SCAAAaaaaRED, i think im.. Options

[NvieDi3ai3yGrL]

there's only one way to know for sure .. go get tested .. and after you need to speak with your boyfriend at least and see how you're going to handle it ..

[simplysweet259]

well, you dont know whether you really are pregnant or not. just go get a test. you could then get an abortion at a clinic if you really dont want the baby. the cost should be around four hundred dollars i think.

[OhSoCrazy]

the reason why im so nervous to go to the doctor is because i took a home pregnancy test..the EPT..and it said yes i dont even wanna tell him..i mean i'm on the patch but we usually use a condom, like for a week we didnt and now this..i hope the test was just a mistake and the doctor could tell me better, today my mom and dad were talking to me on how they are so proud that im the first to go so far in life and that they so proud of me, i feel like im breaking apart

[MrTurtle]

i might be too. i know exactly how you feel, i`m breaking apart too. you have to tell your boyfriend first and you and him have to work it out. the two of you might want to get an abortion and not tell your parents, or tell them together.

[SarahxJoy]

get about 2 or three home pregnancy tests before you decide to tell your mom. tell your boyyfriend you think you are..then take the pregnancy test..see what it comes out to be..no matter what it is..take another one about a week and a half or two weeks later..thennn..if its the same result..you can either save the third one to take another two weeks later..or go to the doctors and see what they say..you would probably feel better doing all this with your boyyfriend..and if you are then tell your mom..but make you shure you know if you're going to keep it or abort it or put it up for adoption..make plenty of plans so when you tell your mom you can tell her your pregnant but you have plans and you hope to follow thru with those plans the best you can....


..hope i helped..

My thoughts exactly.

[caramelx3]

1. home pregnancy test
2. tell your mom
2. tell your bf

p.s. unprotected? not even a condom? Watch for STI's

[Huggins]

TELL YOUR MOM!!!!!!! wow! you cant keep this one a secret!! (if u really are pregnate) but if your not sure, then go to a health center and get tested if you have it.. they cant tell your parents! But if it is.... then you must tell your mom... telling your bf is another story.. but you might want him to know too!

[koreansaga510]

i wish people like you were aborted

hahaha, lol i hope ur really over 16 u should go see a doctor....Good Luck

[T00000]

alright tell us what happened at your apt today!

[topsyturvy]

basically everything that should be said is said.. hehe but pregnancy.. omigosh the whole business sounds so .. scary..

[OhSoCrazy]

okey so i went to the doctor and im pregnant...honestly im like at a loss of words you know, the doctor said that i have different options if i wish to "terminate" the pregnancy, like either a conventional abortion or some pill called RU something. I still havent told my mom, she's on vacation until tommorow, like i said me and my boyfriend are really not in the best of terms so im just so confused in wat 2 do. My sister started screaming at me when i told her, because she also had a baby when she was 18 (by the way im 18)--i feel so irresponsable, careless, stupid and i dont even know wat. I cant even imagine the face of my parent's when i tell them im pregnant. The reason why this affects me is because in my neighborhood its like all odds are against you and i really didnt want to become part of the Latina statistic that we all have of dropping out and getting pregnant before 21..so im just so dissapointed at myself and i dont kno wat else to say

[XaZnX07]

aww thats so sad i am so sorry

i would be freak out if my gf was going to have a baby well i wish for all the best for you good luck!!!!!!!!!!

:tOnY:

[mglbaby]

awww! omg!! im soo sorry to hear dat... i hope ur mom will help u out n ur bf has to know...

[Spirited Away]

okey so i went to the doctor and im pregnant...honestly im like at a loss of words you know, the doctor said that i have different options if i wish to "terminate" the pregnancy, like either a conventional abortion or some pill called RU something. I still havent told my mom, she's on vacation until tommorow, like i said me and my boyfriend are really not in the best of terms so im just so confused in wat 2 do. My sister started screaming at me when i told her, because she also had a baby when she was 18 (by the way im 18)--i feel so irresponsable, careless, stupid and i dont even know wat. I cant even imagine the face of my parent's when i tell them im pregnant. The reason why this affects me is because in my neighborhood its like all odds are against you and i really didnt want to become part of the Latina statistic that we all have of dropping out and getting pregnant before 21..so im just so dissapointed at myself and i dont kno wat else to say

Having a child doesn't meant that it's over for you. It's very possible to continue your education after having the child, you DO NOT have to be one of the 'statistics'. Many women have done it before, be optimisitic.

You should talk to you Mom before deciding what to do with the pregnancy (to continue/to abort).

Do not take all of the blame, it takes two to tango. If you think you're irresponsible, your boyfriend's an a-hole, sorry to be so blunt. Whatever happens LET HIM KNOW. It will give him a wake up call and maybe he'll learn from it, too.

[princess2113]

u need to tell ur mom, and then ur bf....i wuldnt abort the baby, but thats just me....if u dont abort the baby, but u dont wanna keep it, u and ur mom need to start talking with adoption places so that everything just works out....and if u do keep the baby, ur bf(or if hes a minor, his family) is prolly gonna have to give u child support so push that!!!! BUT TELL UR MOM....shes gonna find out eventually prolly

[OhSoCrazy]

Thnx for the advice everyone , my mom called and i told her i have something important to tell her so i guess im going to be talking to her 2morrow. I tried calling my boyfriend but he's really not answering my calls, its hard to feel so alone

[Yemmerz]

Oh my gosh. I hope you feel better. Don't feel alone, everyone at Cb is here for you. If you need to talk or advice, just PM me.

[l_baybeexgrl_l]

dont get an abortion.. bc thats just really wrong.. u never know what ur baby would be when it grows up.. like.. a famous person.. but anyways.. if you dont want the baby.. why not put it up for adoption.. or godparents whos willing to take care of it for you? abortion is just too scary.

[LoST SouL]

wow well i dun believe in abortions but its up to u do wat u think is best for u and the child

[OhSoCrazy]

i know that abortion itself is wrong, but the situation im in is hard, my mother had me when she was young, my sister had a baby when she was young and here i go repeating history..i was supposed to be the one doing something good in my family and now this :-(, i know you say that abortion is really wrong but you have no idea what goes through your mind when you gotta wear these shoes

[LoST SouL]

ive been in the same situation (thankfully i wasnt tho) so i sorta kinda kno how u feel.. but tlk 2 ur mother about the options and the situations b4 u decide nethin then tlk 2 u b/f u r the one having the baby wat u do to the child is your desicion.. n remba jus b/c ur havin a child it dun meen tat the world is ova for you many women out there have made a huge difference in this world while rasing childeren prove to the world that ur xtraoridnary.. best of luck

[Spirited Away]

i know that abortion itself is wrong, but the situation im in is hard, my mother had me when she was young, my sister had a baby when she was young and here i go repeating history..i was supposed to be the one doing something good in my family and now this :-(, i know you say that abortion is really wrong but you have no idea what goes through your mind when you gotta wear these shoes

Girl, you gotta do what you gotta do, it's your OWN body. It's good that you know that abortion wrong, you must know that you have other options aside from getting an abortion.

You CAN STILL DO GOOD for your family with the baby. Are you saying that all girl who had kids when they're young are no good to society? I've met some wonderful women at my workplace who had kids when they're young, and they are success stories. It can happen. You just need support from your family, and that's the hardest part... telling them and asking them to understand.

Hang in there and good luck with talking to your Mom. Just let us know if you're okay and cB will still be here if you need to vent about this.

[OhSoCrazy]

of course there are women who do even better when all odds are against them and they have children at a young age..its just that im not ready to accept the truth that theres something inside me, growing..

[l_baybeexgrl_l]

did u tell ur parents / bf yet?

[OhSoCrazy]

i told my parents and they are really angry at me, my mother is forcing me to get an abortion and my dad will not speak to me