I feel foolish. Options

[wishforhelsinki]

My two good friends got out of a year and a half relationship. I knew the guy longer so I talked to him and helped him get through it. But I started forming feelings for him and recently I found out he did, too. But he's still really in love with the girl, and so is she. I've been talking to her now and she doesn't want to get back with him because of me. I've told her more than enough of times that I want them to be together. I felt really good about it...but then, now what I wanted to happen is really happening, and I feel resentment all of the sudden.



Did I do the right thing? Because I feel I should've listened to her and taken that chance. But I'm still happy about them talking. I just wish I had nothing to do with it in the beginning.

[cupcakex]

I think you did the right thing.
You'll probably feel better, over time.
&If not, you can always talk to them about it.
Just, wait it out, for a little.

[alysaphobia]

i think you did the right thing too. :]
it's cool you put your friend's feelings ahead of your own
because if you hadn't... you guys may have stopped being friends.
^and as cupcakex said... you'll feel better over time.

[wishforhelsinki]

Okay, after a really long cry and more talking, I do feel good about the choice I made now. Thanks guys.