nEED heLP |
 May 2 2007, 07:21 AM
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So, my fiance and I have been together for 2 years and we fight EVERY DAY. we fight over NOTHING most of the time. and its like he always tunes me out and just says things to get me to shut up. i admit, sometimes i'm just picking a fight and i know he does the same thing. we always end up saying "FU" to eachother and i'm absolutely SICK of it. i LOVE him, no doubt about that but i cannot take this anymore. i try and try and try, i really do. but some things just dont seem to want to change... :\ what to do?
 i dont know what to do. i dont think i can keep this up. but he's my hunny, you know. i know u grls feel me on this..
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May 2 2007, 09:07 AM
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I don't know... I mean the only one I pick fights with just cause and yet still love is my brother and my nephew
 Well I would try talking it out with your fiancee. Might help figure out what you two are gonna do...
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May 2 2007, 02:01 PM
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 i know this sounds strange, and im sure it doesnt make sense, but we cant really talk-talk without one of us or both of us getting so damn pissed and start yelling, etc. u'd probably wonder then how the hell did we make it this far down the road? i dont even know... its so complicated 
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May 2 2007, 09:07 PM
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well, he just told me he didnt want to see me after he had just told me he did want to see me but it was too late [ even tho it was only 8:30 ] annd then he kept coming up with excuses and i finally made him spit it out that he didnt want to see me.
so.. i ended it. this is just f**king wonderful. |
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| *kryogenix* |
May 2 2007, 10:01 PM
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I guess you threw some Ds on that bitch.
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May 2 2007, 10:19 PM
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QUOTE(BiALiCiOUS @ May 2 2007, 9:07 PM)  well, he just told me he didnt want to see me after he had just told me he did want to see me but it was too late [ even tho it was only 8:30 ] annd then he kept coming up with excuses and i finally made him spit it out that he didnt want to see me. so.. i ended it. this is just f**king wonderful. so it's all over now? & he was your fiance? wow. sorry. 
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May 2 2007, 10:52 PM
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QUOTE(kryogenix @ May 2 2007, 8:01 PM) I guess you threw some Ds on that bitch. u already kno  QUOTE(ola says hola @ May 2 2007, 8:19 PM) so it's all over now? & he was your fiance? wow. sorry. yes.. but u know what, he was bein all rude, callin me names, and when that happens, i just dont care. i dont deserve that shit u know.. so.. we'll see how it goes... he might call me he might not. theres really no telling... |
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| *Podomaht* |
May 2 2007, 11:25 PM
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QUOTE(kryogenix @ May 2 2007, 11:01 PM) I guess you threw some Ds on that bitch.
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May 3 2007, 01:53 AM
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any guy that calls a girl names is a PEICE OF SHIT!!no matter if its cause hes mad or w.e... he obviously was a waste of time ... life goes on and so will u... u two dont get along anymore its a sign its not ment to be why live miserable and argue everyday when u can just move on and find another down the road...
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May 3 2007, 04:22 AM
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 The kooks Group: Member Posts: 499 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,563 |
It's probably for the best. Arguing everyday is crazy. You wouldn't survive long in a relationship like that, but some how you have. Best to live a life of no or little regret and you two splitting up is something you won't regret. You'll find someone better.
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May 3 2007, 07:20 AM
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thanks u guys... another thing is, i gave up all my friends for him so he could have all my time and all of me [he did the same, almoost] so it helps that i can listen to yall.
 i dont have too many friends anymore or anyone to talk to or listen to.. so thanks again :]
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May 3 2007, 08:31 AM
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The kooks Group: Member Posts: 499 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,563 |
At least now you can rebuild and be happy again. Enjoy life. Oh and feel free to PM me anytime if you want anyone to listen.
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May 4 2007, 10:25 AM
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 Seisuke Group: Member Posts: 289 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 283,523 |
QUOTE(malimars @ May 3 2007, 1:53 AM) any guy that calls a girl names is a PEICE OF SHIT!!no matter if its cause hes mad or w.e... he obviously was a waste of time ... life goes on and so will u... u two dont get along anymore its a sign its not ment to be why live miserable and argue everyday when u can just move on and find another down the road... another down the road who'll have fun crzy enjoyable fights where 'n the end u laugh over it hahaha!!aww, best of luck to you :) 
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