wtf. is this right?, how terrible! |
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 Dec 23 2006, 01:49 AM
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k.
when i was a freshman in highschool, 2 of my friends dated for...ehh. 2 months? ANYWAYS. my guy friend [we shall call him A.] was into the girl. [we'll call her H.] well. H was saying she loved A, and they were cute and stuff. out of the damn blue, H breaks up with A, to be with a GIRL. H and her new gf dated for 3 months. k. so if you were A, and you were dumped by your gf for another woman, how would you feel? i think he thinks that he sucked as a boyfriend, and she turned to girls. they're both my friends. but A wont talk to H. :/ so, how would you feel? |
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Dec 23 2006, 02:36 AM
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if that ever happened to me, i would probably feel like i've done something wrong to make my partner like another girl, well in my case another guy.
but it's H's choice. if she wants to be with another girl then let it be, i don't blame A for not talking to H, let him get over it first. |
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Dec 23 2006, 02:59 AM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 21 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 474,883 |
no, he's totally over her.
but i was just wondering how others would feel about it. but H tries to talk to A. and A wont say anything. |
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Dec 23 2006, 03:34 AM
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 You say you eat fucking hearts for breakfast. Group: Member Posts: 662 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,026 |
That happened to a friend of mine, where her bf broke up with her because he turned gay. And for a long time, she thought it was because of her that he turned gay. But, some guys can be indifferent to that. If he's refusing to talk to her, he's probably harboring some pretty harsh feelings.
I mean, that's pretty brutal for him, going from cutsey lovers to liking the same sex. =/ |
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| *xcaitlinx* |
Dec 23 2006, 10:11 AM
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the whole "she broke up with him and turned gay because he was such a bad boyfriend" is very unlikely. it could've simply been that she discovered herself while dating him and realized that she likes women. another possibility is that she has always been gay and went out with him with the intention of trying to turn straight or hiding her homosexuality from people.
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Dec 23 2006, 10:34 AM
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It isn't wrong or right; it's just how it is. She couldn't help it if she realized that she liked girls instead of guys. To the post above me, she very well could have been trying to cover up her orientation or "make" herself straight. If I were A I would wonder if I'd done anything wrong, but then I'd realize that it wasn't my fault. If you know you like the same sex, it wouldn't be fair to yourself to try to date the opposite sex.
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Dec 25 2006, 08:24 AM
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 straight as a rainbow and twice as colorful Group: Member Posts: 523 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,415 |
a common misconception is that someone can "turn someone gay"
if that happened to me, I'd be supportive. a little disappointed that I no longer had a chance with the person prolly, but I wouldnt have a problem with it. I agree with xcaitlinx, she was prolly either started figuring it out during the relationship, and like anyone who just doesnt feel the same about the relationship anymore, decided there was no point in lying to herself and others or she started figuring out it right before and dating him was her last attempt to convince herself that she was wrong - that she was really straight. |
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Jan 6 2007, 08:34 PM
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I'm Cattt. :] Group: Validating Posts: 1,722 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,831 |
bad for the dude cause he prolly thinks he turned her gay...
i don't know why she wouldn't talk to him.... he helped her figure out her true sexuality |
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| *Uronacid* |
Jan 7 2007, 12:15 AM
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well, they only dated for two months. I can see how your friend would be upset. He might feel like he's not man enough or something, but he really needs to get over it. Just because some girl realized she was a lesbian doesn't mean that he should instantly come to the conclusion that he is a horrible boyfriend.
I don't know, I guess the best thing he can do is try try again. |
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Jan 7 2007, 12:24 AM
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 daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
Haha, teens. It's a phase, most likely.
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Jan 7 2007, 02:09 AM
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 Jake - The Unholy Trinity / Premiscuous Poeteer. Group: Member Posts: 1,272 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 411,316 |
I dated a girl for 17 days. The best 17 days of my life. Ahhhhh. Liberation. Such a sweet, sweet nectar. Haha.
I wouldn't care. Seriously. Yeah, there would be some feeling inside me, but you gotta think optimistically. Well, she's made her mind, and there's nothing I can do about it. I'm not going to make a big deal about a small relationship. Ask Josh[Uronacid]. He'll tell you. I'm just like, 'Eh. Who's next?' Haha. Minus the 'Who's next' part. Haha. Peace. I actually know some one as well that this has happened to. She's pregnant now. Haha. She's a slut. |
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