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 Mar 7 2007, 09:01 PM
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Mkay. So for a good 2 (Im 18) years Ive wanted a bf. NEVER acted on it. However I never let it bother me much. All of a sudden a guy comes into my life everything seems great, but I dont like it. D: So we never ended up getting together with him. This is because Im lame/lazy and can't really think about commitment.
So now I realise I dont want a boyfriend. And Im happy wit that. :) However, I feel like I still want some action. Lol And now I feel whorish cause of it. Man o man. So would you consider me a whore? |
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Mar 7 2007, 09:06 PM
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I'd consider you a guy. :P
Its perfectly fine not to care about commitments. However, you can't control your hormones as easily as anything else, so urges may come and go (or not go). Find a fuckbuddy. ._. |
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Mar 7 2007, 09:32 PM
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 Jake - The Unholy Trinity / Premiscuous Poeteer. Group: Member Posts: 1,272 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 411,316 |
QUOTE(Soleil @ Mar 7 2007, 9:01 PM)  Mkay. So for a good 2 (Im 18) years Ive wanted a bf. NEVER acted on it. However I never let it bother me much. All of a sudden a guy comes into my life everything seems great, but I dont like it. D: So we never ended up getting together with him. This is because Im lame/lazy and can't really think about commitment. So now I realise I dont want a boyfriend. And Im happy wit that. :) However, I feel like I still want some action. Lol And now I feel whorish cause of it. Man o man. So would you consider me a whore? Yes. But, every other girl I know is a whore, so join the club. |
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Mar 7 2007, 09:35 PM
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QUOTE(Soleil @ Mar 7 2007, 9:01 PM) Mkay. So for a good 2 (Im 18) years Ive wanted a bf. NEVER acted on it. However I never let it bother me much. All of a sudden a guy comes into my life everything seems great, but I dont like it. D: So we never ended up getting together with him. This is because Im lame/lazy and can't really think about commitment. So now I realise I dont want a boyfriend. And Im happy wit that. :) However, I feel like I still want some action. Lol And now I feel whorish cause of it. Man o man. So would you consider me a whore? No, not at all. You're just being completely honest. Being physical usually leads to becoming emotionally attached. That being said, I wouldn't recommend just having a friends with benefits, but if you do just want to get physical I would suggest finding someone who feels the same way you do and making sure they wear protection. People tend to want relationships for 1 of two reasons: 1 - to get serious (searching for "the one") 2 - to not get serious (They just want to have "fun") It sounds like you just want a relationship without any commitments. |
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Mar 7 2007, 09:38 PM
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Hahah thanks.
P.S. When I meant action, I didnt mean sex. Im a churchie and blah so sex is out of the question for me (for the moment). |
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Mar 8 2007, 12:31 AM
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Jake - The Unholy Trinity / Premiscuous Poeteer. Group: Member Posts: 1,272 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 411,316 |
QUOTE(Soleil @ Mar 7 2007, 9:38 PM) Hahah thanks. P.S. When I meant action, I didnt mean sex. Im a churchie and blah so sex is out of the question for me (for the moment). So, what the hell did you mean by action? Action usually used as a sexual connotation, at least when teenagers use the word. Plus, I know plenty of church goers who indulge in the lustful pleasure of sex. |
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Mar 8 2007, 12:37 AM
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I should have made myself more clear. I meant : making out etc. just the basic stuff.
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Mar 8 2007, 01:11 AM
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wow. i can TOTALLY relate.
 i just broke up with a guy i was with for like 4 weeks because i decided i didn't want commitment & i just want to explore my options, etc. i also knew he wasn't the right guy for me & he was sort of boring me anyways..  anyways, i have always had this friend, since like 7th grade [i'm a junior in hs now] & we have always been close. we have also always been attracted to each other, but never actually said it. last weekend we spilled the beans & well, what do you know? we ended up kissing & cuddling etc. & now i suppose we're just friends with benefits, as bad as that sounds.  but i personally am totally okay with it. he is too.. & our friendship has become a lot stronger as well. after breaking up with my boyfriend, i did miss intimacy a ton, & well, now everything is working out fine with my friend, daniel 
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Mar 8 2007, 01:23 AM
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Chtaime Group: Member Posts: 609 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 117,918 |
Ohh Im happy to hear good news :D..if it were only so easy for moi.
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Mar 8 2007, 02:03 PM
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QUOTE(Soleil @ Mar 8 2007, 12:37 AM) I should have made myself more clear. I meant : making out etc. just the basic stuff. I don't know... if you jsut want to makeo out/fool around... it's going to eventually turn into sex. |
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Mar 8 2007, 04:08 PM
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QUOTE(JakeKKing @ Mar 8 2007, 5:31 AM) So, what the hell did you mean by action? Action usually used as a sexual connotation, at least when teenagers use the word. Plus, I know plenty of church goers who indulge in the lustful pleasure of sex. Jake i couldent help but giggle at the last sentence. But i agree.I too know alot of church goes who indulge in the lustful pleasure of sex.  QUOTE I should have made myself more clear. I meant : making out etc. just the basic stuff.  Darling,Like Josh said that is going to lead into sex sometime...You dont want sex....And you dont want commitment..But you jsut want to mess around and make out and all that? I wouldent call you a whore... promiscuous??maybe I have no clue. |
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Mar 8 2007, 04:12 PM
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no i would consider you lazy ahha
you'll chill with the ppl if they come over and maybe do shit with them haha but when it comes down to it you dont want to date the person its exactly how i am im lazy and hate making plans |
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Mar 8 2007, 04:26 PM
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QUOTE(Monochrome. @ Mar 8 2007, 4:08 PM) I wouldent call you a whore... promiscuous??maybe I have no clue. I wouldn't quite say that you're promiscuous, and you're not a whore. You sound like you want a FWB (friends with benefits) thing, no-strings-attached hookups. |
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Mar 8 2007, 04:37 PM
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Chtaime Group: Member Posts: 609 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 117,918 |
Mkay I accept that. FWB sounds good to me.
And yup I know Im lazy..with university, 2 jobs and skiing ..I dont think I would be able to handle a relationship. Well Merci guys..this clears stuff up for me. |
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