am i ready or not?, fooling around |
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 Jan 18 2007, 07:41 PM
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 <333  Group: Member Posts: 59 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 496,434  |
my boyfriend and i really wanna 'fool around' together. we decided that we would fool around at his house. im kinda nervous though but at the same time im horny and i really wanna do this. i cant tell if im nervous because im afraid of getting cought by his parents or it just being my first time trying this. were you nervous the first time you did something like this? if im nervous does this mean im not ready?
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Jan 18 2007, 07:54 PM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
Take it slow, and if you feel uncomfortable at any time, make sure you let him know. Good that you guys talked about it though, being nervous is natural.
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| *salcha4u* |
Jan 18 2007, 09:23 PM
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QUOTE(vertskatergirl @ Jan 18 2007, 4:41 PM)  im kinda nervous though but at the same time im horny  What the...you're like 13 years old. Keep your pants on. |
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Jan 18 2007, 09:28 PM
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Woah if your really 13 years old like Salcha4u (forgot your name) said, keep your pants on. And if your nervous and its not because of getting caught then I don't think your really comfortable enough to do a lot with your boyfriend. Make sure you figure out what you really want to do and what you don't want to do. You shouldn't ever rush things.
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| *brownsugar* |
Jan 18 2007, 09:37 PM
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What kind of fooling around are you talking about..?
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Jan 18 2007, 10:24 PM
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 I reject this reality and substitute it with my own! Group: Member Posts: 276 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 486,863 |
13 sounds pretty young to be fooling around in my opinion,
but if you go to a forum asking whether it's right or not.. That says you're not exactly confidence with this decision.  Think it over??
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Jan 18 2007, 10:44 PM
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 i'm maggie =] Group: Member Posts: 3,607 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 361,616 |
if youre turning to a website to ask..then youre obviously not ready.
actually, if youre asking anyone, youre not ready. |
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Jan 18 2007, 11:11 PM
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^ Really though. I agree.
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Jan 18 2007, 11:16 PM
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 Beauty in the Breakdown Group: Member Posts: 256 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,917 |
I believe that you are way too young. You are going to have all that hormone crap going on...dont think it means that its time to give into them. Also...its normal to be nervous when you have planned it out and thought thuroughly about how you are going to go about the situation. This is just an opinion probably but those things are just supposed to kind of "happen". Dont push anything.
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Jan 18 2007, 11:19 PM
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I think you should wait. You're like what? 13? Get back to your homework, young lady! Like what the others said, Keep yo pants on! Unless you mean fooling around like tickling, then that's a whole different story.
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Jan 19 2007, 12:26 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
you are not ready to be doing this.
i mean you're asking us if you're ready and it sounds rather young to be fooling around at the age of 14 don't you think?? |
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Jan 19 2007, 12:28 AM
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 vivacity Group: Official Member Posts: 3,183 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 495,247 |
QUOTE(APPLEjuicex @ Jan 18 2007, 7:44 PM) if youre turning to a website to ask..then youre obviously not ready. word. if you're gonna ask it here then it means you're hesistant, which in other words means you're not so ready yet. And besides, you're 13. no offense to disrupt your uh, plans, but seriously, you need to wait. that is really young.
actually, if youre asking anyone, youre not ready. |
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Jan 19 2007, 08:44 PM
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Guys lay off, maybe she just doesn't have anyone to turn to at home or is to embarassed to ask.
If you really want to, then do it. Just don't go to far to fast. Take it slow. No one can know if you're comfortable but you. |
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Jan 19 2007, 08:52 PM
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QUOTE(Gypsy Eyes @ Jan 19 2007, 8:44 PM) Guys lay off, maybe she just doesn't have anyone to turn to at home or is to embarassed to ask. I'm sayin. People are acting like they've never had doubts before...I agree with the part about asking online though. But I guess it's better than not knowing 
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Jan 19 2007, 10:13 PM
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<333 Group: Member Posts: 59 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 496,434 |
im 15, not 13.
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Jan 19 2007, 10:40 PM
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if you really have to ask people, then you're not ready. you shouldn't have a doubt or question in your mind.
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Jan 19 2007, 10:52 PM
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I reject this reality and substitute it with my own! Group: Member Posts: 276 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 486,863 |
QUOTE(vertskatergirl @ Jan 19 2007, 7:13 PM) im 15, not 13.  Sorry about that.I saw previous posts saying 13 so I just carried it on thinking you were. |
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Jan 20 2007, 12:32 AM
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Beauty in the Breakdown Group: Member Posts: 256 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,917 |
QUOTE(vertskatergirl @ Jan 19 2007, 9:13 PM) im 15, not 13. Well I have to apologize to you then. At fifteen I think you are old enough to fool around...but I still believe that sex should be out of the option. Nervousness is a part of this stuff...just relax and make sure you really trust and care about this guy :) |
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Jan 20 2007, 03:59 AM
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QUOTE(vertskatergirl @ Jan 19 2007, 7:13 PM) im 15, not 13. Yeah LOL I love how I made an assumption and everyone just based it off my post. So awesome. QUOTE(Shortnsweet88 @ Jan 19 2007, 9:32 PM) At fifteen I think you are old enough to fool around... Wow, reread what you just wrote. |
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| *a painefull euphoria* |
Jan 20 2007, 10:49 AM
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QUOTE At fifteen I think you are old enough to fool around... are you bloody serious????? what kind of advice is that??? |
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Jan 20 2007, 06:21 PM
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unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
I think no matter what, you're always going to be nervous. What if she keeps telling herself 'no, because i'm nervous' until she's like.... fifty? You're going to be nervous, so take it slow, and if you feel uncomfortable, then stop. THat's it.
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Jan 20 2007, 06:49 PM
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 chinky Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,566 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 434,437 |
uh.
don't do it. you're only 15. besides, you should do it when you KNOW that the time is right. |
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Jan 20 2007, 07:33 PM
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<333 Group: Member Posts: 59 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 496,434 |
QUOTE(mai_z @ Jan 20 2007, 6:21 PM) I think no matter what, you're always going to be nervous. What if she keeps telling herself 'no, because i'm nervous' until she's like.... fifty? You're going to be nervous, so take it slow, and if you feel uncomfortable, then stop. THat's it. yeah..your right. i think once i start i wont feel nervous or uncomfertable anymore. |
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Jan 21 2007, 05:41 PM
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unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
don't use what I say as an 'excuse' to block out your gut feelings though, okay? Most girls have an uncanny way to know when something's not right. If things get going, and you don't feel right... make sure you tell him to stop.
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Jan 23 2007, 08:46 AM
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X x L o L a x X Group: Member Posts: 66 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 430,749 |
bein nervous aint somin nu
i was nervous da 1st tym buh i got ova it it jus may b bcoz u aint dun somin lyk dis b4  practis mkez perrrrfectp.s dis iz lolpopz m8 aka zeee |
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