I HATE YOU., but I didn't mean it... Options

[danifibble]

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[*WHIMSICAL 0NE*]

I try not to say things that I don't mean, and although I'm sure I've said things that I haven't meant I can't really remember when or what. Alot of times I'll just say what's on my mind, but I'll regret my tone of voice that I've used.

[Cujiine]

Yeah... I yelled at my now ex because
1. He asked another girl to this dinner banquet thing he was going to.
2. He ignored me for a month(we go to different schools)
3. He told his friend Sean, "That girl in my first three classes with the brown hair is hot. I'd do her in a second. IN FRONT OF ME!!!

I know you're all thinking that he deserved it and he does but I yelled at him because even after we worked it all out, I was still just a teensy bit mad and PMSing and I just let all my anger out on him and so yeah... he didn't yell back or anything but Hugged me and I pushed him away and punched his arm before running away... That night, He called and I answered and told him to leave me alone and he did... that made me uber sad even though it was kinda my fault. He didn't call me again untill I called him and wanted to appologize but he broke up with me saying that he didn't want to have to watch me go through that again.

[michellerrific]

Yeah, I've done that to my parents before. Just because I was angry.
But of course, I don't mean it.

[EmoEyelinerx]

Yeah ive said:I hate you,I wish you would die and alot more stuff althought i cant reamber all of it. Looking back i know what i did was out of anger and i regret ever saying those things.

[*Duchess of Dork*]

My mom always tells me that I'm going to be in a bad way when she dies because of all the terrible things I've said to her.

In part, she's right. We don't get a long terribly well, which I hate because I'm never met my father and would have loved it if I could have had a close relationship with my mother. It just didn't work out that way.

When we get angry with each other, we get ANGRY. I have said things to her that are so hateful, so bitter and so piercing that even I am in shock when I hear myself speak it.

It's something of a regret I live with every day.

[Mystic Eyes]

I've never really said anything out of anger but I have done things out of anger, like punch the wall. The worst was when I elbowed my younger brother in the back very hard. He was really hurt more soo emotionally. I regreted it alot.

It takes alot to get me angry.

[*suddenly she*]

I used to say "I hate you" every time I was frustrated with someone, but even though I was usually laughing when I said it, it still made a difference to some people... so I quit.

I was irritated with my boyfriend once because he was just... playing with my thoughts, and when he walked me out to the door I completely ignored him. He opened the door for me to and I was just like "Do you need something?" like I didn't know him, and then I left.

We talked like half an hour later (which is exactly when I got home) and it was like "ahh I didn't mean it!" from both sides, hahaa.

[motherdahlia]

I've said some pretty stupid things when I'm angry. I told my friend that she didn't really love her boyfriend (at the time, she was trying to choose between her boyfriend or a new guy). Granted, I was angry because her boyfriend was my friend as well, and I hated to see him become her toy. You know high school. She stopped talking to me, and the rest of her "posse", for lack of better word, stopped talking to me.

I also have said "I hate you" to my parents before, but I don't do that anymore. Thankfully.

[oRe0_c00KiE_cAkE]

I do say things out of anger, and then i realize how bad it was and i apologize....

but I never say "i hate you" because in one TV show this girl's last words to her dad was "i hate you," and I don't want that to happen with me and somebody else.

[Jinny]

I said that stuff so many times to my brother.
He can be SO annoying sometimes and he bothers me a lot.
So one time I called him a "F*cking crazy idiot with no life who seriously needs to get out of my room and stop bothering me, you're annoying I hate you so much and I wish that you were never in my life!"

he didn't get upset about it but I felt really, really bad.

[olga63089]

I would say when your angry you dont really think about what you say and how it would affect other people, but kepping anger inside because your afraid of hurting someone's feelings is also harmful to yourself. I guess talking it out would be the best thing or maybe writing it so you dont have to have a face to face heated argument. I try to avoid hurting people with hurtful words but in the end you have to look out for yourself because not everyone is going to consider your feelings.

[alysaphobia]

I've told my brother that countless times. ;(
I don't usually get mad, but when I do get pushed to the limit- I can be so, so hurtful.
I say things I don't mean at the spur of the moment.
Thank goodness it usually only very rarely happens...