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 May 11 2004, 04:05 PM
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 teach me korean... i'm serious  Group: Member Posts: 918 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,427  |
i feel a friend and i are drifting apart. he/she doesn't really care enough to talk, and i'm left in the dark a lot... should i just move on, or something else.
and no... if you're friend is really close... or if your friend isn't that much of a friend to begin with kind of thing... he/she is just a friend... maybe was... |
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May 11 2004, 05:35 PM
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I don't really understand the second part of your topic, but it sounds like you really like this person a lot. If you do like your friend this much then you need to talk to them about what's going on. You both have to work at the problems you're dealing with, not just he/she. Just talk to them and try to work things out. Hope I helped
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May 11 2004, 07:32 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
wow.. I could totally relate.. It sucks.. well, talk it over with your friend. Things will eventually end up changing.. you'll see!
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May 11 2004, 08:03 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,153 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,193 |
i`m in the same situation with my so called bestfriend. i moved on though because i found out many scandalous things about her that she`s kept behind my back and continues to even when i confront her
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May 11 2004, 09:53 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 122 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,137 |
Wow, i'm going through this right now myself. I've been really close with this person since 3rd grade and since last year we had no classes together. I thought our relationship was stronger than that, but she started hanging out with different people than me, and we only talk online every once in a while and sometimes i see her before school starts in the morning. I don't really know what to do about it. I don't really think you can do much.
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May 12 2004, 12:59 AM
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 I have 6 blue blocks :3 Group: Member Posts: 2,248 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 14,959 |
i seriously don't get what you said in the secound part of your topic. Anyway you should try and be 'friends' again. i mean there isn't any thing between you guys right? right!? if there is then you guys should still become friends. so try and get together.
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May 12 2004, 02:18 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 68 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,821 |
if you care. "communication" is the key. talk it over with your friend. hear eachother out. wellz, good luck!
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Jun 9 2004, 07:32 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 54 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,234 |
ohhhh
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Jun 9 2004, 07:53 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
this is REALLY confusing... what do you want to know??
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Jun 9 2004, 08:43 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 213 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,800 |
me and a lot of my friends drifted off... they dont even bother to talk to me anymore.. i dont think they even care..
 .. but it hurts to see them and ur other friends hang out.. while ur sitting at home doing nothing and being uninvited in the fun.. 
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Jun 9 2004, 10:50 PM
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 Wow it's been a long time!! Group: Member Posts: 1,672 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,954 |
haha silly the same thing happened to me, it isn't too bad... all you have to do is just come to your own conclusions about your friendship, ignore your friends- youre in control of your own relationships, and they are for you to decide
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