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[Call911Quick]

When girls get together and talk about their dream guy, it's the NICE GUY. This NICE GUY is sensitive, caring, compassionate, always there for you, and respects you.

Real life is something completely different isn't it? When you ask women about men, they say: "Men are SLIME!" "Men are SHIT!" "Men are WORTHLESS!" Yet, at the end of the day, who do they go home with and have sex with? The SLIME, the SHIT, and the WORTHLESS.

You get a call from your girl friend. She goes, "Oh, he always ignores me, I wish he'd treat me better. _____, you're such a nice guy. You'll be so lucky when you get a girlfriend. But, you know, it can't be me, because I'm in love with a shit."

Right, so, women love shits. I can be a shit, can't I? Someone help me out, some pointers, what's a great way to mistreat a woman short of beating her?

Nice guys do come last. Pun intended. Actually, nice guys don't come at all. Guess girlfriend shouldn't come first after all, that might make her like me more.

So what do I do? Say I get a girl's number. I call her, go on a date. Then what, just not call her at all? When does the a-hole come out? Immediately? After a date or two? Help pls.

[MissHygienic]

The adjective, "nice" is just a cover-up for real short-comings. You can be as nice as you want, but if you have a disgusting personality, no, you're not going to get very much in relationships.

Guys are no different or "better" in this. They quickly fall for the crazy bitch who went down on him faster than the other girls and stay there.

Are you whining because you think that you're a nice guy? Don't flatter yourself so much.

[Call911Quick]

No I just read a ton of sites saying how women aren't physically attracted to sensitive, kind, etc. The people who end up in the friend zone after saying hi, u know.

I think it's cuz of the disney movies. U know, disney movies have some guy be real nice to a really popular/hot girl, and she falls for him because of it? Right.

"It’s amazing that assholes can get girls. Actually, now that I think of it, it’s not that amazing. They are assholes at heart, but to meet girls they lavish their undying love. IT’S A CHARADE. They act nice, friendly, and they listen… until they get into what they’re after. Their prey thinks they are in love with them, however when they realize what assholes their predators really are, they pretend like the a-hole is really nice inside. The girl tries to change the a-hole into a nice guy, but assholes will always be assholes. She gets upset and goes to the nice guy to complain about the a-hole. But she claims to love the a-hole… now this is where the theory begins. She doesn’t want to look like she is easy so she wont dump the a-hole right away, instead she will stay with the a-hole. Girls are idiots. They don’t realize that the nice guy has been there all along. He never had to pretend to be a good guy to get girls because he is naturally like that. However, girls don’t see it for some reason or another. They look at the nice guy as a friend, a trusted companion to whom they can tell their sad story to about their a-hole boyfriend."

I'm not claiming to be a nice guy, but I'm definitely not an a-hole. Perhaps I should change that?

Wikipedia defines "nice guys" as:

sensitivity, agreeableness, pleasantness, considerateness, respectfulness, altruism, understanding, kindness, sympathy, dependability, honesty, trustworthiness, passivity, sexual cautiousness or inexperience, chivalrousness, effeminacy, passive-aggressiveness, conflict-avoidance, "wimpiness", "spinelessness", being "whipped", manipulativeness,[citation needed] and submissiveness.




I really do hope someone proves me wrong.

[Flaunted]

because girls usually take the submissive part and guys are the more dominant in the relationship (most of the time). I think the ahole shitfaced men are more popular with girls because they need this security of having someone there and confidence of their manly-ness.
Sure the nice guy is always there, and they're always under our noses? well why the hell are you under our nose instead of being right infront of us! they don't want to break the closeness and friendship they have already created and rather stay in a safe spot.
So you have to make a choice of if you want to take a chance of either being the saftey friend of the risky guy that can move on if a girl rejects him.

idk if i made sense, but there's my opinion.
"yellow fever" from youtube totally had a major influence on my answer btw. hahaha.

[Call911Quick]

Yea the yellow fever guys were geniuses, it was old and they were onto the whole thing already.

[LoveToMySilas]

Women who encounter nice men find that theres no challenge. People like a chase and thats why they confide in the a-holes. All girls need an a-hole in their life so that the nice guy can play his part and sweep her off her feet. As chiche as that sounds.

[S-Majere]

Huh, I never thought nice guys finished last. They usually win out in the end.

[LoveToMySilas]

Nice girls as well as nice guys finish last because everyone else is too busying going through different people trying to find the "right" one, when in reality they were there the whole time.

[tokyo-rose]

I've never chosen the a-hole over the nice guy in my life.

[Smarmosaur]

no, not all women love shits.
it's the whole "perfect" thing being pushed, it's how people have become. society is just saying "hey, if you're not a 16 year old prego girl" or "if you don't sleep with every girl you meet", then you don't even matter.

so, nice guys usually don't come out on top, but neither do the smart girls. it's a vicious circle.

[Call911Quick]

It's a lot harder acting mean than it is acting nice.

[Joss-eh-lime]

nice guys and nice girls have trouble getting together.

its just life.

and the word nice is used so often, i don't really think it carries much meaning anymore.

[karmakiller]

Hey, I know some a-hole guys that are in the friend zone, haha. It doesn't always work that way.

In the end, though, the nice guys are the ones who get married and the a-hole guys are the ones who are drinking and still chasing tail. If you're, like, 16, you're not going to get the girl you want if you're a "nice" guy. Nice guys tend to not be as adventurous. But who am I to say? I don't really know what makes a nice guy a nice guy and an a-hole guy and a-hole guy. If you have personality and click with a person that's all that counts. Maybe you just haven't found the person who you click with.

[angelrevelation]

Most of the attractive nice guys in my life like the mean, fake girls so...

Note attractive nice guys. Sadly, being nice doesn't automatically help in that department, necessarily anyway. They still have to be able to charm the girl and such.

[muddddahao]

I know where you're coming from. A lot of girls just argue, fuss, and fight with their boyfriends.. so to take their minds off things they try talking to another guy getting her mind off things and so she can have attention because if she's fighting with her boyfriend, love or whatever she's obviously not getting enough. Girls fiend for attention oftenly, and if they can't get it from the one they love, they run to other people, but be aware that it's just a rebound type things. Girl's are very confusing and difficult people to understand and get to, we show emotion but a lot of the time it's not the emotion and feeling we're really feeling ya know? We don't always like the really good pretty boys, we like bad guys to, the ones that get themselves into trouble or do rebellious things, because us girls like the chase of getting the bad boys to look toward us and not pay attention to their outside world that's not involving us.

[Stumbleine]

I'm with the nicest guy on this planet and hes always satisfied, so I don't think nice guys come first. If you're nice and butt ugly then getting chicks might be rough... that's life.

[LizzieDeeCeex3]

I fell in love with my boyfriend because he was such a nice guy! But now he's not as nice and can sometimes be a real jerk!!! But that doesn't stop me from loving him. And when he's really messed up, I can't leave him. I like being submissive sometimes.

[MissFits]

That's not rally true for me.
I have dated my share of a-hole guys, definitely, but after the age of 15 I realized how dumb that was.
So, now I don't even have a-hole friends. I was tired of that drama in my life and I am so much happier without it. I am sure most other people would be too.

[Gryffindor-Girl]

Huh, I never thought nice guys finished last. They usually win out in the end.

Me to!