...Jeeze i don' know what to do:( |
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 Mar 30 2007, 12:28 PM
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Senior Member  Group: Member Posts: 55 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 495,876  |
K well i like this girl, preety much sums it up. We talk on the phone and msn everyday for maybe 10 hours l8er we realize how late it is so we just go to bed lol. But one day i just couldn't keep it in anymore and i told her how i felt for her *and trust me it felt great getting that off my chest*. After that she told that she fell really hard for me and can't stop thinking of me. Now here comes the problem. She *somewhat* has a bf. You see we live in Canada but he moved to the UK a while ago. She tells me that they maybe only talk once every 4 months now and she gets really sad so i try to make her feel better. I know she likes the guy and it's a long distance relationship and it must be really hard for her but they dont even talk anymore. And it seems like sometimes she doesn't want to talk about it at all. Most times i don't know i can always sense when she's about to cry just by the way her tone of voice goes. Her friends told me just to give her some more time cause she's really confused right now and she's doesn't know what to do (or what she wants). But my friends say just go for it. I dont' know if i would feel right though just going for it when she's so disoriented right now. What do you guy/girls think i should do? Thanks for the replies if any much appreciated.
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Mar 30 2007, 01:08 PM
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 omfg, rtfql. Group: Member Posts: 649 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 511,564 |
She's obviously going through a tough time, so you being there for her probably means a lot.
Don't try to rush in to a relationship, just give it time, and help her a lot. It will probably be better for her being in a relationship with someone who's around, because she got out of one with a guy she never saw. Like I said, help her out, &give her time. |
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Mar 30 2007, 01:11 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 55 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 495,876 |
thanks your reply means alot. I help her out all the can and even when she's blue i make her laugh (alot too) lol
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Mar 30 2007, 02:21 PM
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 Krista. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,380 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 391,319 |
I agree with Rachell.
Don't try to make any moves yet; if you help her out through her troubles now, she'll appreciate it in the long run. That'll be better for you if she wants to go out with you later. |
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