grr..Stupid Date, why my prom sucked |
 Apr 29 2007, 12:34 PM
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alright guys.. a few days ago i went to this really expensive prom with my prom date.. first of all she wanted me to go with her and even told my sis to ask me if i was interested in going with her.. so i did.. and at first we hugged, talked, took pictures, and ate dinner while chatting about stuff, normal stuff like that, then when we got to the dance floor, she decided to completely ignore me and dance with her female friends.
now i didn't mind, i thought "oh well i'll dance with her later" so i just kept dancing near her and whatever. so then this slowish song came up and she said she wouldnt dance with me for some stupid reason (i put up bunny ears on her during a picture her friend took on her digicam) and i knew she was joking but still... joke or not that was pretty much our only opportunity to semi-slow-dance, so it was stupid of her, and she still teasingly adamantly refused to dance with me then. and she just went on thru the night, dancing with other GIRLS (no other guys.. shes not lesbo though) and without telling me just walking off with her friends for whatever reason. i wasnt clingy, and a few times i just decided to walk off myself and talk to some of my friends. then at this one moment, while she was dancing with one of her female friends, me and one of my friends were talking and my friend decides to dance with her friend, so my date finally decided to dance with me (prolly only cuz it was awkward to just stand around watching them dance). and i told her (jokingly) "hah.. finally" and she said "what? i danced with you before.." and i thought to myself "uhh no you haven't..." so basically i gave up and just sorta ignored her for the rest of the night. i seriously thought she'd be interested in having a good time with me (even as friends) that night but now i just think that she used me as a prom date just for the sake of having a prom date. wtf. do i have a right to be mad at her? or am i just exploding over something insignificant? |
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Apr 29 2007, 12:51 PM
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 cvchango Group: Human Posts: 492 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 332,717 |
haha you were used
sucks to be you you have all the right to be mad |
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Apr 29 2007, 01:21 PM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
why didn't you ask her to dance with you?
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Apr 29 2007, 01:24 PM
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 ThePinkPanda Group: Member Posts: 760 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,168 |
You probably made her uncomfortable at dinner or something. Or you were a bad dancer. Or she really did think she danced with you. Or she's a typical girl and prefers having a date to hang out with then dance with other girls. Girls are so much easier to dance with and it is a much more comfortable.. er.. experience. I have done the same thing your date did. It wasn't because I used the guy. It was because he, at first, was too romantic . Then it was because he couldn't dance (though I tried to teach him). Then it was because my friends kept dragging me off so they could avoid dancing with their dates. Then he was just standing around being awkward and staring at me...
Besides that, he uh... got hard.. while I was dancing with him. Reeaaally weirded me out. I doubt she used you. But hey, maybe that's just how Reno girls are. |
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Apr 29 2007, 04:27 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 520,457 |
yea I asked her to dance with me.. a bunch of times.. i even grabbed her hand once and said "wanna go dancing? lets go" and shes like "nah i'm too tired" or some other lame excuse like that..
i didnt make her uncomfortable at all.. or it didn't seem like it.. and i can dance lol.. after dinner she just didn't seem like a "date" at all. she even told me a day later "sorry if i was a horrible prom date" (and of course i didn't reply 'yea you were') but yea. |
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Apr 29 2007, 04:28 PM
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 you & i collide Group: Member Posts: 324 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 131,155 |
Maybe she just doesn't really like dancing with guys 'cause what she's seen is like.. heavy grinding? And she just feels more comfortable dancing with her girl friends.
But she still could have danced with you during the slow songs.. |
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Apr 29 2007, 05:05 PM
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She just used you for arm candy.
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May 2 2007, 06:07 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
She basicaly used you. You have all right to be mad at her. And i agree with serendipity x3.
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May 2 2007, 06:45 PM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 472 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 467,840 |
Wow.
This is the exact situation one of my friends was in, except she was the girl. She got nominated for homecoming queen and didn't have a date, so she asked a friend to tell a friend to tell a guy to ask her to homecoming dance. So, because he was a nice guy, he did and escorted her to the game, took her to the dinner, dance, etc. We were mainly in a group so I got to witness everything first hand. Since the only reason she wanted him to go with her was so she could have a date, so she ended up ignoring him and running away from him all night. I felt incredibly bad for him, because he asked her to dance several times and she was like "Uh... I'm too tired" and danced with the girls. I'm sorry. Oh well, you'll get over it. Girls tend to be bitchy like that. |
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