does he still care?, i don't know why he keeps talking to me. |
 Jun 9 2004, 05:20 PM
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 *~extraordinary~*  Group: Member Posts: 125 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,895  |
My b/f broke up with me around a month or two ago and he still acts as if nothing has happened. He keeps talking to me and stares at me a lot. If I ever look at him, he's looking at me. I don't know what we are...I told him I don't want to be friends because he lied to me a lot while we were still together...and I don't even know if I still like him, but I'm just so confused. I don't know how to talk to him about it because if I do, he's just going to start thinking that I still like him and I don't want him to think that.
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Jun 9 2004, 05:46 PM
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 advanced newbie... S2 Group: Member Posts: 3,504 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 752 |
just tell him to be friends with you then!! KEKE
 maybe he just wants to be friends.... xcause he dumped you, right? so i dont know... just dont try to make it too awkward i guess
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Jun 9 2004, 06:08 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
i say tell him straight out that u guys are friends and friends only and stop staring lol
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Jun 9 2004, 07:18 PM
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*~extraordinary~* Group: Member Posts: 125 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,895 |
maybe i should, but if i do, i wonder what he's going to think. i mean..he doesn't talk like mushy or anything but he just talks so much.
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Jun 9 2004, 07:35 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 54 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,234 |
yeah he does!
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Jun 9 2004, 07:45 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
ugh maybe he's just teasing you..
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Jun 9 2004, 08:03 PM
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*~extraordinary~* Group: Member Posts: 125 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,895 |
oh i'm so confused...should i just tell him that i don't want him to talk to me or something?
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Jun 9 2004, 08:34 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 213 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,800 |
i think.. he still likes you .. but.. if u find out hes just kidding around.. hes a freakin jerk.. if u dont want him to talk to u anymore.. why not avoid him?
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Jun 10 2004, 09:20 AM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
QUOTE(conster @ Jun 9 2004, 6:08 PM) i say tell him straight out that u guys are friends and friends only and stop staring lol I agree. |
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Jun 10 2004, 12:12 PM
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doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
ok.. tell him to stop staring at least lol try to make a joke so maybe he'll feel that ur friends with him.. next time u catch him staring u go, something on my face? lol i dunno make it friendly and get another guy friend who u can be friendly to him too so ur ex can see that u treat other guys just like him
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Jun 10 2004, 02:21 PM
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*~extraordinary~* Group: Member Posts: 125 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,895 |
QUOTE ok.. tell him to stop staring at least lol try to make a joke so maybe he'll feel that ur friends with him.. next time u catch him staring u go, something on my face? lol i dunno make it friendly and get another guy friend who u can be friendly to him too so ur ex can see that u treat other guys just like him Yeah I guess I should do that... thanks, you guys. 
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Jun 11 2004, 09:11 AM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
it's best that you just ignore him .. he broke up with you for reasons you may not ever really know .. but you should take it as a sign that he's unstable .. he may still look at you to see your reaction and how you handle things but just keep your cool and do what you have to do .. he'll eventually just leave you alone .. if you start bringing up stuff to him he'll most certainly make some sort of deal out of it and it may cause unnecessary pain in the azzes ..
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Jun 12 2004, 09:39 AM
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*~extraordinary~* Group: Member Posts: 125 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,895 |
thanks everyone. i'll take your advice.
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Jun 12 2004, 01:26 PM
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 =P Group: Member Posts: 207 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,290 |
you don't need that type of guy, and it's good that you had the willpower to leave like that. Maybe he realizes his mistakes and what he's missing out on-you. It takes time for people to get over things, and maybe it's taking him a longer time to get over you.
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Jun 12 2004, 07:27 PM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
hmm seems like he misses u a lot but doesnt know wat to say cus u dont trust him cus he lied to u way too much... so yeah try and talk stuff to him. well like candy says... it's better to ignore him...even tho he stares at u, jus ignore him i guess. like u said that he dumped u, then theres no reasons to like him back again. if u keep ignoring him then he would think that u dont like him at all...and he prolly will learn his lessons, but it will hurt his heart somehow.
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Jun 13 2004, 08:37 AM
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*~extraordinary~* Group: Member Posts: 125 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,895 |
i guess you guys are right. thanks so much!
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Jul 9 2004, 08:06 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
QUOTE(conster @ Jun 9 2004, 6:08 PM) i say tell him straight out that u guys are friends and friends only and stop staring lol LOL. yeah u should say dat |
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Jul 9 2004, 09:25 PM
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 will dance 4 hugz Group: Member Posts: 324 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,950 |
there's nothing wrong with talking if it's just talking... that means he still confides in you and wants to tell you anything everything. me and my ex still talks.. a lot. we even go out and do whatever. but we're just friends. he probably stares at you because there is still something there... he still has feelings. but yea, you've already told him that you want to be friends. so that's good enough right? you're friends.
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Jul 9 2004, 10:47 PM
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 Aww! ^___^ Group: Member Posts: 184 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,645 |
say, stop staring at me!, and then, kiss him [jus playing!]. just talk to him about it, en tell him straight out that "i dont like u believe it or not, i jus want to know blah blah blah"
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Jul 9 2004, 11:11 PM
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 fragile Group: Member Posts: 1,044 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,807 |
i just be blunt and stuff
but i am a very mean person though |
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