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 Mar 9 2007, 06:40 PM
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Newbie  Group: Member Posts: 3 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 506,984  |
Alright. There's this guy I really, really like. But he's still not over his ex and he finds me as one of his best friends. My friends say I should tell him, but I don't think I should because I know he doesn't feel the same anymore. Anymore? Because a couple of days ago he confessed he liked me but never told me; though I'm hoping he still does. Eh, what do I do?!
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Mar 9 2007, 06:43 PM
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 rissa. Group: Member Posts: 621 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 436,690 |
tell him. if yes. go with with him. if no. get over it. move on.
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Mar 9 2007, 06:51 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
TELL HIM!
OMG! COMMUNICATION! This ingenious thing where people talk, share feelings and create a deeper relationship. Yes, baby, that is the power of communication? Now how much is this glorious product? Why free, of course. All you have to do is open you mouth and say how you feel. Yes. Communication. Good stuff. |
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| *Intercourse.* |
Mar 9 2007, 07:09 PM
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Yea I agree with the whole
OMG TELL HIM! C-O-M-M-U-N-I-C-A-T-I-O-N. Just go tell him, if he said he liked then thats pretty much a big open circle for him wanting you to tell him how you feel. Duh, anyway good luck and don't be to worried about it, if you want to tell him then tell him. |
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Mar 9 2007, 09:11 PM
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If you feel that you have the confidence to tell him the truth, I suggest you go for it before its too late!
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| *Uronacid* |
Mar 10 2007, 12:03 AM
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Yeah... same thing... COMMUNICATE
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Mar 10 2007, 01:43 AM
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 Jake - The Unholy Trinity / Premiscuous Poeteer. Group: Member Posts: 1,272 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 411,316 |
Shut up with the communication. She's not f**king five.
She doesn't need to be told to communicate. She needs to be told to stop being a baby and use your head. You have to realize something. Generally, when you think you want to do something, but you're unsure cause you're not sure what the other person will do, they don't have the thinking patterns like you do. It's never as bad as you think it will be. DUH! Get off your ass and tell him. Nothing bad can come out of this. |
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| *Uronacid* |
Mar 13 2007, 05:11 PM
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QUOTE(JakeKKing @ Mar 10 2007, 2:43 AM)  Shut up with the communication. She's not f**king five. She doesn't need to be told to communicate. She needs to be told to stop being a baby and use your head. You have to realize something. Generally, when you think you want to do something, but you're unsure cause you're not sure what the other person will do, they don't have the thinking patterns like you do. It's never as bad as you think it will be. DUH! Get off your ass and tell him. Nothing bad can come out of this. You just told her the same thing... |
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Mar 13 2007, 05:29 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
Everyone is saying the same thing in this thread Josh...haha
Anyway, if he told you a few days ago that he was into you, why are you waiting? Just say hey, remember what you said a few days ago about never telling me your feelings about me, well I feel the same way. Just let him know that you like him too and hopefully something will come off it. |
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Mar 13 2007, 05:37 PM
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RJL<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,194 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,019 |
Hmmmm, when he told you he liked you a couple days ago, did he mean he liked you like two years ago (or a really long time ago) or just recently?
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| *Uronacid* |
Mar 13 2007, 06:12 PM
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QUOTE(Rachel is love @ Mar 13 2007, 6:29 PM) Everyone is saying the same thing in this thread Josh...haha Anyway, if he told you a few days ago that he was into you, why are you waiting? Just say hey, remember what you said a few days ago about never telling me your feelings about me, well I feel the same way. Just let him know that you like him too and hopefully something will come off it. I know... XD I just think it's funny how Jake told us all to shupup, and then told her to do that exact same thing... :P |
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Mar 13 2007, 06:59 PM
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Just another kid... Group: Member Posts: 600 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 505,690 |
 I don't agree. I say no, don't tell him. If he's not over his ex and he shows it, that probably means he really isnt over. So when you tell him you'll just become one of teh girls on his list that likes him. FLirt for a bit longer, wait till he gets over her. and Then tell
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| *Uronacid* |
Mar 14 2007, 09:49 AM
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Alright I'll get serious with you now...
Look, you say he's not over his ex. I think you should wait until he is through with the feelings he had for his ex. Selvy has a good point that I completely looked over. I guess I don't know your whole situation so I really can't give you a complete answer, but if he's still talking about her like he's upset about his loss then I wouldn't tell him anything quite yet. Give him time to put himself back together. So his feelings aren't effecting his thoughts, and he can make a clear headed decision on who he likes. Wait until you're sure he's back to normal, and if you still have feelings for him tell him how you feel. If you tell him now, he may like you, but these feelings may only be based upon the idea that you were there for him at his worst. I suggest waiting until you can be sure that his feelings for you are real. |
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Mar 14 2007, 07:37 PM
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 Hello There. Group: Member Posts: 1,572 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,673 |
I agree w/ everyone else. talk to him
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