i need a girl...i think Options

[lAzN YiN YanGl]

Well, I guess you could call me one of the losers at my school...I think? I guess I should tell about myself a little first >.<. I'm 14 and I look...uglyyyyyyy. I don't do social stuff but the "popular" people talk to me as do the non "popular" people. I am HORRIBLE with girls. I mean, I can talk to them fine. But, if I like them in any way at all I become . I never had a real girlfriend cause I really don't know what I would do. I "had" a girlfriend last year but we never really went out cause...I'm bad at this stuff. Well, my predicament is: Loser likes girl, girl is friend with loser, girl doesn't like loser. So...any ideas? lolz...and I have a pic too...heres the link http://img42.photobucket.com/albums/v129/x...om/MVC-319S.jpg

[NvieDi3ai3yGrL]

1. you're not ugly
2. you need to start with having a little more confidence rather than putting yourself down saying those negative things about yourself .. confidence is key* .. girls love when a guy is sure of himself and isn't scared to take risks.
3. if you really like that girl maybe you can show her the wonderful qualities about yourself that'll make her realize she feels a little more than a friendship with you.
4. don't be scared .. get to know her better .. ask her anything and everything .. let her learn more about you too.
5. you're not a loser .. losers are the ones who don't take chances, think they're nobody's and ALLOW *themselves* to blend in the midsts of everyone else .. DONT BE ONE OF THOSE PEOPLE!! i'm sure you can do it.. have a little faith in yourself!! GOOD LUCK =]

[angel-roh]

IS IT ME 0R UR PICTURE IS DARK? O_O;; L0LS NEWAIS I SEE UR SPIKEY HAIR, BUT UR FACE IS S0 DARK I CANT SEE ANYTHING..L0LS NEWAIS D0NT WRY... UR N0T A L0SER...HEH U KINDA TALK LIKE UR GAY.... BISEXUAL! O_O; L0LS IM JP!!! HAHA 0K I'LL TALK LIKE IM SERI0US L0LS HAHA... LETS SEE... THAT HAPPENED T0 ME T00 WHEN I WAS 8TH GRADE.. I FELT LIKE A L0SER I FELT I LIKE I WASNT P0PULAR AT ALL... D0NT CALL URSELF A L0SER CUS U CANT GET A GIRL IN UR LIFE. L0LS IT JUS HAPPENS. IT`Z HARD T0 GET S0ME0NE U KN0W? WELL S0METIMES IT`Z EASY F0R PPLS L0LS... BUT NEWAIS CUS UR N0T P0PULAR D0ESNT MEAN U CANT GET A GIRL L0LS. U WILL FIND THAT SPECIAL S0ME0NE IF U JUS PRAY T0 G0D? I D0NT KN0W IF U BELIEVE IN G0D .... BUT YEAH L0LS... I PRAYED AND I G0T MY BEBE B00, JUSTIN^^;; HEHE U HAVE T0 PRAY LIKE CRYYYYY. SH0W UR PAIN AND THAT U REALLIE MEAN IT AND HE'LL GIVE U THAT S0ME0NE...IT MIGHT TAKE LIKE 2 M0NTHS, BUT DUDE WAIT...UR N0T THE 0NLY 0NE WH0 IS LIKE THIS..THERE IS A L0T 0F PPLS WH0 ARE LIKE 24 YEARS 0LD AND NEVER DATED ANY0NE, BUT U DATED.... HEH.. 0NCE.. BUT FELT LIKE U GUYS DIDNT G0 0UT CUS U DIDNT TAKE HER 0UT THAT MUCH.. I GUESS UR JUS N0T READY AND D0NT KN0W H0W T0 HAVE FUN WITH GIRLS. I WAS LIKE THAT T00. I WASNT THAT FUN WITH MY EX... S0 YEAH THAT`Z Y THEY DUMPED ME IN THE PAST L0LS!! NEWAIS S0 IM SAYING IS THAT...
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CHANGE UR PERS0NALITY (GIRLS LIKE GUYS WHEN THEY ARE REALLIE NICE, HELPFUL) AND CHANGE UR IMAGE... (D0NT WEAR GEEK CL0THES L0LS... WELL I D0NT KN0W IF THERE IS A W0RD F0R THAT BUT YEAH... WEAR HIP H0P STYLE, BUT N0 GANGSTA...ERR N0T THAT 0NE..L0LS LIKE HMM CASUAL!! L0LS.. IF U WANT T0 SEE THE PICTURE, JUS PM ME S0 I CAN SH0W U WAT CL0THES U SHUD WEAR THAT GIRLS WILL ASK U 0UT! HAHA
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S0 YEAH.... S0RRY F0R THE L0NG ASS ADVICE! L0LS

[Winter]

Your picture is a little dark but I don't think you're ugly. You're kinda cute.

And like Candy said, girls love a guy with just enough confidence. So you need to be, or at least appear, confident.

If you like a girl, the first thing you gotta do is be friends with her, get to know her! Make sure she knows you exist! Lol...

[lAzN YiN YanGl]

Sorry about the picture...as you can see I have trouble taking pictures of myself. The girl I like is my friend and I am trying to change my look but I have no cash cause I have no way to get it. I can't work cause no places around here will let me get a job (there is one but its volunteer). I cant get money off my parents cause they ask and then they question and if i say clothes they say "Why you need clothes? When I was young, I only had...blah blah". I typically wear some type of jeans, and a plain t-shirt. I sometimes gel my hair. In the summer I wear basketball shorts and a tanktop (scrawny arms >.<) and I leave my hair alone cause its funny...it sticks up...no matter how long...

[NvieDi3ai3yGrL]

Sorry about the picture...as you can see I have trouble taking pictures of myself. The girl I like is my friend and I am trying to change my look but I have no cash cause I have no way to get it. I can't work cause no places around here will let me get a job (there is one but its volunteer). I cant get money off my parents cause they ask and then they question and if i say clothes they say "Why you need clothes? When I was young, I only had...blah blah". I typically wear some type of jeans, and a plain t-shirt. I sometimes gel my hair. In the summer I wear basketball shorts and a tanktop (scrawny arms >.<) and I leave my hair alone cause its funny...it sticks up...no matter how long...

i think that's a very cute style. why do you feel the need to change your appearance so bad? i think you look just fine. new clothes and a new look aren't necessary. you should work with what you have. as i said before confidence truly influences how you appear to other people. if you want to look more appealing .. ACT more appealing. i think t-shirts and jeans are just fine.. i wear the same. it has no bearing on my personality. if you're an interesting person and there's a lot to you that people don't know.. let them get to see that side of you. money and all of that shouldn't be an issue. with time you'll find a job and you can get things that you want .. but keep in mind they're just things you WANT and not things you NEED.

[lAzN YiN YanGl]

very wise...see this is why u never ask guys about this stuff....i asked my friend and the best respone i got was "What is your problem? Bang her and move to the next"...just to let you all know I'm not they typical guy...or the sterotypical guy I guess I shoudl say. I know absolutly nothing about cars, i read, write some things and um...stay at home all day?

heres another pic....but it is HORRIBLE! it was in the middle of the night and i was havin a pic war with someone so it looks...omg i can't beleive im putting this up...i'll post a good one when i can...

[NvieDi3ai3yGrL]

very wise...see this is why u never ask guys about this stuff....i asked my friend and the best respone i got was "What is your problem? Bang her and move to the next"...just to let you all know I'm not they typical guy...or the sterotypical guy I guess I shoudl say. I know absolutly nothing about cars, i read, write some things and um...stay at home all day?

heres another pic....but it is HORRIBLE! it was in the middle of the night and i was havin a pic war with someone so it looks...omg i can't beleive im putting this up...i'll post a good one when i can...

haha yea . there are somet things you can ask guys but others are a lot better if you ask the opposite sex for your advice or opinions .. what your friend said was funny and what a good bunch of guys would say on the matter .. but that's thinking with the wrong brain .. i'm sure once they mature a bit more they'll say things a lot differenty ;] .. it's nice to see that you're not the typical guy .. stay unique and do you .. i don't know that much about cars or any of that stuff either .. so that's cool .. i stay home a lot like a bum too .. i love to spend time with my family more than with friends .. that's just me .. and i don't mind it .. just be happy with who you are .. don't change for ANYONE or you jeopardize your individuality ..

i don't see the pic showing up by the way .. o wells hehe ..

[lAzN YiN YanGl]

oops i deleted it...haha...heres the URL http://img42.photobucket.com/albums/v129/x...om/MVC-301S.jpg and remember it was in the middle of the night, i was tired, and i was trying to look creepishly stupid ^_^

[swtpumkinpie]

you aren't ugly. you should have confidence in yourself. if you don't like yourself, how can a girl like you?

[XaZnX07]

dude i know what you are going through i was a loser back 7 and 8 grade but you know what you need confidence if you have that there is no stoping you and look you dont need new clothes i dont know what girls think but most of the girls at my school say they like guys that are different. you dont want to be like all the other guys i am different because my spiikes look nothing like any body because its different every day and my clothe no one can pull of my look because its different you know so if your different and have tons of confidence you will be the pimp of the shcool

i know i was like you but i change the way i think and look at me now every girl at my school thinks i am attractive lols hope i helped you

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[LiNHy POO]

hey! i dated guys way UGLIER!!! your kinda cute!! dont be sooo shy!! like everyone else is saying... you got to have sum self comfidence and esteem!!! beleive you can get that gurl!! sooo your not the typical guy ehh? well thats not bad!! there's a gurl who has to like you for you!! dont try to impress her with any lines... juss be yourself!!!

[177emories]

okay yeah your picture is a bit dark and you don't look ugly... don't hide in the dark and take pictures!!! show your face cause confidence = good looking... who ever has the physical good looking attraction with out the confidence to show it off, then they are NOT good looking right?...

okay about the gf u HAD... if u never actuall wnet out... is that still considered a relationship? hehe

anyways in the lounge theres many topics on what to talk to a girl about or what kinda date sto go on... so go there and pick up some ideas...

hmmm what else... so you liek a girl who's your freind but don't like you... so how do you know that she doesn't like you? just like how she doens't know u like her but you do... you see where i'm coming form? lol anwyays talk to her more get closer!! okay what is more important is that you shoud FLIRT with her more... if ur too scare dto tell her staright up that u like her..

take cares and don't think ur a loser! come on!

[hurricane_x]

I don't think you're ugly. You're cute ^_^


Be confident in yourself, and don't be shy around girls.

[babytseng]

hey there.. word of advice.. be confident. i dunno where you got this idea of you bein ugly cuz you're not. you definitely have a lot goin for ya but only if you make the best of it. don't worry so much about clothes and hair.. focus on what really counts.. the person inside. the hottest guy can be the most ugliest if his personality sucks. trust me.. i kno quite a few. just be true and have more confidence in yourself. trust me, girls LOVE guys with confidence. good luck

[YOWTF]

hey first of all, i dont think you're ugly! as a matter of fact, you're cute, and im not just saying that to make you happy. second, i think you should be confident in yourself, like they always say, you never know unless you try! and boy im telling you... girls love guys that have self esteem and confidence, but not so much that they are conceited. third, don't give a damn what other people think, just be yourself boy, don't fake yourself to another person cause you are trying too hard.. "what matters most is the inside..." just be cool and try to approach her and take it easy.! good luck!

[lAzN YiN YanGl]

all good advice BUT so many people that are at my school are conceited so im =( but im tryin to improve...so thanks all ^_^

[ryfitaDF]

you, nor anyone, needs a significant other.

[conster]

y u have such low confidence lol i dont think theres anything about you that should make u have low confidence.. and i dont think u should change ur appearance cuz i think physical appearance tells a lot about the person inside, like what kind of person u are, why change jus for a girl? and u should build up some of that self confidence and self esteem

[ComradeRed]

And if someone calls you a megalomaniac, remember: Megalomania is just surplus self-confidence.