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 Feb 12 2007, 09:12 PM
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 hardxcore.  Group: Member Posts: 1,223 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 479,494  |
There's this guy. I'm not going to mention his name so we'll just call him...Z because it sounds cool.
 I have liked him for around...two years now I think it is. I asked him out at the middle of last year & he said that he'd like to get to know me better. Lately, we have been getting to know each other better & we are really good friends. I have kind of been hinting my feelings toward him, but he doesn't seem to notice. He currently has a girlfriend. Yesterday, he broke up with his other girlfriend[[who he'd never met in person..stupid, I know]]. I was just about to ask him out when he said he goes out with another girl. I don't think he's ever met this one in person either. Honestly, I'm 99% sure he doesn't really like these girls. I asked him why he went out with them so fast & he said he couldn't stand to be single. So do you guys think I still have a chance. I have really just wanted to come out & confess all of my feelings toward him but I don't want to ruin our friendship. But I think he might like me now, so it might result in us going out. AH! I'm so confused. I don't know what to do. Please help. 
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Feb 12 2007, 09:31 PM
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Hm, that's so interesting. Why would he go out with girls he has never met nor has any interest in?
I really think you should tell him how you feel. Tell him how much you like him and you'd be better than any girl he has never met because you actually care for him etcetc. When you told him you liked him he didn't say no, he said he would like to get to know you better right? If you think he might like you this is your chance. Don't let it slip away! |
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Feb 12 2007, 09:46 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 283 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 499,850 |
Haha, uh. From my limited knowledge of him, he's not worth it. You seem like a good girl, and seems like you deserve someone better. Someone that isn't as fickle as him.
Move on, kid. |
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Feb 13 2007, 01:55 PM
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I'm Cattt. :] Group: Validating Posts: 1,722 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,831 |
If he went out with other girls just for the fact that he didn't want to be single, I suggest no go after him. He used them. That does not mean that he won't use you.
So, no. |
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Feb 13 2007, 02:28 PM
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QUOTE(Obscure Enigma @ Feb 12 2007, 9:12 PM)  There's this guy. I'm not going to mention his name so we'll just call him...Z because it sounds cool. I have liked him for around...two years now I think it is. I asked him out at the middle of last year & he said that he'd like to get to know me better. Lately, we have been getting to know each other better & we are really good friends. I have kind of been hinting my feelings toward him, but he doesn't seem to notice. He currently has a girlfriend. Yesterday, he broke up with his other girlfriend[[who he'd never met in person..stupid, I know]]. I was just about to ask him out when he said he goes out with another girl. I don't think he's ever met this one in person either. Honestly, I'm 99% sure he doesn't really like these girls. I asked him why he went out with them so fast & he said he couldn't stand to be single. So do you guys think I still have a chance. I have really just wanted to come out & confess all of my feelings toward him but I don't want to ruin our friendship. But I think he might like me now, so it might result in us going out. AH! I'm so confused. I don't know what to do. Please help. Yeah... it sounds like it's not that serious. Just tell him how you feel. |
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Mar 1 2007, 07:50 PM
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hardxcore. Group: Member Posts: 1,223 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 479,494 |
Okay. An update on this. You guys were right. It wasn't serious. They broke up around a week ago. Pretty much, he has been acting strange around me since then. Like, he's not talking to me as much as he used to & he's just being....weird. Does that mean anything? I haven't told him my feelings yet, although I think I might end up telling him soon. I just don't want to ruin our friendship & I know if I asked him & he said no, it'd be really awkward being around him.
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Mar 2 2007, 01:13 AM
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What Seon said.
Honestly, do you really want to be with someone that says that he "can't stand to be single"? It just sounds silly. |
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Mar 2 2007, 06:39 PM
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hardxcore. Group: Member Posts: 1,223 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 479,494 |
QUOTE(suddenly she @ Mar 2 2007, 1:13 AM) What Seon said. Honestly, do you really want to be with someone that says that he "can't stand to be single"? It just sounds silly. Well, I asked him later on & he said that he had liked her for quite some time. I honestly have no idea where I stand here.  I have no idea why I like him so much. When I started liking him last year, I figured it was just a phase that would pass. But it's gotten worse. Maybe he's not mature enough for a realtionship yet. You think? |
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Mar 10 2007, 09:12 PM
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hardxcore. Group: Member Posts: 1,223 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 479,494 |
I told him. He didn't feel the same way. So I made a fool out of my self.
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Mar 10 2007, 09:53 PM
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 that's what she said Group: Member Posts: 848 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 436,512 |
^ Aw, I'm sorry. Atleast now you know.
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Mar 10 2007, 10:03 PM
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At least you asked him now. Instead of holding it in for super long time. I'm sorry though.
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Mar 10 2007, 10:09 PM
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hardxcore. Group: Member Posts: 1,223 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 479,494 |
Thank you guys.
 What's funny is, I was scared to tell him, & he said he knew it all along.
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