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[momo9041]

why is it that women/ladys my age [13] dont seem to have an inisence about them?

Example:
knowing what oral sex is,ect.

[lostgrl16]

you mean innocence? lol

they do, for the fact that they dont know about, ie oral sex. they're usually viewed as innocent until the late teens.

edit:: (sorry had to run off)
but now for some reason, kids are havin sex at younger and younger ages. while i was in 8th grade, kids younger than me somehow had the genius idea that balloons could somehow take the place of condoms.

[shortnsweet88]

I think the world is just changing. People are slowly but surely changing the way we view things. We are compromising our beliefs and slowly becoming numb to things that would have shocked us years ago. Its the way the world works, sad..but true.

[*suddenly she*]

What Robbi said.

I don't understand why it matters, as long as the girl has her own boundaries set. I knew in elementary school... but it's not like I'm a good standard for anythingg. Haha.

[*mishyerr*]

Because 13 is usually the age they take health class.

And because guys usually start masturbating before that age. The internet is access to a lot of good and naughty information.

[Cujiine]

Cause we're reverting back to like the middle ages where thirteen year olds were married off to fifty year olds because they were physically mature enough. Now adays yeah they're physically mature enough (most of the time) and then they think they're mature enough mentally but they're not. They get frustrated easily enough and they say they want a baby but when they actually have one they don't want it any more.

[alysaphobia]

This quite bugs me, as I'm a junior in high school and I see these middle schoolers starting to do nasty stuff. I realize, though, that with even more media like television, tabloids and movies slowly sort of making sex a more casual thing instead of a taboo topic, some peoples' beliefs are starting to change. And also... young people can really easily access such media via the internet, so they tend to be more... um... "educated" on the topic than kids used to be.

[momo9041]

thanks guy ^_^ this helped. although i still think that i shouldnt even know avout those kinds of things.to me its just not right.

[LJAy]

I think the world is just changing. People are slowly but surely changing the way we view things. We are compromising our beliefs and slowly becoming numb to things that would have shocked us years ago. Its the way the world works, sad..but true.

I don't think this is necissarily true, we may have compromised the morals that humans have held for the past few hundred years, but humans and animals are one, we have created these morals ourselfs, and why should things we do naturally as humans be viewed as wrong???

[michellerrific]

Kids are maturing faster these days. Apparently they think they'll look cooler that way. It's the new drugs.