A Lesbian Friend..., would you feel comfortable? |
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 Feb 4 2006, 10:18 PM
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 Break My Heart Again.  Group: Official Designer Posts: 480 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 198,983  |
QUOTE(DisneyPrincessKate @ Jun 11 2004, 3:30 PM) I'd be fine with it. It's not like they'd hit on me because they know I'm straight.  agreed. i have a friend that's a lesbian, and she's never hit on me. (and we've been friends for several years.) |
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Feb 4 2006, 10:26 PM
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no feeling.
by the way,shes just a gurl. |
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Feb 4 2006, 10:44 PM
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I have a friend that is bisexual, doesnt bother me.
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Feb 4 2006, 10:49 PM
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I imagine it's something like having guy friends. There is every chance that they could be attracted to you. It would be just as awkward if guy friend that you did not like in that special way revealed his feelings as it would if a girl friend did.
I'd be perfectly comfortable around them. |
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Feb 4 2006, 11:08 PM
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 Band Geek. Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 341,494 |
I have a friend that's a lesbian and I'm fine with it. As long as they know I'm straight and they don't come on to me I don't care at all.
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Feb 4 2006, 11:35 PM
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 Jus Sweet Chocolate Group: Member Posts: 739 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 216,959 |
at first i was very uncomfortable about lesbians. but when i found out tht half the ppl on my bball team were lesbian i guess i was just like whoah. but im fine with it cuz they kno not to try to make a move on me or look at me in any certain way cuz i will beat tht ass! :)
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Feb 5 2006, 01:30 AM
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 <33 Group: Member Posts: 2,745 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 114,234 |
I'm not really sure. But I would hope she wouldn't be attracted to me. But, I'm still not sure. I don't have a lesbian as a friend, but that sure would be a..shocking moment if I ever found out.
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Feb 5 2006, 02:17 AM
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i have a bunch of bi and lesbian friends..it doesnt bother me...altho one told me how she felt about me..and some others have tried to hit on /take advantage of me..especially at drinking parties ...but i just realized i was never weirded out by it..i guess in a way i treat them like guys O.o
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Feb 5 2006, 02:50 AM
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 say maydayism. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,447 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,344 |
I'm fine with it.
It's not going to change our friendship. |
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Feb 5 2006, 02:43 PM
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of course! i have plenty of Bi and Lesbian friends, and obviously im cool with it, otherwise i wouldn't hang around them. plus i'm straight, and me nd them love picking on random guys, because the guy ego is like "oooo two girls!" XD my boyfriend gets a kick out of it
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Feb 5 2006, 02:54 PM
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I'd be surprised...and I'd feel weird at first, but I'd get used to it
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Feb 5 2006, 03:13 PM
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No, my lesbian friends don't bother me in the least. I mean honestly, you're not going to stay away from befriending all guys because they might be interested in you, are you?
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Feb 5 2006, 03:43 PM
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i have a few bi friends. whats the difference?
it doesnt matter. if they even were interested in you, youre straight so they cant expect anything of you. theyre just people. it doesnt matter what their sexual orientation is. |
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Feb 5 2006, 04:59 PM
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 crushed. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,432 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,026 |
Sure, it wouldn't matter to me.
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Feb 5 2006, 05:03 PM
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I hope everyone knows that if someone is a lesbian, it doesn't mean that they are attracted to every woman in the world. They are just as selective as straight women.
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Feb 5 2006, 07:29 PM
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^I agree. I hate it when someone finds out their friend is either gay/lesbian, they would think they like them
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Feb 5 2006, 09:54 PM
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yea, it would mean they dont have the same ideas about stuff i do...so we couldnt be really close.
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Feb 5 2006, 10:29 PM
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hot lesbians are hot,
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Feb 5 2006, 10:34 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
i think it'd depend... as long as the friendship stayed strictly friendly then i'd be fine. but i'd probably feel uncomfortable with talking about it honestly
 cuz i wouldn't want to 'condemn' her or anything, but it's still against... morals... i mean there's nothing wrong with the PERSON of course 
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Feb 6 2006, 06:40 PM
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 A laugh spreads, so do some spreading! Group: Member Posts: 529 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,319 |
QUOTE(kaleidoscoped @ Jun 12 2004, 2:18 PM) Not comfortable, persay, but not completely disgusted. yea same here. |
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Feb 6 2006, 06:57 PM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
I would be okay with it.
If she told me that she was a lesbian, i mean...I can't do anything about it. I'm not going to judge her for it, or stop hanging out with her. If she told me she was a lesbian and in love with me. Well, that would be a harder situation since I wouldn't feel the same way obviously. But either way I would still want to remain friends |
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Feb 7 2006, 08:48 PM
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 portami via Group: Member Posts: 467 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,187 |
My best camp friend was a lesbian, and I didn't feel uncomfortable at all.
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Feb 7 2006, 09:38 PM
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 ^ignore. read> Maria. Group: Member Posts: 710 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 323,799 |
i hav never thought about it but if i DID have a lesbian friend........... YES
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Feb 8 2006, 10:41 PM
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QUOTE(liquidize @ Feb 5 2006, 10:29 PM) hot lesbians are hot, That's the most uselessly redundant thing I've heard all day. |
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Feb 8 2006, 10:54 PM
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 Too slow. Group: Member Posts: 2,730 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,320 |
I think it would just be the same thing.
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