Friends.., Why do they have to start so many things Options

You see, I have these 2 friends; Alexus and Joanne. I've been best friends with Alexus and Joanne for the same amount of years and we are really close. A couple of months ago, Alexus broke up with her boyfriend and Joanne started to go out him. Now, Alexus hates Joanne and whenever I hang out with her, she b!tches at me. Like today, I hugged Joanne and whatever and Alexus got all upset. Why are people like this, how do you think I should take care of this?

[T00000]

You see, I have these 2 friends; Alexus and Joanne. I've been best friends with Alexus and Joanne for the same amount of years and we are really close. A couple of months ago, Alexus broke up with her boyfriend and Joanne started to go out him. Now, Alexus hates Joanne and whenever I hang out with her, she b!tches at me. Like today, I hugged Joanne and whatever and Alexus got all upset. Why are people like this, how do you think I should take care of this?

you should remain neutral... and let them work it out with each other. tell them it's immature to bitch about someone they don't care about. but if they keep doing it, know that they do it because they care about each other, and they'll make up eventually.

[LiNHy POO]

eerr she's jealous i guess... my friend also went out with my ex too... i wasnt mad at her... well yeh i was.. i told her how he was a jerk and everything.. but when she saw him she was like *wow he's hot!* and she was kinda dumb than... but you should talk to your friend why she hates her... eerr probaley jealousy

[177emories]

i'm not sure how you could take care of this... but between me and my freinds we would never like a guy that a freind has dated or even a if they just dealt with them but nothing happen...

actually your freind is probably just jealous cause someone else has someone she once liked..

actually get them to talk it over... say like what IF he went out with someone else, "you woulnd't be this way" i dunno tell her about YOUR situation and how your STUCK in between!!

[xtremeliquid]

Tell them to talk about it.

Tell them to talk about it.

Thats a realy bad idea. Alexus practically HATES Joanne. She won't go near Joanne unless its to say or hear something bad about her. I've tried to make them talk but they just don't want to. No Joanne is willing to, but Alexus just won't drop it.

[177emories]

Alexus is just jealous... maybe it'll be different if she find s a new bf better than the old one... than she could be freinds with joanne again abnd rub in her her face that she has someone better haha

[conster]

well i think that u cant get them to talk all by urself, get joanne to do something to express how she feels like if she feels sorry get her a giant sorry card =) or u can talk to alexus about how u feel being in the middle and how much both of them mean to you

[islandkiss]

jealously sucks ass.

well i think that u cant get them to talk all by urself, get joanne to do something to express how she feels like if she feels sorry get her a giant sorry card =) or u can talk to alexus about how u feel being in the middle and how much both of them mean to you

But the thing is, why should Joanne have to apologize for something Alexus can't let go of? I mean, Joanne hasn't done anything wrong, Alexus is just jealous and there is no way that Joanne should have to apologize. I think Alexus should just wake up and realize what she has done. But I have no idea how to make her realize

[ComradeRed]

"Death solves all problems. No man, no problem."
--Stalin

[princess2113]

be both their friends n just ignore them fighting...

[tinababy143]

its just a bunch of drama..stay away from it..its dumb..haha..i know i know..not much advice..but yeah..be both of their friends and if they have a problem with each other then...thats their problem..not yours..

[NvieDi3ai3yGrL]

you shouldn't be placed in the middle of their conflict with each other. if you're friend is going to get worked up after all the years of friendship you share just because you're still friends with someone she doesn't like i find that extremely immature. your friend has a lot of growing up to do. if she can't respect that you're still friends with the other person as well you need to figure out how you'll handle your friendship. something like that shouldn't come between you guys however she's allowing that to happen. do what you feel is best about the situation. but tell her how you feel when she gets all worked up about nothing.

[barbie]

ohhh

[easilyxamusedx]

how weird.
i just went through a situation really similar to that.
except it wasn't about a boyfriend..but they seriously hated each other.
here's what i did: i wrote them each a personal email about how i felt. i told them i felt like i was being pulled in two different directions. i felt like if i was friends with one, the other one would be mad. vice versa. i told them i couldn't chose between either of them because i love them so much and they both mean a lot to me.
i just let them resolve it. i said, whenever your with me, just don't talk about them if it's going to be all negative because i'm still friends with them.
if they can't accept that, maybe they're not who you thought they were. maybe they need some time to think about it.. if you were really good friends, i think the person should do it for you.. they have no reason to be mad at you.
well i hope everything works out with your situation..

[l_baybeexgrl_l]

i used to be BEST friends with this grl.. then she starts talking major trash about her mom.. like calling her a hoe and a bitch.. and yadi yadi ya.. it didnt really bother me until she kept talking about it over and over.. and she backstabs her friends.. talks about her own friends and then the next thing u know it.. shes all like " i luv you ____" .. .. then.. she ends up liking a guy that i liked for 4 months+ .. and she literally brought him between our friendship.. so yeah.. i used to hate her so much.. and we were bout to get into a fight.. but she called it at the mall ... stupid chick...

[HaNeul-ye]

i was in the same situation as you; so now they arent friends. the point is, its taboo to go out with a friends ex,lover,etc. its just too messy.