yourself. good luck. I go for the one in WASHINGTON.

[simplysweet259]

maybe you should make a list of the good and bad things about each of them and then decide that way. hey, it helps for me. It's not fair for any of the guys if you try to get with all of them...all of you are just gonna get hurt in the end.

[177emories]

well just have fun right now, don't think about it tooo far liek your gonna have to marry with them or something... os i say date the one that is here, so u can actually see him...

[angel-roh]

aww girl i was in that problem too before!!! yeah it's a hectic, huh? and a stress feeling... cus there are so many cute guys with a cute personality...so hard to choose, huh? well i got that problem fixed...try to talk to them and see which ones are the best for u... are they talking like they reallie like u or they jus talking like they're just chilling like getting high-type sound... like talk like they are on high. and see if u are comfortable with him or not. of course it's not a good thing to date with a long distance guys cus it's no fun...no exciting or adventurous...but if u like a long distance relationship, then take that... but it's gona be hard. so yeah wat i think u shud do is...talk to the guys of how they feel about u...and tell them to be honest. if they talk like they're not being honest...then u know hes not the one. so yeah...it's hard, but eventually you'll find the one.

[Kris87]

That's the thing though...they're both honest to me and they both tell me how they feel...but I guess I have already made my decision. It was a toughy but something had to be done. I didn't want everyone to hurt. I didn't want to be some player bc I'm not like that. Both guys are like everything that I need but I can't have both. So I chose the one that only lives 4 hrs away, Jacob,...he's closer (well will be closer once he gets back from Iraq). I guess I just feel a more mutual thing with him.