lots of friends probs..., and I'm stuck in the middle, as usual... Options

[asiangetokewl]

ack, I've read so many postings that talk about their probs with friends, so I've decided to make my own posting about my friends and here it goes...

1st problem

So my first problem is between my friends Mike and Joyce. Mike is mad at Joyce because she didn't pay him money that she said she would for Prom. Joyce is mad at Mike because he kept bugging her for the money when she said she would eventually pay him (which was true) It evolved into a dispute between Mike and Joyce's boyfriend. They had a big quarrel a week before Prom and they stopped talking to one another since then (about 4 weeks ago). Whenever there is a group thing that has those two and me in a group event, I'm always the one they go to; they say like "Chris tell mike this" or "Chris, tell Joyce this" and so on and so forth. It bugs the hell out of me... What should I do to solve this problem?

2nd problem

So my second problem is between my friends Coral and David. David and Coral used to be bf and gf. Coral broke it off with him because she felt that their relationship wasn't going anywhere and David kept trying to convince her that they shouldn't break up. but.. yea. they did and 3 weeks later Coral hooked up with another guy named Robert. David got pissed at Robert for taking coral and pissed at coral for hooking up with another guy because one of the things that she had promised him is that she wouldn't get into another relationship until college. So yea... it has been about 3 months now, and they're still not talking to each other. COral has tried so many times to talk with david but he still resists talking to her. She tells me her problems of david on how he's been acting so mean to her and David tells me his problems of how Coral shouldn't have done things and stuff. They also tell me stuff to say to the other person, which pisses me off because I really don't like when people talk to one another through somebody else... I want them to be friends again but everything I've tried like forcing them to talk one another and make amends, doesn't work.... What should I do to solve this problem?

3rd problem

My last problem is between my friends Andy and Yuan. Yuan has began to be pissy at almost all his friends, including me. He's usually an ass at times, and sometimes he's a hella cool friend to be around. Well this one time when all our friends went out to have fun, Andy couldn't handle Yuan's pissy-ness. So Yuan, being himself, got yelled at and sworn at from andy because Yuan was being really rude and mean. He was especially mean to andy by saying stuff like Andy was a loser and he didn't deserve all the friends that he had. of course he took that into offense and now they haven't talked since then (about a month ago). They shit behind one another's back to me Like "andy is such as a-hole this" or "yuan's being a bastard because he does this..." dahhh I hate when people say shit behind one another's back; it's so wrong... dahhh I'm going crazy with their dumb bickering!!! dahhh! What should I do to solve this problem?

I don't want to just abandon everything and say "I shouldn't involve myself" but I really do want to involve myself and solve the problem. I like being helpful. I hate my friends not talking to one another. dahh~ what should I do to solve these problems???

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