confessed feelings, now what?, i'm worrying; gaah. Options

[mytangerine]

background:
i have liked this guy since freshman year [i am a junior] & we have always been friends in highschool. freshman year, i told him i liked him & he ended up ignoring me for the rest of the year. sophmore year, i sorta moved on/gave up on him. Junior year, [now] i have started liking him again & we talk a lot & are close friends. we don't really hang out too much outside of school though.

spilled the beans:
the other day me & him were text messaging & he basically said that he was attracted to me & he was interested in getting to know me better, as in a step up from just friends. [i know, through a text message, how lame.] anyways, i was super happy. i then called him that night & we had a great conversation & made plans to hang out & stuff. the day we're supposed to hang out he gets grounded because he got in a big fight with his mom. i was really sad.

now:
in general, i barely see him at school, since we only have one class together & now that his phone is taken away due to groundation, we basically never talk. another thing is that the way we act around each other when we're around one another hasn't changed a bit. i know that could be a good thing, it's not awkward or whatever, but it seems to me like we should be a tad bit closer or at least a tiny bit more flirty? i guess i want to be that way, but he's fine with the just friends attitude in school. that kinda makes me dissappointed that he has that attitude because i really really like him & hope we can eventually date. i think i'm worrying about nothing & he will come around & if you think so too, sorry to waste your time.

questions:
-should i just wait it out?
-if i try to arrange another hang out day will that make me seem like i'm too 'desperate' to get to know him better or would that just be considered nice of me to do so?
-has anyone gone through something similar & did it work out between you & your crush, [supportive stories will be nice since i am such a spazz & i worry & overanalyze]