i dont know what to do.. Options

[*x0htheMYSTERY*]

so, there`s this guy.. a while ago, he told me he loved me.. but that was a day after he got rejected from ANOTHER girl. and she told me. so i was heartbroken. then.. i was kinda miserable for a couple days.. then 2 days later passed and that day, he came to me.. gave me a hug from behind and told me he loved me. i liked this guy before this for a while and still going.. anyway.. yeah.. for only one day, we kind of walked like half way home hold hands and him holding me.. and winter break started.. then like a week later.. he kinda broke it off with me.. and like i was broken hearted.. then like school came back.. and we haven`t talked to each other.. i just want him back.. and if its only a friend, its okay.. but then.. i'm scared to get hurt.. again. yu know? i have no idea what to do.. i want to talk.. but dont want to..

[xforgottenlove]

honestly, i think he probably used you to get over that other girl. forget about him [: there are plenty more fish in the sea; you don't need him.

[unconfirmed_exis...]

Sounds like he used you as a rebound..
Which leaves me with the impression
he isn't such a wonderful person to like.
Maybe it's because you miss the
feeling of being with the person..

@.@; I would try to move on if he's that sort of person.
You sort of.. deserve.. better.. then that.

[*x0htheMYSTERY*]

aye. my friend, she also thought of it as a rebound..
and thanks to yu guys..

but i cant get over him ><''

[unconfirmed_exis...]

Stuff like crushes and loves,
they usually take a while to get over.
(it mostly depends on the situation
and the people involved)

Dwelling on him would probably only give
you heartaches, which are not so nice feelings..

So give it some time, or try to get your mind off
of the person and do something that makes you happy.

[*x0htheMYSTERY*]

i try.. but he is like everywhere.. i see him all the time at school.. and everything.. brings back the memories. like.. each time.. i hear the words FOREVER.. i reminds me of him.. kuhs it was our song.. then when ever someone gets sick.. that reminds me of him too.. kuhs that day, he pulled me closer to him, saying i dont want you to get sick. and pulled me more and more closer.. believe me.. every little thing reminds me of him.

[michellerrific]

i used to like a guy but it took me a very long time to get over it, but now i have. don't worry, time heals everything. focus on happier things, hanging out with other friends, and it'll be gone sooner or later.

[*Uronacid*]

Man, that guy sounds like a manipulative jerk.

DO NOT GO BACK OUT WITH HIM, OR REMAIN FRIENDS.

He manipulates you by acting like nothing is wrong and treating you good when all he wants to do is use you. Would you trust him if you were in any sort of relationship with him. Especially after what he did. Do you think it's worth having a friendship with him? Also, many times guys (like this on, not all guys) will remain friends just to get some action on the side during a dry spell.

[_sarcastic_]

forget about him, don't even be friends with him anymore
it's pretty obvious that he used you as a rebound.

[multifaceted]

he used you either way. as in to get over his loss and to probably show to his ex gf that there are other people who want him.

i would just talk to him like i'd forgotten the whole dating thing. (cause usually i do)

[amyx312]

seem like something that happened to me. don't fall for it. he's using you i mean are you sure he loves you? guys just say things they don't mean. no one knows what love it honestly. but just listen to your heart do what you think is the best.

[nhikpham678]

dang that`sz cold!! he used u =[[ i hope it goes better 4 u